Say This To Make Him Want You EVEN MORE!!! - Preview to The Psychological Game of Attraction

So you made it this far. He likes you. There's some attraction. This is where a lot of women will get comfortable. I don't want you to do that.

I want you to use this technique two times. One, use it when you feel like he's interested and you feel like you guys really like each other but just not enough. You want to see where you stand with him.

Two, you want to use this when there’s strong emotions - the peak of the relationship.

It's all about making a future projection that sounds believable and that you have a real plan.

Let me tell you about the lonely fantasy. It's about telling a guy about your plans - the plans in your future that doesn't include him.

Let's say that everything is going well in your relationship and you live in the same city. You tell your guy that you're planning to go to another city next year to study. Then, you change the topic. You simply state that as one of your plans.

In his mind, he's going to feel a fear of one day losing you. As things get closer, you start applying for school and talk to him about how exciting it's going to be. You don't really have to go. You just talk to him about it.

It's like telling a person that he might go to jail. He is going to feel anxious before the trial date.

If you tell him that you’re going to leave one day, it will make him have an intense love and passion for you. Underneath that is the fear of losing you.

Tell him about your future plans that do not include him and you let that do the work. If you do this, you're going to notice a huge difference in his behavior. He might even try to move with you.

He might try to get closer to you a lot faster. He'll think that if you ever leave, the bond will be strong enough for you guys to continue keeping in touch. It's a powerful thing.

Make sure that it's a plan that will be hard for him to be a part of. An example would be when he has a two-year lease on an apartment and he can't move out.

Give him the vibe that you want something more with him, but also talk about moving somewhere.

That fear of losing you will amplify the attraction that he has for you.

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[mavis]

So sad! I miss back in the days where love was soo natural that you didn’t have to play mind game! I want deep and true love.

[assianeu]

it’s seems to me like playing the role of a narcissist so you make the other fit the role of the codependent;

but in reality you are the true codependent. It sure should work but it doesn’t fix the real issue which is :
you don’t feel lovable enough in being yourself, and you gotta consciously manipulate your way into getting loved. It’s all cool these techniques they worked for me the few I have used and I am grateful, but it’s just a plaster on a tumor, I couldn’t disguise to myself how insecure i was. Since I decided to start the homework of crying everyday, to release a bit of childhood trauma and self-love deficit, I am no longer craving so much for a boy’s attention to the point of making all these efforts.

Thank you for offering these shortcuts and being a teacher Alex, thanks to my dating experiences from your advices, I realise this is not what I want

[bronzy]

Too many games, it's exhausting and not worth it.

[saya]

If you think this is only a mind game then you are just a GAME! If you don't play You LOSE ! The relationship is HARD but it's worth it 😎

[ladyt_speaks_truths]

I did that to a guy I thought wasn't going to call anymore (I had pushed him away) and he started expressing how he felt about me. I'm still going to take my time though to make sure he is for real for real.

[transcendingsoul]

Genuiness can only attract more genuiness at the end of the day...

[privateprivate]

Perhaps, my coworker did this. She lived in another state and, although she had a boyfriend, she moved to the state I live in and, before you know it, he came here and proposed to her. Maybe it was her intention, maybe it wasn’t. But, despite her move, she accepted the proposal and he will be moving here. Didn’t hurt that she’s a very attractive young lady also.

[TheAttractionTriggers]

*I just watched this amazing video and it blew my mind! Can't wait to try out this powerful technique!*

[BeautiNSuccess]

I already left and I don’t care about him. I am working on doing Startup Chile. where I’ll be gone for a year. I can’t wait I’m so excited 😍

[imagesolutions]

I swear I did this because I wanted him to know what my plans where for the future if we didn't work out. When I tell you he said! Hold up hold up hold up. Lmao I got a whole love confession and future plans. I was just being real with him

[KeishaCharmaine]

I saw you today. I would have said hello but I was on the J train and you were on the opposite platform. So I’ll say hi now lol 👋🏾

[transcendingsoul]

I am genuinely creating a life to be proud of, never promise anything to anyone, other than living in the moment and know already that can attract something special with someone one day. If I don't have me, then I cannot give anything to anyone anyway.

[growthrulove]

I something similar with my current guy I was talking to and he wanted me and my son to move in with him. When I laughed he said very seriously and straight faced "I'm not laughing." I was actually a bit taken aback by the bluntness, but it absolutely works.

[MichelleMedranoAguilar]

This has definitely backfired on me before, he later on said I wasn’t worth investing in because he knew I wasn’t sticking around anyways.

[ShadowStarlight]

Men love toxic women too. Which is a huge mind game in itself. I've been through it. Where In the past. I was the toxic one. Not one guy left me : /. He just continue to put up with it. Saying oh.. I will be crazy right along with you.. You're just my type.. He just hang around anyway. I try to chase them away. It never work and they come back for more sadly. Some of them see this as interesting or... He say he like a challenge and without it.. Things will be so boring. They may stress they love feminine women. I've seen them draw way closer. To masculine women with a touch of feminine instead.

[chyhea]

Oh man

I’m actually planning to move out of country for an year but I have been too scared to let him know about this yet....

😂 This video just gave me a huge encourage to do so!

[ezclean]

If he's serious he's simply gonna be like.... What? 👀 What about me?

[loveritas]

Very interesting indeed!! I've just did this hour ago, very spontaneously and was questioning myself on this approach if it was good' move . Your video was such a confirmation, much appreciated! 🤗🙏

[missincredible]

I had to watch this twice to understand what you were saying but I think I got it!!! Thanks 💕

[tulip]

It does work because a guy did it to me and I was so scared that I'll never see him again. What happens though when a couple gets married or moves in together do they get bored of each other if there is no more fear of loss or does doing it a few times create a bond long enough to stay together for a long time? Aren't there people that want to feel that they will never lose someone . I remember when I was 18 I met a guy that showed me that I was the only one and made me feel special and he made me feel like I would never lose him and that feeling gave me such a great peace of mind that it made me fall in love with him. Maybe men are not the same and have to fear and always chase? I don't know.