Don’t let anyone make u lose yourself while trying to make them happy!! #foryou #love #heartbroken

[nic]

I’m sorry, I went through this too… and still suffering the consequences of losing myself, stay strong sister, you’re unconditionally loved by Jesus and the right man will treat you like a child of God

[maric]

Cool quote: "Do not allow someone else's mistreatment of you to be the cause of the mistreatment of yourself."

[Shoe]

Thanks for the reminder. My husband left me 6 weeks ago after 11 yrs together. 4 yrs married. I m going through IT. I m excited to fall back in love with myself. I take it day by day. One day I am great the next I feel like shit. Just remember that you are ALIVE. Your life will not BE like this forever.

[Dess.iik]

This is exactly what I’m going through right now. It’s been 5 days no contact. He brought me to the lowest stage of my life. I already haven’t been on my social media and intend to just completely disappear. I know he’s going to ponder on my whereabouts and what I have going on. And I know it’s going to eat him alive when he can’t keep tabs on me and I just suddenly resurface with an amazing life. I know his tactics and I know what I have to do. I will come out of this on top I’m so determined to get myself back. I will get the old version of me back. The version that smiled more, laughed all the time and was very confident. I will have that and I am claiming it!

[Libertybibitty]

I know your pain. He finally broke up with me for the last time. I decided I didn't want to beg for him back. I'm a new person now. I have my confidence back, I'm kinder, I listen more, I talk more, I'm more loud and funny. And I'm getting married to the man of my dreams next month ❤️

[Keysi]

I don’t ever regret him leaving because that was the blessing in disguise, I knew I would be happier without him to begin with. The breakup always hurts, but I am 4 months in, still grateful because I rather him leave than me forcing myself to stay and be disrespected. It takes a lot of you away being in that relationship, be free. You are finally free! You may not understand it now, but you soon will.

[maythu]

Yes, I also went through those things. I am proud of myself for overcoming this . Healing process is like a roller coaster. I also deeply realised the importance of self-love, self-respect and self-esteem.Fighting and proud of u guys!

[hadis]

I saw my mother go through this so I feel you and I'm so sorry for what you've been through. Hope you're doing ok❤

[fathimaheenahasmi]

Remember when you were crying, shaking, and hurting so much that you couldn't breathe, and you would lay on the floor, begging God or whatever you believed in to make the pain end? every single night? Girl, it ended. The feeling of loss may still be there; it's in your nature to feel that as a sensitive and feminine creature on this earth, but that pain of feeling so betrayed, confused, lost, hurt, and stuck because of how hard you love? You aren't stuck anymore. You can't feel those feelings or be affected physically like that anymore unless you keep holding on to them. Don't let those feelings plague you again. Don't let him plague you again. Don't go back to that place. You've been there, you've done that, and you don't want to go back. If you go back to him, you're most likely going back to that. Trust me, sweet girl, he was taken from you for a reason. As feminine beings, we tend to think with our emotions more than our heads. Practice thinking with your head more. Be strong, be kind, stay stoic, think balanced, love balanced, and support your sisters who need a little extra attention and love just like you do too. I love you. You can do this. We can do this. please. PLEASE. respect yourself. If it is meant to be, it will come back in its own time, and he will come to respect you too. God bless you.

[vishakhasingh]

i loved a man so deeply. watching this video reminded of everything and the sheer disrespect

[tracypolanco]

Went through the same thing and it SUCKED. I always prayed for a graceful ending to that relationship but it wasn’t ever easy. It was always filled with pain, harsh words, and complete disrespect. I finally figured out that I had to respect and love myself enough to never go back. Blocked his number, I don’t have social media anyway, and avoided all attempts that he made to talk to me. I finally found myself again. I love myself again. The old me is back and better. And in that process, I even lost the 30 pounds I had put on. It’s never easy but that pain lit a fire in me where I said I did not ever want to give him the power of breaking me and leaving me broken. With God’s help and love, I can now stand and loathe in my self love journey that has paid off tremendously

[Cait]

This was me close to 5 years ago... Finally realized I have so much more to me.. i had to make myself small for him and others...

[Zoon]

It's crazy how much they feel nothing when doing these things to the person they supposedly "Love".

[vs]

Hey girl! I’m going through a similar situation. Thank the higher power that they got you out, now regain your energy and focus on the positive ✨✨

[im_not_jelly]

Thank you. I needed to see this today. 😭

[karinag]

The love you're looking for is within yourself. Best wishes for a prompt recovery. What doesn't kill you will make you stronger. Big hug.🤗

[winniemarkito]

Glad I left him, and really started to see the big red flags, disrespect and mistreatment, trust me, you deserve better, so much better, when u love yourself more, you realise how important it is to choose yourself and one man’s loss is another man’s blessing, True story, I met mine when i was healing from the toxic person and I was focused on myself and wasn’t looking for anyone, and this new person truly defined my standards and who I should be with, he is an absolute dream come true that I never thought existed, life gets better, take care of yourself and you will attract your true soulmate that will treat you right

[sherryf]

I saw something on Pinterest that said the depth of our wound is a reflection of the extent we sold ourselves out. 🎉
Feel better.
You are lovely. We have all been there.

[Osmosus]

Going through the same thing right now. He's gone again and I'm ready to start the separation. No need to stay miserable when we are on Earth for such a short peroid. . Stay strong girl, you got this. ❤️

[bimandiSandeka]

Same here, but i realised that i deserve better. Same for you, you deserve better than everything. Take your energy and make your soul happy, cuz ultimately she will stands for your ups and downs!❤