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Today, Harry Wilmington discusses why you must go away and give a woman time to choose you.

[michaelsolis]

If I'm not her first choice I don't need that in my life. I walk away

[RobbiJamesVogt]

Well said! Women choose us - not the other way around. We swoon them and they decide. It’s the way nature works

[Moriningland]

It’s like what Corey Wayne says. It’s like baking a cake. Your job is to prepare the recipe properly and place it in the oven. If you keep opening the oven and checking if it’s done, you’re letting all the heat out and the cake won’t be cooked correctly. So you wait, give the woman the freedom and space to make her own decision as an individual and when the cake is ready, she’ll buzz the timer

[NylonStrings]

5:53 as a man i agree if a woman is constantly trying to message me or calling me I would get annoyed and I will avoid her .... give me man space give me my comfort zone zone, I can only imagine how a woman would react

[dsp]

This is amazing advice makes total sense with a recent situation I was in.

[Turbo_Tastic]

GENIUS.. you have nailed it... I want to send you money, maybe will do a one on one consult.. I have studied many different systems, doclove is my favorite and most effective, but you've taken it to another level.. thank you

[naturalbornkiller]

Always remember scarcity creates value. The amount of space you give to a woman is tantamount to the amount of pricetag you attach to yourself. With this, the best approach when it comes to dealing with a woman you are having romantic interaction with is to give her indefinite space until she reaches out to you.

[deeseabee]

listen to this man! he is spot on. be patient. be a man and give her the time and space she needs.

[danielhuntington]

I don't believe your statement of because I'm so busy with my schedules I wait 4 to 5 days to text here....if you want to wait 4 to 5 days that's your choice. Joe South...."The Games People Play"....I do agree men pursue and women choose. Thanks for sharing.

[chennaimaninhyderabad]

If she doesn't attracted nor interested to u in the first place this technique doesn't work instead it works in 😅her favour

[kuunami]

0:18 So when women take advantage of a man's efforts and generosity then suddenly lose interest because he "texted and communicated too much" or whatever other minor infraction she can come up with, your female dating coach friend doesn't see that as manipulative?

[daveystrange]

Enjoying your content sir. Just a heads up: the 'Get a girlfriend in 3 months with my FREE "Girlfriend Checklist" PDF:' link seems to be broken (unless no longer available?) Cheers!

[acch]

Texting and phone calls are normal when two people like one another. Of course it can become extreme and resemble neediness but I'd rather someone was a bit needy than showing too little enthusiasm. It means a few things. That she's not that into you, that she's dating someone else casually so she's not going to make much effort unless you're better than that guy or that she has mental issues that will make it hard to get serious with someone. I give these people a week or two to get their act together and then i give them an ultimatum then i leave.

[Ellionart]

If they or you don't text the next day after a date the only thing that is going through their mind is "well he/ she is not interested. Moving on!". So I'm not sure about this advice of waiting 5 days to text them again.

[fromgermany]

If a woman tells you something is manipulative, believe her, because she is an expert by nature.
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But about her choosing. I never was successful in choosing and always have been the chosen one.

[robertneale]

So, what do I say when she calls me out for being quiet/distant/autonomous?

[zataman]

How long do you give her space so she can choose you. She had a good time first and second dates. Got kissed, but on the second date she would would face the bar and not me. Conversation was a struggle

[antonioboyd]

Bro in my situation she was calling and texting me everyday every morning when I got off and every night before I went to work then on weekends we were together the entire weekend so you tell me is that needy? In my opinion if I play these games I'm not being honest about how I feel so why I'm I needy when Im doing the same thing she started out doing to me then stoped now I'm needy needy to me is not a bad thing if I'm not needy I don't think you should look at this as me being into you

[nfineon]

Damn coach the truth hits hard, but I think you nailed it...

[fccoz]

What if she texts you the morning after