9 Things Men Secretly Like About Women But Would Never Say

Yes, it’s complicated. The social constructs of the day dictate that men should be strong, not showing emotions, while women are supposed to be caring and loving, and vulnerable. Men should make the first move, chase after the girl, and pay the bill, and not vice versa. But these are just concepts that society has concocted over the years. They’re not rules; they’re not the law.

As a matter of fact, we should all do and say what we feel and stop overthinking. So, let’s see the things men secretly like about women, but would never say. 

Timestamps:
Intro - 00:00
1. When women pay the bill - 00:47
2. Romantic gestures - 01:44
3. When you show interest in his hobbies - 02:39
4. A great sense of humour - 03:40
5. When you are a friend - 04:42
6. Watching you eat - 05:18
7. When you take the initiative - 05:56
8. Your specific smell - 07:05
9. You can effortlessly wear no make-up - 07:39

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[doyourbest]

About the bill. Taking a gal out to a place that I wanted to try, is really my treat, and that experience makes it special b/c she is along with me to share the experience. I could go alone but probably wouldn’t. What troubles me is the intention on her part to pay half. My attitude is if you insist, how about taking care of the tip? That will tell me to what level she enjoyed yourself. When they insist on half, does that mean that they feel or think that I am entitled to expect more ? That internal thinking of the situation and perspective on my part is overthinking it, but to me implies that my date wants to distance herself. It also could be that she wants to come across as fair, personally financial competent, and appreciative of the night out. So it’s a tricky thing to interpret. Just go get coffee instead!

[SubVet]

My fiancée and I were best friends since high school. After 15 years of dating other people we were finally both single at the same time and went for it! Greatest decision ever!!! Been together over 6 years now.

[FoxQueen]

I immediately fast forwarded the part about splitting the bill I refuse to listen to any of that nonsense lol

[marilyn]

When I was young, the guys who I went on dates with paid for meals, movies, concerts, etc. I went out with the same guy through high school, stupidly married my first husband, and they always paid for pretty much everything. When I got divorced and started dating, guys expected me to pay for my food, movies, etc. I didn’t know that things changed so much in 8 years. Not for the better!!!

[Rondup]

No, he better pay the bill.
And I’ll cook dinner for him.
Deal!

[elysenightwalker]

Just go after people you match with do not change just to grab his or her attention because the true you will come out

[jat]

If a man is interested in you, he would never allow u to pay the Never !!!

[nancypeterson]

This is why our country is upside down. I want a masculine man that makes me feel like I am his # 1

[judyevancic]

Some women don’t like hairy men. Some look like gorillas. They have tons of hair on their front and back. Emotional support is very important to women. Life is a two way street. Teasing can become overdone..

[alvarez]

Now married for 20 years he knows my crazy eating habits.

[teresajeno]

No these are not simply concepts or social constructs. It is God’s design. Men and women are designed to compliment each other’s strengths and abilities. You can declare loudly with empty words over and over but truth will always be true! Thank God for perfect design

[mindscraped]

I have little or no masculinity. And I am a heterosexual. I get along with women better than me❤I like being that way.

[johnie]

I am 56 years old. I don’t think you understand men. At least not a real man’s true nature. Then again. I’m old. But I do agree with little or no makeup. That is really sexy.

[ericpaul]

Me realizing i don't need to watch this bc I'm bi ace first I have a higher chance of marriage a girl just cus I like to date girls rather guys and ace I have a very herd time falling un love and I dont what to get married

[bluej]

I want a man that is manly, and masculine, one that can take care of me, if he can’t afford to pay for my meal, then he probably shouldn’t be dating, because if he can’t afford to date, then he probably can’t afford to even think about marriage so he’s not dating or marriage material..
Also, when someone takes me out to dinner, I don’t order the most expensive thing on the menu. I don’t try to break the bank just because he is paying for dinner. If I wanted expensive steak I can go later and buy that myself but if I go with him, I absolutely expect him to pay my dinner, including the tip. This advice that you are giving to people is absurd.

[carolineeccel]

If you invite, you pay. Sorry, no mountain climbing. No gluttony. This article sounds like feed me, feed me. It's a give and take. Shouldering the load yourself will strain a relationship until it breaks. Be a grownup and bring something to the table yourself before you engage in a relationship. No woman wants a boy.

[trixie]

Fact, there is nothing sexy about a strong independent woman.

[dorjedriftwood]

These are not concepts the reason these things are cross cultural is because they are primordial and imbedded. If you do things which make people feel uncomfortable it’s not healthy. If you ever want to love a man maybe don’t take the essence of who he is and call it toxic. Unless you think being called out on your toxic femininity is fun and welscome I wouldn’t dare. You might as well twist a knife. If you want him to feel uncomfortable about being themselves by all means enjoy ruining your relationship.

A women paying a bill makes a man feel unneeded, you can’t change this. Nobody finds it attractive except for users who want to take advantage of your resources. Men, want above all other things instinctually to care protect and reveal a world to women which is new and novel. If the role is reversed you make a man feel like a child. And no one woman wants a man who appears like a child. Our parents pay for our meals if you want to be our mom by all means pay the bill. We don’t resent it we just don’t find it a turn on. If you don’t allow a man to be in his comfort zone as the strong guide provider and protector you have either landed yourself a spineless nobody who won’t excite you or you have taken an exciting guy and made it clear your not ok with traditional gender roles. They aren’t traditional because of culture they are traditional because of primordial chemistry that goes back before humans even existed long story short it is going to make them leave eventually.

Eating like you mean it is just a sign of libido, it shows strong desire, it isn’t complicated. Desire is a huge turn on. The wanton embrace of pleasure in all forms is a door only women can open and we desperately want to be invited to that party. Men are to held back by their self conscious to admit they even enjoy much.

We definitely want women who can enjoy masculine hobbies because it’s the best of both worlds. We get to enjoy what we like and the person we like again not nearly as complicated as you make it. You don’t need to over think these things.

[dotlol]

i literally dont know why im watching this im lesbian 😭😭😭😭😭