AA Predators 13th Steppers Beware: Watch Out For These People In AA!

AA Predators 13th Steppers: A Warning for Those in Recovery

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Understanding AA Predators
Navigating through recovery communities like Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) can be a beacon of hope for individuals striving for sobriety. However, within this supportive environment, there exists a lesser-known yet concerning issue: AA Predators.

What Are AA Predators?
AA Predators, commonly referred to as 13th Steppers, are individuals who exploit the vulnerability of those new to recovery for personal gain. They might prey on newcomers, offering false guidance or engaging in manipulative behaviors.

Identifying Red Flags
Being aware of potential warning signs can protect individuals from falling victim to these predators. Some red flags include individuals seeking romantic relationships with newcomers, offering unsolicited advice without sponsorship, or displaying inconsistent behavior within the group.

The Impact on Recovery
Encountering an AA Predator can be detrimental to one's recovery journey. It can lead to disillusionment, relapse, or feelings of betrayal, hampering the progress made within the support system.

Protecting Yourself
Understanding the dynamics of the community and seeking guidance from trusted sponsors or long-term members can be pivotal. Staying cautious, setting boundaries, and recognizing manipulative tactics are crucial steps to safeguard against potential predators.

Community Support and Awareness
Creating awareness within the recovery community is vital. Establishing safe spaces for open discussions about AA Predators can empower individuals and foster a safer environment for all members.

Conclusion
While communities like AA offer immense support, the presence of predators can pose significant challenges. By staying vigilant, educating oneself, and fostering a culture of awareness, individuals can protect themselves and others from the detrimental effects of AA Predators.

Remember, a supportive and nurturing recovery environment is essential for healing, and together, we can ensure its preservation.

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[RescuedTreasurestoRelove]

This is such an important message to spread. It’s so terrible to be victimized by someone you think you can trust when you are at your lowest point. Disgusting

[caughtinthecrossfire]

After 29 years in NA/ AA I would NEVER EVER bring a female to the meetings or suggest they go to one. The predatory behavior is rampant everywhere and is cosigned and accepted for the most part. There are other recovery options out there. I suggest women explore some of them.

[avalonmist]

Yeah, I have 6 months and finally not physically sick so I started going to a meeting and have been literally harassed after the meeting by really Strange acting men...I am fully aware of this problem after having 8 years once upon a time, but it is so much more aggressive now...I'm moving from this town anyway but I honestly do not feel safe or even wanted at this meeting, what a horrible thing to do to new members...this is Life and Death disease...🍀

[simonmcisaac]

Thank you for being brave and modern enough to indirectly break the 12th tradition with your youtube channel

[torycolvin]

It’s happened to me in women-to-women meetings, as well: it happens constantly. It sucks so badly, because I just want to be effing sober.

[jamie.]

New to AA [1 month], just learned of the "13th stepper ", makes me think 🤔 different

[DarkLouie]

I saw this happen when I first came in. A guy that I would attend his meetings started sponsoring a new lady, and they started dating.

[terressabentley]

You say to stop it if you see it and I couldng agree more but HOW? My home group's eldest member is doing this and it just happened to a sponsee of mine. She has asked me not to say anything to him. What can I do to stop him. He is constantly doing this to newcomers who na says are "the most important members" I want to protect them and I also want to keep the anonymity of my sponsee. Help me please

[smudgecook]

Well said. And it needs to be said...Thank you

[sly]

Well said sir. This is big problem in gay meetings also.

[lisamarkowitz]

One of the many awful things about AA, science HAS fixed it! Get with the program ( any one of them - except 12 steps).