TikTok Marriage Advice Goes Viral And I Agree

A woman on TikTok goes viral with a video claiming to reveal one of the most important secrets of male psychology—and for once, the TikToker actually isn’t wrong.

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[kerryhorwitz]

True story. I was a little girl, staying the night with my best friend. She had an older brother. One evening before dinner, he asked me if I'd like to go to his room and see his aeroplanes ( I am old now, so this happened in a more innocent age). I went to his room and hanging everywhere were model aeroplanes. These came from kits and you needed to build the machine and use enamel paint to complete it. I looked around absolutely amazed at his skill. I turned to him and said:

"These aeroplanes are really good. I think you are very clever."

I will never forget his response to my truthful, innocent praise of something that meant a lot to him. I have never seen such a huge beaming smile that had him rooted to the spot. For all I know, he's still there all these decades later.

I found out many years later that he thought a lot of me. Maybe that was part of the reason that my praise had the reaction it did.

I conclude that with men, it is important to praise their achievements if you are as honest and without guile as I was when I was a little girl gazing in amazement at the aeroplanes my best friend's brother had made.

[doritoreiss]

Don’t forget the part about showing appreciation. It’s important. Women need this too. Everyone needs to feel appreciated and valued.

[pointermom]

I always do things by myself. I never let my husband do anything for me. And I am paying the price. Now he never asks and I just sit seething in resentment. It has ruined my marriage. Ladies, let your husbands be men. Let them do things for you. If you really want them to do something, ask them to do it - don’t just assume they’ll figure it - out and when they do something for you, as the lady in the TikTok video says, smile, be appreciative, and reward them. Don’t make my mistake.

[seventhfoo]

To all women: Tell your man you think one of your tires is low on air. Watch how fast he goes and checks and fills all your tires. I dont know why, but we love that quest for some reason.

[joelobeck]

The only dilemma is when the girl has 10, 000 quests for you to do in an hour.

[izzieluv]

Ultimately, men want to help and are action oriented.

[mattwuk]

It's been cold in the UK last week and every morning I defrosted my wifes car at 6am (as well as mine, I go to work early). It made me happy.

[steveroberts]

Hey Matt - regular listener here. Found your "NOT canceled" to be something refreshing. Feel free to work that in every so often.

[yeahdude]

My ex was absolutely insane. I work at a grocery store and some nights when I got off work she would ask me to get her something to eat, but didn't know was she wanted. That was a puzzle. Some nights she asked for a specific food. That was a mission. Guess which one annoyed me

[kayeruss]

My father never asked, he just went outside and scraped the windows of the car when they were frosted.

[sdhlaw]

AMEN! Nailed it. Why some women think being mysterious and hiding the ball and playing games, when you've ben married for 20 years, is effective, is the biggest and most annoying puzzle of all.

[jeanfourcade]

It's not puzzles that we men hate, it's riddles, encoded messages and subtext: when we're supposed to telephatically connect and understand what our woman is telling us without saying it.

[BasedZoomer]

My 3yo daughter is always pretending to fight monsters 😂.
She will go in between the girly "eek, aah, papa, save me, there are too many!" and the brave "mama, get behind me! I will protect you"
She'll occasionally even have a dramatic death scene where she is overwhelmed by the monsters and dies.
I think the monsters might be zombies, but I'm not totally sure.

[StayAtHomeMeme]

It’s good for little boys too because it builds confidence. You give them a job or a mission and it gives them purpose, yes, but it’s also teaching them that they can accomplish things. Sometimes it doesn’t go well right away but then they have to reassess, change tactics until they get it right. I’ve seen my 2 boys beam with pride after helping their dad around our farm. My 9 year old son loves splitting wood to use in our wood burning stove. It gives him a sense of purpose. He splits the wood and gets that job done, and then we use it to heat the house. And he feels good about himself. Kids don’t have great confidence these days. It’s all kind of shallow and fake. Teaching them real jobs makes them feel better and important.

[Jsmit]

I love how Matt just says exactly what we are thinking every time

[jaceroniandcheese]

I don't know why but the word "quest" is cracking me up 🤣🤣🤣

[design]

My wife is all over this.. she leaves me lists of missions whenever I get a sniff of some time off..

[Cheyennney]

This is kind of funny. Every time my husband is off work he will remember something I asked him to do the previous week and do it like immediately - he had an extra day off like a week ago because we had a snowstorm and he put a piece of furniture together I had asked him to do the week before, which I appreciated, but was like / that’s what you wanna do, very first thing, on your bonus day off? Like he woke up got the call from his boss they were closed for the day drank coffee ate breakfast and immediately went and made a bookcase for our son’s room lol

[charlotteak]

Can confirm, my husband loves quests. He hates it when i don't communicate the quest well. 😂

[nicolechristian]

I truly agree with this. And as a young girl and now a woman who is about to get married, I had always been open from day one with my fiancé about chivalry. I always told him “I don’t want equality, I want special treatment” lol. And even though I am pretty competitive and ambitious, when it came to my romantic relationship, I always want the man to provide and do the more physically laborious tasks. Not bc I couldn’t do them, but because that gives us women the freedom to be feminine and be cared for without the fear of being taken advantage of. Women love to feel secure, provided for and cared for. The more I embraced my Godgiven roles and attributes, the happier and freer I felt. And even though academically I outperform my fiancé, the desire to stay at home, grow our own food, take care of children, have a clean house and a hot meal for him everyday..faaaar outweighs any other job desire in the world.