Dear Future Wifey S2, E204: Single Again? (Latoya London)

You thought the relationship was going to last forever. Unfortunately, forever had an expiration date, and you're left trying to pick up the pieces of your heart and recalibrate. You're "Single Again." Broadway actress and R&B singer LaToya London opens up about her recent divorce and how she's handling her newly found single season.

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[cherlyclark]

Latoya's conversation tone is calming and non-confrontational. Role playing is very effective in seeing both positions. Amen to this method.

[quietstorm]

I'm drained just listening to the role play!😭
Never want to go through that again.
Thank you for the conversation.

[KADIMO_]

How I wish this platform was existed early in my 20s... There's a lit of learning, anointing, inspiring and growth in many ways.

This season your choice if guests and topics is just amazing. I don't know about others but I believe God is using you to reach many people worldwide for their healing.

I appreciate. Thank you. May blessings come your way always.

[patriciascorner]

I really liked how Latoya talked about recognizing her narcissistic traits and actually getting counseling to get healed.

[lyrisgreenidge-adams]

That skit demonstrating the 4 D s consoled me and confirmed that I was not the toxic one in my past relationships.

[nickwilliams]

This episode helped me because my girlfriend of 5 years and I broke up. It was rough because I was ready to settle down and we talked about it often, but since then I have done a lot of healing, and personal growth. Focused on my relationship with God and in the past year, God us opened doors for new career moves, building my own podcast, starting my personal chef business, and gearing up to also start my doctorate which will be paid for. I’ve worked on all the areas that I hid so deeply and have gone through such an internal war of refinement to help me overcome to become. In this season of singleness it’s been a challenge of pain, but a blessing in bliss and I’m grateful. 🙏🏾 Thanks for doing this episode, it helped a ton!

Also side note...Terry...you two need to get together, there is a sense of natural chemistry that is unique between you two my brutha 👊🏾

[melissas_heart]

“When you can love somebody with your words, that’s foreplay.” Gems 💎 dropped!!! 💜 That is true intimacy at a level few can achieve.

[shareenladd]

It’s the “ stop shacking with me and go ahead and subscribe “ for me. lol 😂

[tachiadace]

Love your letters. So touching. I married at 21yrs old and boy was I naive. 29yrs later, still growing and struggling to restore with our marriage. Taking the for better and worse seriously. Thanks for putting in the work this time around for your future wifey. Be blessed. 🙌🏽🙏🏽❣

[georginacreighton]

Oh my god, that role play was so spot on. Brings back memories... TOXIC as xxxx

[TheKingdomTruth]

We NEED more role-playing of positive and negative conversations. This is so nessasary to learn healthy communication. That little segment helped me more than I thought it would.

[ashtonpatrice]

Beautiful demeanor and voice. I love that she’s been divorced twice, has learned from her past mistakes, and is open to getting married again. I enjoyed this episode.

[chaniawillow]

"Change that to entanglement" too funny. Great episode. Self discovery is quite a journey. Very liberating.

[deedeenkosi]

Your acting skills are ON POINT!!!

I remember having those types of exchanges (in real life) with the X regularly and EVERYTHING about how you were addressing her was him.

Thank you J E S U S for delivering me.

[erikamanning]

Quality time isn't needy, you just need the time spent with your mate, spent well!

[tauruslady]

I’m so glad that the topic of narcissism was discussed. So right on point! Narcs have no empathy. I can vouch for that having a father who is a narc to the 10th degree! Another great episode as always!

[myrajackson]

This was spot on with the four Ds; this brings flashbacks of a toxic relationship.

[DiKajigi]

This woman is so beautiful and a whole mood! And that voice!!!
The role play was so powerful and totally relatable. Speaking of being alone in a room, and asking God for wisdom and discernment because you don’t want to disappoint Him... it covers a whole lot more than singleness. It resonates with seasons in life when it is literally “If Your presence doesn’t go with us, Lord we don’t want to leave this place” - regardless of how uncomfortable and lonely that current place is.
That letter at the end.... I think someone was cutting onions near me.

[kenamasunsmith]

“Hurting him hurt me” - Thanks for putting that into words. I wish ppl would evaluate themselves more.

[menamccravy]

Loving the self accessing part, it’s so important. Inner work is big and often painful but it makes a HUGE difference. On this journey myself. ❤️