Wrote Siblings… #shorts

[JulieHall-qb]

If you don’t know them and don’t feel close to them then they don’t belong in your will

[akumamako]

Have your lawyer include a paragraph that if your parents attempted to give your siblings anything then everything goes to charity and your parents lose out.

[marcusg]

Don't EVER let other people dictate your wishes in YOUR will. It is what YOU want to do with YOUR stuff after you die.

[HanJisung_]

Fully agree. Blood doesn't matter if you barely know these people. There is a difference between being related and being family. Some people who haven't talked to you for the most of 15 years aren't family, they're acquaintances at best

[sharonmclain]

Your parents will give it to your siblings. Instead, set up a trust to support your parents for life. After they pass, whatever is left goes to a designated charity.

[MHWM]

Agree, it should reflect the relationship. As my parents’ only child, everything is coming to me. But I also expect that if I didn’t treat them right or anything crazy, that would change.

[tiannaroberts]

I know this is unrelated. But the food in the background looking mighty fine 😏😅

[vcmay]

I think you're right. Ignore them the way they've inspired you.

[TheDeathmail]

The reason they are acting that way is because most sibling relationships are good...

The bad ones are rarer than we think (the internet and the fact that we have over a billion people in the world make the problems seem bigger than it actually is).

[Kallisto]

I’ve been sick for the past year. I have left everything to my younger brother who has went above and beyond for me. Taking me to all my Doctor and specialist appointments. Sitting with me and being an emotional support. I’m not close to my older brother and younger sister but they have mentioned what they and their children want to receive. They will be getting nothing. Funny how the people that do so little, expect so much from you.

[GivenKestrel]

I 100% agreeable fees. Someone's will should reflect the relationship they had with that person not just because their blood or family. So many entitled people always assume that he are getting something because they were family members or somebody they treated like s***.

[paulahowlett]

The parents will give it to them anyway, should just leave it to charity

[VeraKing-eb]

Don’t leave your brother and sister anything you’re absolutely right just give it to your parents and make sure that they know they are not to give any of it to your siblings

[ThatWhichISee]

Your belongings your choice you owe nothing to anyone it's a gift to have someone remember you in their final wishes

[sandrabieckmann]

It's youre will..And what other people think is not important..

[tulipbuttercup]

Good job. You left everything to your parents which means when you're gone and they're gone, you're siblings will get everything.

[Misshowzat]

Sometimes, in my experience, if the person has issues undealt with their attitude or interactions can push family away a lot more than you realise. I really love our middle brother (2 years younger) even though he's overseas & his wife is pretty racist my majn hesitation is I dont feel safe talking to him alone. His bitterness means he doesn't really know any of us but who he believes us to be. Two of my brothers have managed a relationship but they're honestly his only connection right now. It pays to talk things out & re-evaluate

[theoozemen]

Wills reflect the will of the individual passing, it's in the name no one is guaranteed anything and the specifics of a persons will are theirs to decide with if he wanted his siblings to have something that's his business

[LE-hqej]

Dude, your will is your will. Leave it all to charity if you want to. You aren't even obligated to leave any of your assets to your parents much less siblings you aren't close to. If you wanted them to get the assets eventually you wouldn't need a will anyway - a will simplifies the paperwork (your executor will thank you) but the only real need to have one is if you want to do something other than the legal default (estate going to next of kin, in this case your parents). Now how your family feels about it - it's pretty clear you don't care what they think so if they are hurt by it that's kind of the point isn't it? The only reason to change your will is if you actually care about avoiding hurt feelings and family drama after you're gone. That's still up to you.

[pinsneedles]

If you give it to your parents, know it will go to siblings eventually.