How to Flirt at the Movies | Flirting Lessons

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The movies can be a great place to meet people -- if you know the right way to flirt in that environment. And that's exactly what you'll learn in this video.

Speaker 1: I know that a lot of first dates or group dates happen at the movies.

Rachel: Yes.

Speaker 1: And it's stereotypical that people get their first kisses, or first dot dot dot, at the movies. Oh, the old yawn. So, we just wanted to go over a few ways that you can flirt with someone that you're interested with. Yeah, as Rachel said, it is a kind of joke, but a lot of times it's just too quick, too much for a guy to just go like, you know. So, a lot a times do the [makes sounds] stretching, and then you put the hand on the top of the chair itself. It lets them feel comfortable with the fact that you're there, and the hand can slowly start touching. Then they know that it's OK, and you're reading her body language and stuff, too. What about you? What have you found cute and fun to do?

Rachel: I think it really is all touch ...

Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.

Rachel: ... in a movie setting. You can't talk, or you're gonna get yelled at. It's really about positioning your body so that you're giving them, I guess not access, but you're making ...

Speaker 1: You're not being closed off.

Rachel: ... it seemed like you're, yeah, you're making it seem like you're open to being touched.

Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.

Rachel: So if there's a scary scene, touch a knee, and be like, 'Oh, my God ...

Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.

Rachel: ... did you see that?'

Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.

Rachel: The arm behind the chair is a great thing. And eventually you could get a little closer. We're not gonna start making out at the movies, because that's obnoxious for the people around you.

Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.

Rachel: But getting close enough, the flirtation has to happen with your body.

Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.

Rachel: So, I think that's the point of it.

Speaker 1: And one of the ways, too, so many of the movie theaters nowadays, the armrests go up.

Rachel: That's true.

Speaker 1: You've got the armrest on the other side to keep the popcorn and the Coke. If you really want to show that you're on a date and that you intend to be physical, and touching, and flirting, take that up. Take the ...

Rachel: The barrier up.

Speaker 1: ... yeah, exactly. That way you can scoot closer together, and your arms are brushing.

Rachel: Are we gonna hold hands?

Speaker 1: That removes that barrier and allows you to be more intimate, more playful, and more fun. Just, like she says, don't make it uncomfortable for people around you.

Rachel: That's the biggest thing. Not too much PDA, but just a little bit to let them know that you're interested.

Speaker 1: Right. And exactly like she said. With the scary part, do a little touch, and see how it's received. And if they can linger a little longer as they can.

Rachel: Yeah.

Speaker 1: But, basically don't hold your hands over here.

Rachel: Yeah.

Speaker 1: Make sure, like she said, access but you shouldn't ...

Rachel: You don't want to be so far away that it's showing off that you have no interest in this person.

Speaker 1: Right.

Rachel: But you also don't want to be on top.

Speaker 1: Right. So the closer you are, the more accidental brushes can come into play.

Rachel: Oh, you like me?

Speaker 1: Well, that's where the magic is.

[GALACTICATSUNIVERSE]

Guys usually try to be low-key about it, but I would rather you be confident and just put your arm around me or hold my hand because little do you know Im like praying inside my head that you will do it.

[ProdigyAutomotive]

Here's a tip: for the love of god don't do the yawn and grab

[isabellahayhoe]

Guys here's a tip trust me we love it when you put your arm around us

[mideawosika]

I remember my first kiss, my boyfriend right now was my best friend and he still is but while watching a movie he said he liked me and he asked me if I liked him and I said yes and he grabbed my face, looked me in the eyes and kissed me. Afterwards while still watching the movie my arm was on the arm rest that we both shared and he slipped his fingers into mine and kised my hand and we started holding hands.
It felt like a fairytale

[Trending]

Funny story I got arrested on my first date

[kxns]

my first date ever is in 1 hour, I'm extremely nervous.

[milagroshuang]

Guys a useful tip, we girls notice you big move with your arms. But we like it anyway

[BigJimmyBuff]

TIP: I went on a move date not to long ago, and its fairly easy once your seated. The girl I went with started inching closer halfway into the movie and leaned her head on my shoulder. As soon as this happened I pulled up the arm rest and pulled her in and slapped my arm around her. Just go with the flow.

[AlePally]

Just had my first date with a girl in the cinema. Didn't go horribly but didn't exactly go well. A first date should be about talking to your date not awkwardly sitting next to them whilst watching a movie. You can't exactly make a move on the first date... So take my advice and go to a fancy restaurant or something.

[Paulo_roleplays]

I just say to her "come cuddle with me" in a nice way and she did and it was great :)

[ChachiTelevision]

Don't do the yawn/reach move unless you're kidding. There are ways of being subtle without doing that.

[CC-wixt]

If she slaps me and runs away I’m suing you

[ashtheunquiffableirwin]

I literally just got my first kiss at the movies two days ago😂

[ismayonnaiseaninstrument]

I'm so antisocial that when I go I'm going to be a wreck.

[helllllloworld]

*dont post that you are gonna have a date and not update us on itt!!*

[thekittulegend]

A good relationship is one where you don't have to try hard

[georgeeast]

This comment section is full of so many 10 year olds 😂

[Robotnic]

The problem about pulling the arm rest up is they don't go all the way back and are very uncomfortable when you are trying to snuggle at the movies.

[mre]

to any guys out there that are nervous about a date remember be confident and comfortable don't instantly try to do the arm thing or anything like that just ease into it it will happen naturally in the movie AND ALSO I CAN'T STRESS THIS ENOUGH if you are about to have your first kiss it's not a make out session just a nice simple NO TONGUE kiss will do. hope I helped someone out there 👍😆

[gabriellaagliata]

tfw when you're 17 and just going out on your first real date now lmao