The power of soft words.

[mommabear]

Thank you for this. So true. We have to speak in “Love”.
May the Lord bless y’all 🙏🏻

[ibnpeyw]

You say things I already know and maybe others already know but the reminder helps drastically!!! God bless you my brother.

[deenice]

Yes, my daughter and I try our best to do this, but sometimes it doesn’t work out. However we always make it right, away. Thank you for this Pastor. What a good/ awesome reminder. 🙏🥰

[devinachristie]

Thanks brother for sharing yor sister in CHRIST! AMEN!

[Cjohn]

I've made this mistake so many times, I regret it

[uknw]

soft words spoken helps with rebellious children, ( A message to me from God) and it works💯

[pchin]

AMEN! I should send this to my facetious, arrogant, know i

[damutae]

Amen... this happened too many times in my life....but... God is still working on me...I won't give up for feeling my sin...

[phyllisvanhuss]

Amen ❤️ 🙏 ❤️ My husband and I used to yell at each other all the time. I got so tired of saying Lord, something has to change. One day I told my husband, "I am not arguing with you anymore. " When he realized I meant what I said by just saying his name, clinching my teeth or just turning and walking away has changed everything. He now tells me he can't wait to get home from work. Thank you Lord Jesus Christ for showing me walking away from the arguing is better than being right.

[lindalyte]

Amen....I really needed to hear this,
Thank you....God bless🙏🏿😔

[paulafox]

Amen!
Totally true if u shout back it just becomes an argument with both of u shouting to get ur point across.
If the other person is shouting speak with them reasonably and calmly a good counselling tactic is to mirror what the other person has just said before u speak that way they know that you r listening to them and have heard their point of view. Another thing is that when u r emotional and angry u can't hear Gods suggestions. When u remain calm inspiration to debate your point can come in to u easier so that u can hear them and use them.
U must also remember that the point is not to WIN, it's to find the TRUTH, whether u r right or the other person is right the point is to find the TRUTH.

My husband was having a heated debate with a friend the other night and it was so funny because they actually agreed on the basic point but they were coming at it from different angles and they weren't listening to each other and that's what was causing the (almost) argument. They eventually turned to me to mediate, I mirrored their points and told em they were both right and that they were arguing eachothers points!!! It was so funny, they chilled right out and it turned into a conversation.

Half the problem, in fact three quarters of most arguments could be resolved alot quicker if people just listened to each other more.

Patience IS a virtue.

Thank you brother for reminding us of this.

[pkorns]

Amen! I sure hope you have another lesson soon. I really loved the last one! God bless you for all your encouragement! 🙏🙏

[JayKay-jbnm]

The book of Proverbs has so much good advice about dealing with others. No one ever hears or understands correctly when a conversation turns into a shouting match. Ugly words replace thoughtful points and even the truth. Thank you for reminding us that our need to get the last word behavior never accomplishes our goal. It's counter-intuitive to "lose" an argument, but in essence, do we ever win in such situations? Only by stepping back in these instances, can we move forward. You bring such soothing truth in so few words!

[LucrativeLeroy]

Be gentle and loving. Soft words are louder than screaming.

[ziondavis]

This is why I love the Bible it always speaks some good truth

[shanewashington]

Amen thank you for your beautiful message

[Icy_Luck]

SO TRUE, SO TRUE, BEARS REPEATING, AMEN 🙏