Right Age to shift your Child to separate room to sleep alone without parents - Dr. Surekha Tiwari

Dr. Surekha Tiwari |Appointment booking no: 088843 68700
Homeopathic Consultant & Psychological Counsellor|Homeopathic Clinic AECS Layout,Bangalore
In all my counseling years this has been one question which has had varied answers. First of all reiterate to lot of couples that please don’t stop being husband and wife after being parts. it is extremely damaging for their relationship. Right after the age of 7 you should start telling your child you should stat telling them to chose their room and start making sure that the child stars spending a lot of time in their room and so that they start familiarizing in their room. This age cannot be generalized. Children want to sleep separately more out of security . Sometimes children are afraid of the dark or they have read something that makes them afraid. What is the age that the child wants to sleep with you. You can sleep in the childs room. The child can be in their room and you can go sleep in their room. In the middle of the night you can go have a check on the child. But it is very important that you as parents continue to be husband and wife and it is very important for the child to know there are areas in your life where they need not be there. It is not love that you are giving to the child, you are also giving privacy into your life which the child doesn’t need.
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[alyssa]

I am 17 years old and forced to use the same room as my grandmother and 18 year old brother. my mother is now forcing my 8 year old sister in the same room. if you have any advice plz help

[nashecasama]

Being with parents sleepover is the most thing i hate especially when dads but to take your phone and put you to sleep like its 9 pm and they dont care of it

[WINDOWSGamer]

I turned 14 and my parents never let me sleep in my own room until August of 2022

[raahul]

in india you get your seperate room only after marriage .😂😂🤣🤣 or jo log flat mai rehte hai unke 2 bhk flat mai 2 room hote hai bass .... kaha se milega seperate bacche ko ... mam aapki baate sunn ne mai aachi hai ..par practical ni hai .... ground reality alag hai india ki ...

[vishvaprabha]

I was 3 or 4 when started sleeping with my bua.. i was 7 when she got married . Till thn my sister was 5... we shared room from that age... till... I got married n she got Job in MNC... we left our home together with in a month... n now our room belong our little brother who's 13.5 younger thn me...life is round.. now I have 2 daughter with same age gap of me n my sister..

[donnmarcussalazar]

Still 10 years old, Still cant sleep alone Thank you i will try to sleep alone.

[Nandini_]

My dad doesn’t allow me to sleep alone.

[jencyjose]

Amazing talk doctor. Great information

[CC-klnh]

I want to sleep with my little girl. It is one of the happiest moments of my life. The cuddles are irreplaceable. They grow up so fast and kick you out of their room when they are ready!!!

[shaplarahman]

IAM 13 YEARS OLD AND I CAN SLEEP ALONE BUT IN OUR HOME THERE WERE ONLY TWO BEDROOMS AND ALL ARE TAKEN. FOR THAT MY PARENTS WONT AGREE TO GIVE ME A SEPARATE ROOM/SLEEPING ALONE 😅😢

[shivanandamishra]

Wish this video will be understood by my parents

[bellavida]

7? Children need to sleep independently much before this age. It's old school Indian thinking to co-sleep right from birth and continue into toddler hood and sometimes even early teen years. This is actually not HELPING a child feel more secure- it is doing the opposite of that. It teaches a child that in order to fall asleep, someone needs to cuddle next to them or read them a story until they sleep. While this works for some kids who sleeo through the night; for those who have sleep issues and who wake in the middle of the night, they will not feel secure if one day, their parent or other caregiver is no longer next to them. It is completely ok to have a short cuddle, read a couple stories and then leave the room. This helps a child feel more secure as they know they can fall asleep on their own and also not feel anxious in the middle of the night if they do wake.

[anonymous_FoX]

That won't apply to someone why? how can they separate their child if they all sleep in one bed,
This only apply to a Rich and Average Family where their house is so big that each of the children have their own Room

[priyaanulaya]

My daughter is now 10 she never want to sleep alone 🙄 if i ask her to do she gets anger and disappointed 😞 what can i do

[jumgkookslonglostwifey]

I'm 13yrrs old girl today is my first day of sleeping alone, the time is 2am but I;m not being able to sleep

[dancytube]

My daughter is 10+ and she is afraid from ghosts and the dark and she doesn't want to sleep alone

[EK_THA_NOOBDA_OFFICIAL]

I am 13 and my parents does not allow me to sleep alone what should I do

[Kitty-]

I’m an 8year old girl that is forced to sleep alone I have lots of nightmares so I’m trying to get help

[ujalagautam]

I am 18 and my parents not allowed to sleep separate room...I am so iterated plzz.share some tips...

[crisyyy]

I'm 13(girl)and I'm in the same room with my brother and grandma.It is okay?I don't think it's really okay, but my dad don't want to give me a room, bcs of the money