I'm Having a Hard Time Getting Over My Husband's Affair...

I'm Having a Hard Time Getting Over My Husband's Affair...

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[dancebrittany]

She blamed herself for her husband's affair because she was dealing with post-partum depression, raising 2 kids, and working full-time. That is sad

[girlienerd]

Ladies, never, EVER be in a "pick-me" situation with a man. Married or not.

[rickycastro]

He fought for his mistress, didn’t want to lose her. Mistress finally dumped him, and you took him back, he knows when all else fails you’ll always be there. So when another woman enters his life that shows him attention and wants to have an affair, what’s going to stop him? He’ll just manipulate you into staying again.

[AlyssaSaldana]

Oh he’s gonna cheat again. If it was a one time thing, maybe the marriage could have been saved. However, he repeatedly went back to his mistress. He’s a repeat offender. He’s gonna do it again.

[ineedhoez]

She knows she isn't safe. That is why her body won't let her heal.

[kayvids]

She’s unsure because deep down she smells the BS. She knows she needs to leave. She’s suspicious of him and she should be.

[SimplyFitwithJay]

So he cheated and she allowed him to choose between the mistress and her? Nah.

[RG-hfet]

HOW MANY MEN WOULD PUT UP WITH THIS BS BEHAVIOR FROM THEIR WIVES ?
Start thinking like a man, stand up for yourself, show him the door, and stop with this fantasy of he is the love of my life.
He proved to you and his family that he isn't.

[belindagarza]

Forgiveness is one thing, allowing him to hurt you again is another.

[jji]

What... are you thinking girl!? You think he will stay faithful after that??

[bethanybrowne]

This wasn’t a one night stand “affair”...this went on for over a year!!!!

[barbarahollands]

You are dreaming. I wasted over 40 years of my life doing this kind of thing. I could have saved the kids heartache, myself heartache, and possibly have met a wonderful man and married a man that would have been a good father and husband. Gaslighting, lies, fake repentance. It never stops. As Christians we need to forgive but that doesn't mean to continue being a doormat. I stayed because I was the good Christian wife and would save him. No. I had grounds for divorce Biblically and I should have taken them.

[mimiso]

"I'm completely committed to you paying my way through grad school", is what I am hearing.

[cd]

When he told you about the infidelity, it should have been the end of the affair. He went back to her a few times and blew his chance for trust from you.

[Lianne]

Why do so many women think another baby is going to fix things? It's nuts and never works.

[NT-bznh]

I wish she would’ve divorced him when she had the chance. Instead, she went back to him even though he choose another woman and continued to have kids with him. He will cheat again.

[BrandonKuptzMusic]

Cut and run...like yesterday! There's plenty of honest non-cheaters out there...why waste any more time with a known cheater???

[stillpril]

Being cheated on especially after marriage and several children is traumatic. You can't just put it down.

[LettersfromSierra]

Infidelity will rock a person to their core. There is nothing more painful than infidelity. 😞😞😞

[NB-kyol]

The fact that it took him a whole year to figure out that he wanted you only when it came down to moving and graduate school screams that he only stayed for convenience. I don’t really know his motive but if my husband chose a fling over me and my children several times you better believe I’m out of there quick-like! And I’m speaking from experience. I’ve been option #2 before, and desperately waiting for him to come around. Never again! I hope it works out for them b/c having a healthy marriage is what’s best for the kids.