Invest In Yourself, Not Women

The wise man chooses to hold back his emotions in case the relationship goes south, and he discovers that he’s dating a woman who’s either unstable, incompatible, or unworthy of long-term emotional investment. By holding back on your emotions, you automatically become more attractive because you’re neither focused on the relationship or its outcome. You keep your options open and you’re reluctant to give away your freedom and independence because you value those things above all else.

If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction.

Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she's pulled away from you or left you.

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Trust yourself and trust the process,

Chris Canwell

[TacticalxRecon]

Guys listen to this man! Ever since I started investing in myself, all of a sudden A LOT of women have taken an interest in me and so has my ex! Listen to this man!!

[davidalen]

absolutely true. never make a woman the focus of your life...never...develop yourself and grow...have a purpose/passion...thank you for this sir!

[marloninquirer]

Feel guilty about this. Didnt realize it until now after I had a breakup with my ex. I focused too much on making her happy that I've already forgotten to love myself and make myself happy. Listen to this guy and it'll save you lots of heartaches and dramas in the future esp when things go south believe me

[Lalo]

The idea is keep doing you, woman come and go " so always stay centered living your life

[siddbawa]

What he says is absolutely true! When I reflect back on the women I wasted time on, often investing more than I should have, I know that I can actually prioritize more on myself. It's such an odd principle, but women do tend to get attracted to a man who's on a mission; it shows he loves himself without being needy to feed attention to a woman, and that drives them crazy!

[bahaatamer]

Invest in yourself, get things done, prove to them that you're not a part of the rest of the crowd and watch them chase you down!

[amb.allenmitchell]

Chase after your dream, girls will run after you

[gambit_toys]

When you invest in yourself, it's REUSEABLE.
When you invest in a woman who hasn't proven herself, you can lose it all.

[gambit_toys]

Invest yourself to BUILD yourself UP UP UP UP!!!! no woman can take it away!

[beanboozle]

You've helped me become a man. Thankyou brother!

[gambit_toys]

Invest in yourself why? No one can take it away!

[nickstoliaroff]

This is one of my favorite videos you did
I had a friend back in college that said to just focus on myself and see what happens. I did and it was incredible! Sadly I got lost again but as of five months ago I jumped back onto this.
Guys it really works! Everything he is saying. Just do everything he says and you'll see. Can't believe he info in his videos are free

[gambit_toys]

Investing in yourself makes you more attractive to women anyways! It's a win win!

[mandalore]

100% true. Better yourself, become the best you, the rest will fall into place.

[ricky]

Insecure/needy girls don't like this though cause they want your time and attention all the time

[SanjayKumar-hcjs]

Sir i m from India and i have followed all ur videos and they have really worked for me...thank u sir....u r doing a great job...keep doing it sir...u r an inspiration and life saver for many of us!!!

[hernstv]

Dead on! Guys you need to watch this vid over and over especially when you are currently interested or pursuing a girl. This will save you a lot of heartache.

[DFW]

Thank you so much for all you have done Chris

[dligon]

I love your videos as a man because I am guilty of exactly what you are speaking of meaning I have been investing way to much into a particular woman which is my current girlfriend. I love this advice because I have found myself constantly anxious and feeling insecure with insecurities of needing her validation and physical time that she has restricted.

[leogeo]

Very true once again great video. Unfortunately my gf broke up with me after 3 years because I was just naturally too selfish so I felt guilty did something I never thought I would do. Went back to her after a while and she brushed me off.