Turning the Tables on the Narcissist | How Can I Beat the Narcissist?

Wondering how to turn the tables on the narcissist? Wanting to beat the narcissist at their own game? Check out this video for some answers to these questions!

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[pondwaterwriter]

When you finally figure them out the perfect sentences will come to you and they will immediately turn so quiet and you will feel their energy intensify I can’t explain it. It’s like you can sense what they’re after and you basically give them exactly that but deliver it as if you could care less. They want to elicit a response from you to maintain control they do this pathologically so when you act apathetic and confident about being apathetic they literally start malfunctioning. We love to see it. They’re vile humans.

[jeffshannon]

Narcissist are like infant's if you don't feed them they can't survive!

[NarcFreeFormula]

Narcissists think they are playing Chess....but they are actually playing Checkers.

[saramacmillan]

I did something similar I was dealing with a narcissist in the workplace, which was an assisted living facility; once I changed job positions within that workplace, I immediately went grey rock with this male resident narcissist and I did it suddenly without explanation. Once he realized that my demeanor toward him had changed dramatically, he started hoovering me. When that didn't work he ran a smear campaign against me saying that I was stealing clothing from other residents' rooms, which the management team never believed for one second. He then gave me the silent treatment and I continued to maintain the grey rock method. When he realized that that didn't work, he started acting as if nothing happened, to which I would say to him, "Excuse me" and walk away. A little while after that I was told that I was to be laid off from my position because of a low resident census. I never told this male resident that I was leaving, but he probably overheard it when other residents may have mentioned it in the dining room during a mealtime. One afternoon when I was descending the stairs to clock out for the day, he started screaming at me, "SO, YOU'RE LEAVING! HUH! HUH! One of the resident care associates told him to "Knock it off", but I walked right past him like he wasn't even there. I clocked out and walked back into the main lobby where he turned a chair towards the direction of the hallway so I would notice him, I walked past him again, mentioned something to the receptionist and left at 4pm. On my second to last day I was there at work, we had a happy hour for the residents and the male resident came to the counter where I was to get some food I was serving and stoically, but professionally put a plate of food in front of him on the counter. When he realized that I still wasn't engaging with him, he started trying to pick a fight with me, to which I said, maintaining grey rock, "Your anger is not my responsibility." He just stood there. He had no idea what to do.

[limitbreakplusultra]

"Maybe they always shoot down you ideas..." naw bro, he won't even let me finish a sentence in an argument. No joke! Not exaggerating!

[bigapplejen]

Now I know I’m not crazy & he is! He uses my weakness against me (abandonment) he knows just what to say. I cut him off & he turned the tables but this time I knew what he was up to

[DEAN_]

I had two narcs in my life a couple of years ago when I worked as a security officer - one was my supervisor, another was my friend for over a decade, who I also worked with in the the same place. Ultimately I did something that angered him, and p*ssed him off, when I got fed up by the constant disrespect I was getting from both parties - I left. I moved on to a great little site, where I wasn't getting the constant nagging or harrassment, all because they were afraid that I wasn't going to be around to pacify their petty little egos. And boy, did I hear about it over the constant emails I got from him, over how massively flawed I was as a person, and how he was the "guardian angel" that "saved my life".

My advice, and only if it is a last resort thing, is to leave, walk away, and never look back....

[georgefernandez]

Its easy to beat narsasistic types. Ignore them number one. 2 is take some time to study logic. Narsasistic types use only illogical fallacies to manipulate. If you know these fallacious arguements and reason with them based on there fallacies it makes them go bonkers loose control and submit. Seen it done a million times. Also never erase there text messages so you can quote them. They hate that! Cuz they like to do it. So Have fun childeren. Don't be scared of them there actually wimps and quite fragile. Stand up for yourself

[craig]

The narcissist in my life are always trying to put me in the middle of all their drama I don't wanna be part of their drama .

[jsaff]

The vortex...i have always said its like being in a vortex of rage. So true.

[KianaDAnno]

Yep 6 years being duped..I will rise above learn my lesson and develop to attract the right companion

[Proudchristian]

I just wanted to say thank you very much for for the helpful information. I am fairly new on this journey and your channel is the 1st one with Christian beliefs and values at the core and that is priceless to me.

[toleedezigns]

Unfortunately for me! I had a narcissistic mother growing up. She still has some of these issues. However, I have taken authority over the situation. There is still a battle from time to time.

[willajenkins]

I beg to differ. The narc underestimated my intuition. I knew, all along that he was trying to make suffer. I watched him sneak so much. I waited until he was gone, then I gathered my things and left, leaving a letter explaining that I was done. Went no contact. You better believe he was UPSET. I took myself, my energy, resources, and effort with me. How dare I? He has not come near me for nearly a year, but I know he watches, how, when...I don’t know. He does not know himself exactly why, or what I found out that allowed me my freedom from the miserable situation. But he DOES know who is SNEAKIER than he was, and who DOES NOT give a damn! What cho gon DO, dummy?!

[funkyfreak]

I was dealing with someone who was so confident in themselves that they flat out told me they were a diagnosed sociopath. After a few gaslighting sessions, I realized I was wrong to be skeptical of their diagnosis claim. I called her out and blocked her on Steam. A couple days later, she joined my match and called me names. I simply said "I didn't know it was a bad thing to defend myself from a gaslighting sociopath" to which she, for some weird reason, decided to admit to 60+ people that she was indeed a gaslighting sociopath. I then muted her, her racist friend and her husband. This made them so mad that they tried to get me kicked for too much friendly fire. This backfired and her husband got kicked for harassing me. I now just mute them the instant I see them join and it is such a freeing feeling to piss off a group of narcissists by refusing to let them emotionally manipulate me while they self-destruct and become very disliked among a relatively small community.

TLDR: as stated in this video, let the narcissist hang themselves by their own rope.

[RSGAEL]

I like how she lined it after 11:11. That resonates with me and I think I know the reasons why narcissist tends to pick me as a target.

[ShiroxYume]

mirroring is a recipe for disaster. it will trigger the narc worse in my case, 10x more abusive hurls and phrases like "seems like you just cant shut the F*** up"

[ryanreagan]

I was raised by an empath and a narcissist both extreme ends of the spectrum I know how to play the game narcissist lack foresight they're highly predictable just being couple steps ahead will completely throw a monkey wrench in their game have absolutely no mercy on them they didn't plan on having any for you

[randymagnum]

Thank you so much for this. Going thru abuse right now. Been going thru it for 3years now. Deciding to end this because of this video, thank you!! 🙏🙏

[alisejankovska]

Good lessons to learn from them!! How to become kinder and better person myself! But sometimes they are annoying 😂.