The Problem With The Narcissist-Magnet Theory Part 2

Please do not burden yourself with the idea that you are a magnet 🧲 for narcissists 🦈! What’s really happening is that you are amazing, and caring, and so many other wonderful things that narcissists want to stick around you after meeting you! Who wouldn’t??? Also, you’re providing them with emotional energy that they can’t provide for themselves!

One of the reasons why I think it’s so important to argue this idea is because the magnet theory leaves you feeling like you don’t have any control. Whereas the perspective I’m sharing with you allows you to feel in control because you have control over your choices! You can choose to say no to someone once they have demonstrated a pattern of narcissistic behavior. AND, you don’t have to worry that no matter what you do or where you go you’ll have random narcissists being involuntarily dragged to your side by an invisible mysterious magnetic force!! 😊

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“We don’t expect sharks to change their nature, so why do we hope narcissists will change theirs?”

Help me create awareness in the world that accepting the nature of #narcissists is the key to escaping #NarcissisticAbuse by using the following hashtags when posting about #PathologicalNarcissism & narcissistic abuse:

#SwimmingwithSharks🦈#SurvivingNarcissistInfestedWaters

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[sula]

I want to be a deterrent to these people like strong moth balls lmao. The good thing about experiencing one of these relationships is you see a narc coming a mile away and how fake pathetic and cunning they are and you never again ignore the red 🚩 flags 🚩 thankfully life gets a way better afterwards when you get your life back 😉 👏 👍 😀

[suelamalasi]

Let's not justify having no boundaries as being kind. Yes we don't intentionally hurt people or at least that's how we feel but you are not here to save the world. Learn to take care of you