About VINCENTIMENTS...HOW We Say Things Is Important

People wanted me to react to this video. I say nothing in it about WHAT she said--I only talk about HOW she said it. It's extremely important that everybody takes that into account when engaging in discourse online. And yes, I've been terrible at this in the past. Consider this video a reminder to myself.

[PutingInaKo]

This is so true, Tom. I truly believe in the suggestions of Dale Carnegie. I will check out the Vincetiments vid. I actually don’t really know anything about it.

[sayurisakakura]

It's so right! Just listen to them. Don't say your point of view. Only speak after they ask you " what do you think? Usually? They already know what they'll have to do and just scared of the consequences. Just be there for them. Believe me i know what I'm saying ( my kid is 12 ugh:( ) and believe me scolding them doesn't do good! Just listen, it really helps 😊

[icarus]

"Raise your sound arguments, not your voice. "

Everytime I hear from Vincentiments that's all I need to remember to remind myself not to be like them.

[dogeee]

Vicentiments is like that one kid who got praised on his first performance. Then keep doing and doing as forcing things just to be funny and edgy ends up being offensive, annoying and not funny anymore hahaa thats Vicentiments.

[mumbleandfriends]

I never skipped an ad in this man's videos

[bear.]

When you yell at someone it is telling everyone that you are gonna become violent and physically attack someone, and if you want to move someone you must open yourself up to being moved. It's like forcing a kid to do something they don't want to do, it doesn't help and they'll end up disliking it even more maybe even hating it.

[SerendipityPoint]

I have a friend who used to be an investigator working under a homicide detective. His job his whole life was to scream at criminal suspects many who are usually quite violent.
Unfortunately, some people mold their personality from the environment is surrounded with.
I don’t know what the circumstances are for this woman. But instead of criticizing her, we should be praying for her.

[fried.rooster]

Thank you for your honest opinion Tom. 😉

[spyromatt]

Spot on! It will still boil down to quality vs. quantity and the how is just as important as to what. Seen the video and was just like listening from the ghetto considering the content wasn't compelling nor appealing at all.

[lyndamauri]

Thank you Tom.That book was very popular during my time.❤

[irenekannah]

some filipino blogger make funny video but the result are so annoying, yet many are watching. Some are click baits!

[ayemjake]

NasDaily could really use that book cause clearly during his podcast with Wil Dasovich, he sounded way too imposing to the point that he's already invalidating Wil's way of dealing current relevant issues in the Philippines.

[Shin-bifc]

Great video tom😁
Still waiting for your live😂🤣

[jasont]

Me reading the video title: "what happened to his English?"

[vanishingstar_]

You are not right when you speak louder than the truth even people think you are right

[bernadinecabanos]

Dude stop putting subtitles. Your intro is OK😂👌

[이기통-fh]

They just didn't get the message and humour.

[elyasessa]

Finding Tom how are, ,,I always wacth your video I like you because you very down to earth, , , I wanna recommend you for the people who likes the story of love, , , I recommend the tithe Shoebox a love story of American guy fell in love with a pinay...it's because it the shoe box...hope you will wacth that story

[janrupertalfeche]

Oof, they were *that* petty? That's just bad form. 😒

[marlojustine]

Yey! Finally, Tom! You have reacted to this issue. I mean, yes there is an issue being raised by Vincentiments about online class and all, and tbh all of us are not prepared that this pandemic would happen. Yes we have freedom to express our thoughts about the society and truth in general, but we must always do it with utmost respect and as much as possible try to encourage people in a positive light rather than making things seem complicated. I am just worried of the next generation of Filipino youth. Yes, we are more aware of the things that is going on in the society, all the corruption and mistakes that our forefathers did. But hey, we must also uphold human decency, of bringing positivity in things because the sad thing is that as more and more influencers are posting their content over social media and the internet, the young people are picking up the negatives and becoming pessimistic about things instead of being encouraged that there is always light at the end of every tunnel.