It Started with a Dumb Joke

If you are curious about my "philosophy", checkout these videos :)

1/ About the importance of realizing that talking to people is first and foremost a side effect of expressing yourself.

2/ About the importance of having a healthy relationship with your desire

3/About what people miss about confidence:

4/About the essence of interacting and conversation

5/About what we really have in common with people and why talking to strangers can be hard

6/Why people fear rejection

[dansari]

I approached a women sitting alone in a cafe on her laptop, decided to compliment her style but she wasn’t interested for a chitchat. I didn’t care about the outcome except wanting to express myself - remember it takes 2 to tango 😊

[oSayNoMoreo]

You see this guys... no gimmicks or lines!
Just awareness, active listening, conversational skills and knowing when to segue in conversation.

[Ajay-bkxh]

She seemed like she was longing to talk to someone. Awesome work, Ruben!

[coldworld]

That lady damn well & knew she stunk up the bathroom 💀😅

[TheGreatWasian_]

Ruben, I think you’ve kickstarted a new journey within my soul. I’ve worked on myself so much throughout my life with my fitness, hair, skin, style, career, school, love life, spirituality, etc but I knew that something is missing. I am not as social as my soul needs me to be. Please keep posting videos and wish me luck on this journey that I am about to take in my life.

[kulik]

Love how easily you come up with jokes and things to say

[HeidariReacts]

Your videos shows how much we NEED to socialize! Locking yourself at home and not going out to really explore eats your soul away. For anyone reading this, go out and live life! You got this!🙏

Thanks for the regular uploads, Ruben🤝
P.S This format is really cool. The normal interactions that you are showing here will definitely encourage others to do the same.

[kevinknoll]

My guy already won when she asked if he lived there solo.

[BO-dcxg]

This is exactly what I have done for years! My children would ask me all the time on vacation do you know that person. And I’d be like no just met them, lol! I tell them find something in common or compliment them, or as someone stated be aware of your surroundings. Most people are up for a small tall! Blessings!

[hawkytalkyy]

Back at it again with the frequent uploads! <3

[saltator]

I swear man, it's so nice to have a back and forth conversation with a woman...

[kevinchapman]

This was probably the best one! Y’all had good chemistry. Hope you got her contact info : )

[ViktorOddy]

The way you host flow into conversations seamlessly is crazy to me

[avatarazul]

Ruben tells the students to sit down and talk haha what happend. Great content btw!

[Xebasverne]

Nothing better than an interaction going back and forth. Well done! 🤜

[derrickupshaw]

That was a great conversation as always! Thank you for this

[Umtiti]

You stood for over 45 minutes? Respect to you dude

[integra]

2:36 "The Great Good Place" is such a book, by Ray Oldenburg, one of my Sociology Professors at university. A gruff, good, man may he rest in peace.

[IsakZve]

the other lady checking him too 2:12 😁

[DarthGnostikos]

I’m on the tram riding home—and I busted out laughing at the 23 and me joke. 😂 Everyone on the tram giving me the side-eye.