He Hasn't Asked You To Be Exclusive Yet?

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[thekinginthenorth]

This is all so complicated and exhausting. It’s amazing anyone ends up married with so many obstacles

[chelldalagan]

I dated a guy for two months we had sex regularly and went out for just a ride while having coffee, told him that i already felt that i liked him a lot and wanted to be with him, i asked him if he feels the same but he doesn't. So i stopped our connection and now trying to move forward and getting back the genuine happiness I had before meeting him. Girls know your worth, you deserve better than what you think😘

[mkostowoski]

I finally decided to have the conversation with the guy I was seeing for a couple months the same day I saw this video. I was at a point where I knew I wanted for us to be official and wanted to know wether he did too or this was just a fling. It was terrifying speaking up and having this conversation but he reacted well. He also thought or assumed that we were already together and that I was his girlfriend for the past month. Needless to say we talked about what a relationship means to us and now we’re official :)

He acknowledged that I did the right thing and we should talk about it. He just never had the conversation with any exes and didn’t initiate with me because he was assuming things and was scared that it ruin things or end things.

[IEVAKambarovaite]

I was talking about it with my friend. He's a 45yr old man who just asked a lady he's going out with if she'd like to be his girlfriend.
I thought that's the cutest sweetest thing ever in the most beautiful way. I still smile every single time I think of that.
There are some great men out there, ladies 💜

[tasrajwani]

I used to be scared of killing the fun and romanticism with these conversations with guys. But now, I love it! It feels empowering and makes me feel like I have grown and really value myself and my time. And I love how the guy's reaction to this tells me very quickly if this was even the right fit. I get so impressed when a guy handles it really well and actually is relieved that it was put out there. It can actually bring you closer rather than make things awkward.

[galaysh]

I was dating a girl recently, and after a few dates we clearly had a vibe going on, so I asked her to reciprocate my sentiments of exclusivity while we explored if we had something worth giving a real try. And, like a true feminist, she implied that my traditional dating ethic just reflected my desire to have ownership over her and control her life and for that reason, she was open to continue with me but without closing herself off to other options that could pop up. Needless to say, I identified that she was trying to have her cake and eat it too, so I told her that I wasn’t going to continue dating her because I wasn’t interested in the inevitable pain that I was heading for, had I decided to suppress my values by staying with her.

[jens]

I say treat a man as a friend until or if he asks you to be his girlfriend. That way he got nothing physical and you don’t get overly attached and you learn his character first.

[vidabeauty]

We had the talk and agreed to be exclusive. The next night he went out and slept with another woman… even if they say they are exclusive doesn’t exactly mean they are 🤨

[stayslickwithkit]

I think a lot of women are afraid to ask men to be exclusive because they're afraid of rejection, which is normal.
However it's so important that a woman does because it's about communicating your standards to a man otherwise he won't respect you if he's just sleeping with you over an extended period of time.
Ladies, take the plunge.

Always an inspiration for my channel Matthew

[nogasdivone]

Hearing Audrey in the videos gives a really full experience, just hearing the feminine perspective and the explanation from a womans side... what she focuses on, the vibe she gives off, adds so much!

[freshmintsky]

Oh I like her. I like her a lot. She’s composed, intelligent, and brings a real, substantial perspective to the table in a caring way.

[switchpathbyamypreston]

Back in the day, we didn't do the things discussed here UNLESS there were intentions!!! If there were no serious relationship intentions, we had more respect for people than the way things are now! It is quite incredible how different are.

[idalisdesiree]

Ladies if you want him for you, please ask and only then you will know if he’s for you and will be for only you.

[TheVioletdecember]

Great conversation all around but the woman (sorry, not sure what her name is) absolutely nailed it! I felt so seen and heard. Yes, a lot of men want the girlfriend experience without the relationship.

[MyVlogTherapy]

Say that girl… too many men are happy to take from a woman and use her with no obligation. It’s wrong.. period.

[daniellehaythorne]

So glad she spoke up about the “elephant in the room.” I was feeling more and more like I wanted to speak up about the language used…the focus is not mistakes women make, it is that there are men out there that imitate courting behavior—romantic investments via time and money, physical investments via intimacy, and emotional investments—there are men out there who will signal that they are courting when they are not, and this is something that is as old as time (think Willoughby, Wickham, etc. from Jane Austen’s books), and it is dangerous—it’ll hurt women badly at the worst. At the best, it’ll steal years of their lives away, which is awful because time is so valuable to women, because unlike men, women have a time limit on how long they are able to have children. There are men out there who are not ready to commit even though they are giving you good reasons to believe that they are ready. They are not the real deal. Keep looking for that man who is mature, not selfish, who understands the effects of his behavior, and whose behavior truly matches his heart, a man who will guard you rather than cause you to have to guard yourself. Have the DTR (Define The Relationship) talk if you start to feel committed. If he’s the right guy, he’ll be relieved that you brought it up, because he wants it too. That’s what you’re looking for.

[MortenChristensen-ttup]

Once you’re pretty close and def 3 months in - bring it up! If the other person frets you know. If they smile you also know❤

[cccecccilia]

"The girlfriend experience" I felt that one, the description was so accurate ❤️

[dave-j-k]

For me, exclusivity needs to be sorted long before things get physical, its a matter of respect.

[merlinsbeard]

I dunno, I belive that with the right guy it's not difficult to ask and to have this conversation as it's 100% obvious that he's into you. I think if you're afraid, then you have the gut feeling that he might reject you, so you're already feeling like something is off in a relationship at this stage.