My Trick for Getting People Who HATE ME To LOVE ME

Want to know how to convince someone that hates you to start liking you? How about getting your hater to love you? Here's a trick I always use to convince people to like me, to give me a chance and to be open to getting to know me. Try it out and see how easy it is to win people over!

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TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 - Introduction
0:35 - 3 questions about people liking you
2:48 - My trick and why it works

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[MosesEmmet]

Haters gonna hate.. just means you got something special going on. Good word Josh👌🏽👌🏽💯

[kyled]

Personally I just ignore the haters and go about my normal business, then over time I’ve always noticed that at some point they end up respecting you and engage in friendly conversations and what not, something I definitely noticed when I was in high school 🙂 I’ve never and nor do I think that people should strive to get people to like them, you are who you are in life, and some will not like you and some will love you...it’s the world we live in🌎

[VictoriaChatlovsky]

Omg I NEEDED to see this. Thank YOU!!!! You spoke straight to my heart and soul. I just subscribed and can’t wait to watch more.

[HelpfulAll]

The good question you mentioned "why we need people to like us?"
Why don't we act or demand different way? Start from me, I must give love around more than waiting to receive from others even like or love my hater!

[redlightning]

#PRAYERSFORROMANREGINS
#thankyouRoman

[aswathiajith]

This guy read my mind when he asked the questions. The exact answer I was thinking.

[KingSkulleus]

Dude, I’m just gonna say this. Thank you. This video really connected to my problem with a person I’ve been dealing with for years now. This really gave me an idea of how I could fix our problems, better yet. Hope. Thank you 🙏

[blakeendeavor]

You are right. The majority of the time I am expecting someone to like me for the things that I do for them. And I complain a lot when I don’t get back what I want. Since the start I am not giving without expecting to receive

[LegoGamer]

And I needed this just like you always post right when I need stuff. Ur da best!

[sad]

Nah the whole reason I'm watching this is so I can play outside without being hated on

[hot_guy]

Is it easier if they used to like you and then you did something and to them and they some of their friends to change and get them to like you again?

[theemperor]

wow man!!! I mean you perfectly described my life!! and Im actually doing what you said here!!!! thank you so much!!!! for makeing more sure that Im doin the right thing!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[bbokgomu]

Josh, you give me the brotherly love vibe. The kind of brotherly love where you would sit down on a couch and watch a funny movie together.
Thank you for your videos!

[Mrcjxd]

For haters i just dont f***ing care just let them hate me :) But sometimes is hard. Anyways good trick josh

[mewhenthe]

9100 view wooohoo!. I came here not for this- he doesn't hate me for being boring or weird- he just.. doesn't like me. That's it. I've already talked to him so much that it's irreversible, and awkward if i be kind for a change. It's my mistake. But thanks, I will try this. Good day. 👌🏽

[person]

Hey Josh, so about a week ago I asked you for advice on my crush, we go to different schools but we're on the same cross country team and I wanted to ask her for her number. One of our mutual friends accidentally told her that I was going to ask her something. I was planning to do it on the bus but one of our other mutual friends asked if I wanted them to talk to them about it for a minute before I ask her and i stupidly said yes. They confessed my feelings for her and she replied with a laugh (a happy laugh, not a sarcastic or mean one) and asked why. We got to the school before I could ask her but me being the nervous wreck I was, I replied to her question by saying "because I do" she is honestly the nicest person that I have ever met, every interaction between us has been positive, she is also the most beautiful person I have ever met in my life. I wished that I could have said that but again, I was super nervous and awkward. We talked for a tiny bit as I walked to my dads car, I said "so I heard what (friends name) told you" and from her response, it seemed like she was trying to ignore me at that moment. I want to ask her for her number during our banquet but I don't know how I should ask. All of the 8th graders are moving to varsity next year, that includes me, her, 3 of my friends, and another person who I am friendly with but we don't talk much. I feel bad for her, she had a rough time this year making friends on the team (since she is from a different school) and now she will be moving from all of her closest friends on the team (they're all 7th graders) I honestly want to have her number so that we can talk and get to know each other so that she has someone to talk to next year, than having it to flirt and to ask her out. I care about her so much, but I'm getting really mixed signals. What should I do

[saranraj]

Haters are gonna hate just ignore calmly

[Milsaucediaries]

Hey y’all this is a perfect video for me to ask for some advice🥺 so my new coworker and I got very close very fast. They were the one to say they could see us getting close so we did. Like sleepovers, I offered to let them live with me because they needed it, just great times. I texted them everyday just to let them know how valuable they are and just make them feel better but they stopped responding. Well then one day I come to work and they’re just ignoring me and it’s been like that since. Just talking to everyone but me and smiley with everyone but not me. But then we talked, hugged and said we loved each other so I thought we were fine. Then right back to the same thing. I have NO idea what I could’ve possibly done and it’s starting to mess with my head and affect work. Should I confront them again or just let it go even though it’s so hard😔

[birdog]

My trick to make people i hate stay away is constantly ask them for money.

[Ravenclaw]

Btw I am hated by “people spill water at me, they call me gay, they steal my stuff, they talk to me like a kid