How Your Brain Picks Your Crush!

Ever wondered why you’re irresistibly drawn to certain people? In this video, we uncover the fascinating science of attraction and reveal how your brain secretly picks your crush! From the chemicals that fuel those butterflies to the subconscious patterns that guide your preferences, this deep dive will leave you amazed at what’s really happening in your mind.

We’ll explore the roles of dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin, the psychology of familiarity and the “X factor,” and even how evolutionary biology influences your love life. Plus, find out why it’s not just about looks but also personality, emotions, and unique connections.

#love #crush #attraction

[duglife]

Loneliness sucks, but somehow life is more peaceful when you don't have a crush on someone.

[liberal.neupane]

I have exams next week and this is what I'm looking at

[peachyrosy]

I had a crush on someone I was not supposed to. I had it like for 3 months. It ended yesterday when I met his wife, lol.

[phNTm_phonk]

When it’s one-sided, it’s hell on earth

[yocelee]

A crush is a crush. That’s something I had to learn. They aren’t who I picture. And it’s a bad thing to idolize them. Instead, get to know them as a person. And see who they are. Don’t fall for the false picture you put them into. After-all it’s being delusional, it can be fun sometimes but dangerous if you go to far. Push away from it and see the reality.

[PolyCodeOfficial]

"You gravitate towards people you are around a lot"
I wouldn't say that about that one random girl I saw at the airport for an entire minute and never saw again...

[sewagedrink]

I'm starting to believe that my brain picks the worst people possible for fun

[natasharostova]

crushing on someone is called so because in the end your feelings are always crushed

[silkroad]

After my girlfriend died, my brain erased the entire 6 years we were together in some bullshit attempt to protect me from the loss.
It's like that part of my life never happened. I still have memories of her, but I have to think really hard and it goes away quickly.
It's weird the things your brain will do to keep you from suffering. It's not always good though.
I usually don't even remember she's gone until the middle of the night when it all comes flooding in and makes me realize how much of it I've suppressed
(Sorry. I know this is supposed to be a fun video, but that's my love life lol)

[JayJay-izxj]

‘People you spend time with a lot can also seem to eventually be attractive to you’
me who stays inside all day, barely seeing anyone and also hasn’t had a crush in years: *oh*

[jessecuster]

Having a crush is one of the most dangerous things to have.

[EM-dlsf]

I had one crush for a long time and all I learned is no matter what you may feel or how they feel
Uncertainty is the worst feeling and yet the most exciting feeling for its potential

[Rinoaeris]

If my brain wants me to be with someone like my parents, then I'm deliberately staying single forever.

[wesleygoorachan]

My brain chose the most kind, caring, beautiful, hardworking, loving, gorgeous, compassionate, empathetic and perfect woman as my crush, and she became my girlfriend

EDIT: She told me she wants to be my wife and give me children, asked if we can get married soon:)

[BrianLewis]

It's little scary that only few people know about the book called The Effortless Attraction by Lucian Voss, it's shocking on what are people missing on, a bit criminal on how much value you get...

[moshow]

Had an insane crush for 6 months on a coworker. Love at first sight type of deal that only got worse once I got to know her a little. She liked me too, which made it way worse. She couldn't look me in the eye without her whole face turning red and gave me a quite a few gushing compliments that guys don't usually receive. Her voice was notably higher pitched when she spoke to me too, and was clearly nervous at first. I felt like I was high all the time. My sleep was perfect, my drive at work and in the gym was off the charts. I was physically stronger, hitting PRs almost everyday. I effortlessly dropped all bad habits that I had. I felt superhuman. I became ridiculously confident knowing that someone that I liked so much also liked me. I've never felt such a euphoric high. She was already in a committed relationship, and the mature and delicate way she handled the whole thing made me even more attracted to her. We both decided to avoid each other after a while. Very painful situation.

[Hjahaiainai]

Crushes are mainly formed from a lack of information; that vividly distant yet fuzzy warmth which sparks you to discover. From my experience, having a genuine one can help you discover humane traits which interest you in pursuing love. To its essence, crushes generally contain aspects which the infatuated one has never truly acquired; leading to a sense of curiosity.

[kadiehale]

so basically what i'm hearing is: my brain hates me and wants to see me suffer through people i can never have.. got it.😍👍

[ChloendLife]

After 5 years I finally confessed to my crush, rejected but now I can be sane again and get on with my life

[SpookLarkiaVR]

0:10 Thanks for telling me, I thought magic was real lmao