The “Nice” Guy & His Shadow/Dark Side

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A "nice" guy isn't necessarily all that nice. He has ulterior motives but hides them behind his persona. These ulterior motives are then hidden in his psyche...into his dark side.

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[darthvader]

That explains why many of those false nice men end up turning into badboys the moment a woman breaks his heart

[joseph]

Great topic man. That shadow side runs deep for the nice guys. I want to elaborate on the two main types of nice guys. The most common ones are the doormat male feminist types that revere women and see themselves as above other men. These are the dudes that have really disconnected from their masculinity and their natural aggression because they think it's "toxic." I believe the main reason is because this is how men are being socially programmed now, to be overly passive nice guys. They think they have good intentions but it's really weakness.

Then you have the darker nice guys, the ones that are a bit more aggressive and masculine but they still hide who they are and have a low sense of self worth. I think of this as your average redpill guy. They're aggressive dudes but deep down they still really pedestalize women and have a serious victim mentality.

[treexkzknaxkz]

Great topic to cover, nice guys always feel they need to cater to a woman to the fullest to get what he wants but in reality, if he just acted as himself, it boosts his chance of getting her. Well spoken brother, keep doin ya thang

[kwamd.]

Real spill fam. Being a nice guy (or a decent guy) is just being genuine and straightforward in a respectful way. The dudes that fake being nice be doing the most, actually. Like you said, it’s just an act they do to get the attention of the girls they like. But really, they’re the “a-holes” deep down. You was cooking on this one fam💯🔥

[noirfit]

This is the guy I keep attracting. Same person, different body. And they are extremely aggressive once they feel they trapped you in a relationship/marriage. Not nice at all. It’s caused ptsd for me and the thought of marrying again.

[klnj]

👍 Just wish people would be more authentic in general. People should just be themselves, and those who aren't are constantly suspicious of everyone else. 🤷