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[NinjaMommy]

It’s a metaphor…
To describe the intensity of gossiping and backbiting

It’s like saying to stab someone in the back is describing betrayal, you are not actually stabbing someone but it sure does feel like it

[ladymallowyt]

I've seen gossiping ruin peoples lives. We all have that one auntie that has nothing to do but gossip. I've never liked to gossip

[Ikiiigg]

when i gossip, i feel super guilty.. like i feel super bad for the person i did gossip about. thats why i will never gossip

[cherokeenevin]

How would you define gossiping? Just asking because I find it very important for people to share with each other when they're in safe places. For example: What if one friend in a group is being mean and abusive to the other two friends of the group when she's alone with either of them? If the two victims were to talk about her when she's not around and talk about her abuse of them when the other isn't around, together it'd be easier to make informed decisions on how to either confront the abuser or cut her off.

[boucoupthick]

I’m Christian but I still believe these tips are useful in my own walk with God.

[Hanna_Munden]

Not a Muslim but I can speak to the horror gossip can be. It doesn't matter if it's true true or not, unless someone is in real danger, don't. I've been both a perpetrator and victim. Even years down the line I still feel so filthy about things I said that ended up hurting people. I destroyed my friend's very healthy relationship because I believed a rumor about her and told her boyfriend. I recently was a victim too (an ex roommate said I abused her and my animals just to stir up pity and attention for herself. It ended up being reported by her well-meaning coworker. I had to prove to the city that my pets were well cared for, and also dig up reciepts for when I had paid for her pets vet treatments several times.) Gossip hurts people. Unless you truly believe someone to be in danger, just mind your own beeswax. Islam is a beautiful religion, AND it also can offer us non-Muslims some REALLY good advice.

[Tahani]

Will Allah forgive me for all the gossiping I did without going and asking forgiveness from the person I gossiped about

[drea]

My dad left us partly because of gossip. He had moved away and barely talked to my mom or me anymore, usually just to yell and be angry at me.

Then my aunt started talking bad to him about me behind my back. He believed her without even asking my side of things at all. I tried to visit him once, I flew to where he lived but of course it was really awkward. As I was leaving he acted like I was being the problem and said "I already know how you are, your aunt told me all about you". I left and we haven't talked since. I also cut off things with that aunt and we don't talk either. In Mexico there's a saying, "better to be alone than in bad company. " I'd definitely rather be alone than with them at all

Gossiping really can help ruin things. Thera a million events and ideas and things to talk about without talking bad about anyone.

[jessicamoore]

As someone who was raised in a strict Christian home. Yes do not gossip.

[Egh]

I’m Christian and my boyfriends family is also but they would always talk bad about me in Spanish even around me and talk behind my back badly and I’m like what… u say ur Christian but ur talking so much about me badly behind my back like that does NOT add up

[Lokian_Mermaid]

I've noticed that not gossiping makes people comfortable around me and they trust me a lot.
I will jokingly say I have some gossip, but I'm either talking about myself or simply delivering a message from someone else.

[perla]

How can you compare talking to someone with eating a corpse? What a bizarre thing to say

[borza]

🙏🙏Amen! As a teacher I often feel very uncomfortable when discussing students with other teachers. I try to never say anything I wouldn't say to the student or their parent.

[shireen]

Anas bin Malik narrated that the
Messenger of Allah (sallallahu
alaihi wasallam) said:
"Whoever asks Allah (Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala) Paradise three times, Paradise says: 'O Allah, admit him into Paradise, and whoever seeks refuge from the Fire three times, the
Fire says: 'O Allah, save
him from the Fire." -
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith
2572]

Duas to be told :
1)"Allahumma inni as'aluka al-jannah" (O Allah, I ask You for Paradise!)
2)"Allaahumma ajirni min an-naar" (O Allaah, protect me from the Fire!)

[Gudo-kvot]

Gossiping is truly a bad habit of women. In India, Bangladesh and Pakistan, it's a hobby of many aunties 😖....they judge young girls so much.

[KCsFunHouse]

Your eyes are very pretty! They look green but I could be wrong, I have green eyes too!

[AnoushaSpeaks]

I do acknowledge all the things about gossiping and how its bad but i find that alot of people bond over people they hate unfortunately and it almost seems as if u have nothing to talk about. Astaghfurillah it’s such an easy sin to fall into and u often feel like u have adopted a “holier than thou” attitude when u try to tell people not to gossip cuz lets be honest we all slip up and it’s a big thing to not sin with your lips. May Allah make us stronger in resisting the urge to listen to the evils of our head! Ameen.

[snowflakewarrior]

I have read this before about gossiping in Islam. Point well made.

[mirandamage]

This may seem like a silly question, but what actually defines gossip vs just sharing information about people in your life? I have trouble understanding what exactly is okay and what isn't so if someone could explain it I'd really appreciate it

[s.a.]

For anyone struggling with gossiping, one who backbites in Islam and does not seek forgiveness for it will have to give their good deeds to the person they backbit as a form of restitution on the day of judgment. So if you find yourself gossiping of others this is sure to make you mindful and not want to do it. And if you have been the victim of gossip know that Allah knows all things and no injustice will not be dealt with.