Enneagram: Blind Spots of Type 6

Transformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching

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Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.

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[audreykuczka]

These are by far the highest quality, most informative videos on the internet about the enneagram. Thank you for the time you put into these- they are so helpful to me and a few people in my life who I have shared them with.

[carlas]

I have so many moments when you make a point that I hit pause and back away. I’m like how in the world could you be so spot on with even the smallest traits!
Thank you! It is helping me grow into a better version of me.

[leahboynton]

This video made me cringe but it's spot on. I came out of an abusive situation where my questions that were needed to be asked were used to gaslight me. Now I'm self aware to step back and observe the data and observe what's truly going on. There's a difference between asking questions and questioning people's motives. For me it's been to trust my inner compass and how my body feels when around people. To pay attention to their actions not words. Self trust is key. Thank you very much

[HIGHLANDER_ONLY_ONE]

Living with a 6 is hard, because he's an investment 6, and he questions, and distrusts everything. We are a couple that should be working together towards our family goals, however he thinks I'm against him, as if I'm his enemy, and he needs a lot of reassurance and to be appreciated. We have three kids, and buy far he's the one who is high maintenance. It's EXHAUSTING, because I'm a 1 and like learning constantly, researching and I'm super creative, so it's hard to have conversations with someone who's always questioning what you say, no matter what...

[Acumen]

Im a 5, dated a 6 and had to break up with him coz he was distrutful of me. Seeing things that arent there, accusing me of all kinds of crazy things. it was very strange for me. I felt i was under a microscope where he was watching unnecessarily my every move - cant tolerate that. And when we would discuss the issues I would show him evidence contrary to what he thought, and he still found it very hard to acknowledge and take accountability for his "crazy" behaviour. For those reasons i left, its a shame coz i actually think he's a good person but causing stress in a relationship from fake problems and failing to take accountability and apologizing is unacceptable.

[alyssainnis]

I should record myself reacting to your videos about the six. Haha

[RandolphTheWhite]

27:00 "if there's a problem, go to bed..."

[AMcDub]

Solid 6 here and I think a lot of 6 expression has to do with the Because with the enneagram, it encompasses both intro AND extroverts without distinguishing between them. I find the mbti to be very spot on with personality expression and how you view the world. I find enneagram to be spot on with what MOTIVATES a person; what DRIVES a person (not talking hobbies or interests, that’s totally different). I’m an introvert 6 and I can go a long time without seeing or talking to people. My mom is a social 6 and she DEFINITELY sees relationships as a garden. In fact, she’s a therapist, which frankly exhausts me. As an introvert 6, I don’t want to be a leader bc it’s very exhausting even thinking about telling people what to do all day.

[margaretjudice]

Good information! Thank you for sharing!

[Bioniking]

More like "we are letting you know we are definitely cutting jobs, but we won't tell you when, how, or how many positions we're eliminating. Also here's enough gray area for you to interpret or overanalyze everything"

[MarcDufresneosorusrex]

I don't know if this is; did you ever .. are you familiar with the way planets are numbered in alchemy/tarot/astrology and six would be venus-ian energy. Also at 01:36 min you mentioned something and i had to google it; thank you I thinkn I was always a six, which is a female energy but am biologially male... so this is spot on; thanks again

[leonahearted]

I'm a six thank you for this video

[TheLewisCrew]

Oh my. I’m 38 and I still think that way about those “bad” bands. Oops 😬