Birth of a Narcissist #shortvideo #shortsvideo #shorts #short

ABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG

Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.

Ross's pioneering codependency contributions are responsible for the sweeping theoretical and practical updates and developing a treatment program that permanently resolves it. Ross has been featured on national TV and radio and is a regular radio and podcast guest. In addition, he has traveled the world, giving his one-of-a-kind keynote presentations and educational workshops.

His global impact is best illustrated by his YouTube channel with 27 million views and 275,000 subscribers and the sale of 165,000 Human Magnet Syndrome books published in 12 languages. In 2013, Ross created The Self-Love Recovery Institute, a hub for his personal development, workshops, professional training, retreats, other programs, and services.

[ElizabethLawrence-kn]

And now they give that hate to others who try to offer them love

[susanparker]

And the deepest, sweetest love you can give them will never undo that self hate, and their profound distrust of others. I have learned this the hard way.

[onlyonce]

Some narcissists seem to have been over indulged and coddled.

[itb]

I had this upbringing, but I became hyper empathic and a narc magnet. Im autistic too.

[suzannemasuda]

Not all children who's been abused as you mentioned doesn't become a Narcissist.
Why is that?

[psychotherapistmft]

And they will still treat you like shit and abuse the hell out of you ESPECIALLY when your kind and loyal . There is no saving a true narcissist . Just leave, you will be lonely but peaceful .

[cocobenji]

The better you treat them, the worse they treat you.

[RachelZilbauer]

And for empaths or SLDs, all we want to do is help them, love them enough, fix them. But they destroy us.

[cocobenji]

That's the sad part. I saw these signs way before I knew he was a narcissist, but i felt sorry for him..

[HenryRedbeard]

Nope. I know quite a few and they had great childhoods.

[tonifoster]

How sad is this that children survive this upbringing, by passing the hurt etc onto others. Thanks Ross for breaking it down it’s very helpful! You’re a legend.

[claudi]

I went through unimaginable abuse and trauma too, but I'm not like my narcissist abuser. At lesst I believe I'm not... How come some become narcissistic and others don't?

[AgentSquiddy]

Yeah but it doesn't excuse the shit they do as adults and how they treat people . My ex was like that and no matter how much I gave and helped her she'd be a cheating bitch I'm so happy I'm finally away from her but I have no love for people like that . Childhood doesn't excuse adult actions

[tonifoster]

My boss is a narc and treats me like crap. I am 58 years old and now have started to push back and stand up to him. Can’t wait to leave on my own terms.

[bluecloudrevs]

They knew the odds were stacked against them, the day they were born

[fastnpray]

My older sister got all the attention she was well loved and cared for then I came along 5 years later and took away some of that attention and she became jealous and envious and she turned out to be a narcissist

[jacquelinefroehle]

I absolutely disagree....that the trauma was so severe. The people I know were spoiled rotten....and a parent taught them to lie, fool people etc. There are children that were abused that ended up having too much Empathy for others and for animals. A parent teaches children to lie....and they keep them up and the children become Co dependant on a parent that lies.

[perrydifranco]

Self hate and the creation of the false self- that super hero who is never wrong and must control all external reality😢

[charissedivittorio]

Yeah you try and love and help them and they push you away

[emitissimo]

Thank you so much for that brief explanation. I always knew my dad was wounded somehow but I didn't know how until now. He was always as kind and loving growing up as he could be, as long as we all agreed with him.