The science of aggression and narcissism

ORDER MY NYT BESTSELLING BOOK 📖 "IT'S NOT YOU"

JOIN MY HEALING PROGRAM

JOIN THE DR. RAMANI NETWORK

GET INFO ABOUT MY UPCOMING PROGRAM FOR THERAPISTS

SIGN UP FOR MY MAILING LIST

LISTEN TO MY NEW PODCAST "NAVIGATING NARCISSISM"

DISCLAIMER: THIS INFORMATION IS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND IS NOT INTENDED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR CLINICAL CARE. PLEASE CONSULT A HEALTH CARE PROVIDER FOR GUIDANCE SPECIFIC TO YOUR CASE. THIS VIDEO DISCUSSES NARCISSISM IN GENERAL.

THE VIDEO DOES NOT REFER TO ANY SPECIFIC PERSON, AND SHOULD NOT BE USED TO REFER TO ANY SPECIFIC PERSON, AS HAVING NARCISSISM. PERMISSION IS NOT GRANTED TO LINK TO OR REPOST THIS VIDEO, ESPECIALLY TO SUPPORT AN ALLEGATION THAT THE MAKERS OF THIS VIDEO BELIEVE, OR SUPPORT A CLAIM, THAT A SPECIFIC PERSON IS A NARCISSIST. THAT WOULD BE AN UNAUTHORIZED MISUSE OF THE VIDEO AND THE INFORMATION FEATURED IN IT.

[naveedrehman]

The more narcissistic someone is the more aggressive they are.

[MM-nlff]

A Ramani video a day keeps the toxic people at bay.

[rhondaljohnson]

They are triggered by provocation. But in my experience, in the absence of external provocation, they will create provocation.

[Healthimprove]

The Narcissist can never be fixed, you can’t love them out of they’re bad behaviour, in other words, they’re bad behaviour is as good as it’s going to get.

[dhanyaslifeventure]

Narcs' weakest expressions are articulated through their aggression. Their irritation, insecurity, ego, frustration, anger, jealous, torture is all another form of aggressive behavior.

[alkggkla]

Both of my narcissistic parents were aggressive not only to each other, but very physically abusive to me. 48 and just walked away from their toxic behavior. Should have at 18. This cycle will go on forever if I don't stay gone.

[carolhicks]

I always felt that my parents were angry at me, that I caused their rage. But they were just always angry

[LyndieLouWho]

With covert narcissists the aggression is often subtle and easily explained away by the c.n. when called-out.
Aggression is also exclusion, gossip, passive-aggressiveness, dismissiveness, indifference, etc.
Once you see it, you can't unsee it.

[carospereman]

You are tireless Dr. Ramani. You help so many people including me.

[blaisegirl]

A narcissist is a ticking time bomb, its not a question of if they will blow, just when. Thanks for exposing us to this research Dr. Ramani - you're a saint

[mfar]

My ex used to take most of his narc aggression out on objects, breaking, banging & destroying material items, particularly anything useful to me or that I was sentimental about.

[ghuyakalika]

Narcissists are dangerous and aggressive. I think many of us know that. The problem is if you haven't lived something it isn't true for you. 💔
It's the passive aggressive rage always simmering under the surface that was the most dangerous in my experience. Don't provoke the monster!
Thank you Dr Ramani

[damondarkwalker]

The aggression is unbridled. They basically launch themselves at their victim(s).

[drewsibleyloans]

I've experienced a correlation between aggression and the need for control. The less control, the more aggression to regain control. My own little study from over 400 interactions.

[thatblondartist]

It's weird that they're the only one allowed to be angry, like they're afraid of retaliation if you are.

[mairaleikarte]

That chair looks so comfortable. Like a hugging friend.

[brettweary]

Congratulations On Helping Over 700 Thousand People Doctor Ramani and Many More to Come

[travis]

She was abnormally aggressive and it was like the demons were raging inside of her. Always stomping around angrily. So pissed off all the time and always took it out on me. Later on realizing that’s called toxic behavior.

[paperdollyglitzzy]

Congratulations Dr. Ramini on 700k subscribers. There are no words to describe how helpful your videos are. Much love and respect to you.

[venusrising]

Here's a useful proverb... "An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure."
Recognition is the first step to prevent the damage & danger associated w/these individuals. Hopefully Psych professionals & educators will understand these personality styles should be taught in the schools . This study could be an important first step. This community can educate by sharing. WE KNOW how serious this is. It's so important. And could save lives.