The Neptunian themed relationship - Issues of illusion and delusion in synastry

How Neptune can take us for a disappointing ride in romance and how to avoid it. Flying high and then crashing hard. Cut through the fog!

[Bec_loves_Jesus]

you would have to be the most underrated astrologer on YouTube xx

[starrycrown]

This is not a paid commercial :-): I have had two spectacularly right-on readings from Jewel, and I can tell you it's a powerful learning experience. If this video resonates with you, get a reading! You'll love what you learn.

[Bianca_Myh]

Wonderful explanation! Extremely accurate word by word. My Neptune squares and opposes my husband's Mercury, Jupiter, Asc & X Mc ... we love each other unconditionally. I can see how we idealize each other and believe we are "the one". As the Neptun person, that feeling that he can't live without me or the high expectations he has from me is overwhelming. I feel pressured to rise up to his expectations and not disappoint and crush his world.
I truly believe that Neptune shows up in a situation/relationship where two people are not fit for each other (age gap, social level, culture, religion, looks, etc.) but the attraction/infatuation is so strong that they can't help but go for it ... even though deep down, if they faced reality, they know they aren't a good fit. I am saying this because I had 2 other relationships with heavy Neptune aspects to Moon, Mercury, Saturn, Mars ... they ended because of those exact reasons ... after years. I don't think the Neptune aspects ended those relationships, but the other Synastry and Composite aspects that made us incompatible in the long run ... opposed to the situation with my husband.
I recommend you do a Synastry, Composite, Verdic, everything from Cafe Astrology's website to see the dynamic of your relationship. Only then you'll have an idea what is going on, opposed to looking at one aspect alone.

[xKhiaRanaex]

people always seem to talk only about the dreamy, spiritually-connected, tender and forgiving aspects of neptune synastry. we never hear anything about the delusion and disappointment that comes with it. the fall is so hard. thank you for being unfiltered

[felicehappy]

I seem to have plutonian and neptunian relationships... every single time ARGH! It's not fun either way, being obsessed or someone else obsessed with you...

[gacantiswastika]

i have had so many neptunian squares in my synastry & composite with a man i fell hardly in love with (or i thought fell in love).. it sucked out of my energy big times... i was the personal planet, and he was the neptune... there was something in the relationship that made him being elusive, started mind games, manipulated & took advantage of me. but in that stage of life, i was lack of healthy boundary so i let him did that to me (subconsciously)... i am glad i have been through that painful relationship. i think it was such a good learning experience... because after that, i evolved and become someone truly different.

[Sandra-hcvo]

so my feeling is that neptune partners show up in areas that we on some level still need an illusion for. (this is from my very limited experience) but, i say this cause when neptune has shown up has often been when my life was at very low points and it in a sense saved me at the time when I needed some illusion/ some sense of magic to keep going.

[misteriozan]

I love your channel. You’re a professor of astrology. Every time I need insight, I run to your channel. Thank you.

[nickystokes]

OMG this video was so validating! Thank you for making this!! Even if I'm only seeing it 8 years after the fact!

[LisianeWinkler]

Spot on! I wonder whether Neptune energy is related to narcissism.

[soulspark]

Neptune is the second planet that dominates my chart the most apparently after Venus.
I don't get infatutated very often but when I do it's often a recipie for disaster ... I tend to dissolve my boundaries too much and bleed out till I dry up just like you said... and eventually I start to build up this rage just waiting to burst out almost randomly... and even with me trying to contain it, which is super frustrating to do, it still comes off as extremely excessive and out of the blue and I just end up feeling really sour and completely misunderstood and crazy.
I really do take a step back now and know it's just infatuation and that it will pass.
I'm actually starting to have an aversion to situations that present themselves as more than what they truly are.

[gldlks]

My Neptune is on his ascendant, his Neptune is on my moon (my chart ruler).

Yep.

[tinalilith]

Very much appreciated, Jewel... I think Neptune may manifest less destructively if the individuals are generally compatible: neither I nor my current partner are Neptunian individuals, but in our synastry we both have our Neptunes squaring each other's Sun (in my case) and Moon (in his case). Our composite has Neptune in 1st House conjunct Venus in Sagittarius, making harmonious aspects only. In our case, I think it has manifested itself in the form of us having to go through mutual losses (supporting each other during death & sickness of family members) and also waiting a long time for immigration issues to be sorted out before actually being able to be together. With him, I also started enjoying wine and he resumed his singing hobby that he had quit for years. We also swim a lot together and travel almost only to places close to the sea.

[karendewolfe]

I wish I had heard this 40 years ago. Interpretations are spot on.

[HydratedHunny]

Every time I feel sad I need to rewatch this. Appreciate you so much. 🙏💗

[kimt]

Spot on! He was mr prince charming turned out to be nothing let down liar deceipt and a complete nightmare from hell.

[aprilfreshkid]

Been there before and you are on point Jewel! Sos as but very true about these relationships. Plus I'm already very Neptune influenced in my own chart already and the men I've experienced this with were Neptunian as well. It is like being under water floating in your own world...or fishbowl....because everyone else sees you two clearly but you don't see yourselves. One of these relationships resulted in me getting some stupid ugly tattoo that I still need to cover up lol :/

[Aurla-R-D]

~ Fantastic summary of Neptunian relationships! :) <3

[angels]

I always love your videos, Jewel. Thank you as always. Please keep it up. You're my favorite astrologer on YouTube.

[sarahkoob]

so you talked about the negative aspects but what about the trines or sextles what are those like