How to make people fall in love with you 😍- Francesca Psychology x Talktwenties Podcast

[LoveDancingLoveSinging]

Really falling in love with another person is kind of a small miracle and if that person fall in love with you too then it's kind of magic! I like to believe this and it's helping me in the moments when I miss true love in my life... ❤️

[kokoda]

True love comes from a 5D state of consciousness. It’s soul recognition. If you associate love with how your life was with your parents or superficialities, then I doubt a person truly understands true love.

[witnessofchrist]

Easy. Just do what they want and tell them what they want to hear. 🤷‍♀️

[farkinarkin]

The question of “how to make people fall in love with you” is really, “what qualities do I need to work on which will be attractive to most of my target audience. It is obvious that everyone has differences in what they find attractive, but certain attributes are generally appreciated by most (if not all). To say that people have differences usually seeks to obfuscate that real world distribution of, “things people find attractive”.

It is no different than the tired old phrase of, “there is some for everyone”. Why? It is because that quip pretends that there *has* to be “someone” who is going to appreciate you “just the way you are”… which is really asking people to avoid self-reflection and self-improvement. If the way you are is something that is unattractive to most, and is something you can work on, then just sitting around thinking, I’ll just be like this, and let fate decide… well, that is just being non-accountable.

There are lots of things one can do to become more attractive to more people. Making those improvements does not mean you are not your authentic self (unless your authentic self is someone that just don’t give a hoot about what people find attractive, in which case, why bother?) It means you understand that you need to work on a better you. Sure, you won’t make “everyone” like you… but that’s not the point. The point is to be something that more people will notice. It is not about being fake, or “losing oneself” to please others that’s just making excuses. It is about being "super you".
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[ArnoldsDesign]

I've always walked my own path. Not in a hyper eccentric way, but I just never liked following what the crowd was doing. I have my own way of doing and saying things. I've never found that to be attractive to others tbh, but I can be a little socially awkward, which I think negates any attraction of being unique. Who knows.

[tejabadugula]

Not everyone is going to love u superb line ❤❤

[thenaturalyogi]

Why is this even the question? When a person gets older this question becomes obsolete. If a well rounded person know themselves enough and respects themselves there is no need to change anything about them for other people.

[ronlecoq]

Authenticity is what is really sexy and attractive.

[signmi]

But you are so loveable...your sound is magic

[talktwenties]

This whole conversation was so valuable. (Me sat watching it like 📝📝📝🥴)

[annetallegrand]

Love 💕 yourself like really love yourself and this will never be an issue. Love attracts love 💕

[matc]

Being yourself and owning yourself 👍.
Although, I had strict and controling parents, attract the same never want them or bothered dating for years because of that 🚩. Would love an layed back gf. So is it unlikely?

[MJG]

111 like, hopefully my love comes soon🥰

[daystyr]

In my opinion. No one will love you for who you truly are.
At a point you need to be carefully pretentious to get love...
wear perfume to show you are rich
Talk slow to show you are gentle
Be on time to show you care...
😎LOVE IS A PRETENTIOUS ACT TO GET A RECIPROCATED AFFECTION OF BEING WANTED AND NEEDED BY SOMEONE TILL IT REPLACED WITH TIME AND THE COMFORT OF BEING APPRECIATED FOR THE LITTLE THINGS..

[danielpam]

You are not your trauma. You are not your pain. Work on your mental health but don't identify with your struggles as you. You are separate from your struggles.

[RC-qcnz]

Is she a medical professional or just a woman talking about psychology?

[InjiArtistry]

What does it say about me if I do my nails yellow and DGAF? :) All kidding aside, this is 💯