I Still Think About My Ex After 1 Year

Are you still thinking about your ex after 1 year? In todays video, Nick will discus why you still think about your ex after 1 year, post breakup.

We think about our ex because we get stuck in past memories, rather than making new memories.

Take a walk with Nick in this video, and find out why you think about your ex after 1 year.

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[ti-fc]

I was married to her for 14 years. We have a 10 year old son. She got cancer 4 years ago. I stood by her through everything. Took care of my family. She left me just over a year ago. Said she loved me but wasn’t in love with me. She was seeing another man within 6 weeks of leaving me. They are still together. I would have died for my wife. I still can’t get past this betrayal.

[cjello]

I'm in the military, I was living with my ex for 2 years. Dating for 3 years. We had our ups and downs during these times. Once I moved away, she was in a brand new relationship with someone 3 weeks later. I was devastated, the day I left, we cried in each other's arms saying how much we loved each other. It's been about a year since this has happened and I haven't heard from her since. It feels impossible to accept that this is what happened and this is how it ended. It feels impossible for me to be intimate with someone. Ive tried dating new people, but the moment I get connected to someone, I immediately think about my ex and I can't sustain any new relationship I get into because of it. I just feel lost

[nopark]

5:55 you described this perfectly. it feels like there is this corpse that I am carrying on my back from a relationship that ended almost a year ago

[markmattson]

Great video. Unfortunately I did all this. Got jacked, a bunch of tattoos, new hobbies, new friends, I did everything. It’s been a year now. I hope things change

[elcharrua]

August 8th made one year since she left me. In the time since the breakup I’ve lost 70 pounds and counting and have a brand new job that pays a lot more. I decided to call her august 10th and she hung up me when she heard it’s me. It sent me right back to day one heartbreak. And on top of that my new job takes me very near to her house very often. It’s so hard not to knock on her door. I want to show her how much I’ve changed but I know if she didn’t want to talk to me she definitely doesn’t want to see me. Everyday I struggle, everyday I cry, everyday have to watch videos like these to keep from going crazy. I keep thinking about all the bad decisions I made that cost me her. I don’t want her memories of me to be all bad. It’s killing me to feel like this every lady

[domingosnhamussua]

after a year of breakup, i had the feeling that i had healed, but today is her birthday, it hurts me a lot not to be part of her life anymore, the pain i feel is equivalent to the day of the breakup, it's as if time doesn't had passed, I feel like sending a text saying "happy birthday" but I will remain with the no contact even if it hurts. I liked what you said in the video, it's time to build new memories so that the old ones can go away. I realized that even keeping the no contact, I did it the wrong way. but I can still better. thank you for the content you have posted here on youtube.

[ThmiiGii]

We are now 12 years later sinds we broke up in 2011 . Still think about her everyday and never found someone else who gave my a better feeling

[heavenlypnk]

It’s about to be 7 months since my breakup. I have unhealthy habits of thinking about what could have been. It makes it worse since I was the reason for the breakup. We spoke a little and were able to fix some things. Although I still don’t have the closure I need and still had so much to say 💔

[TheDublinlassie]

I cried through this and found this the best video that makes sense, thank you very much

[blastprosful]

I reach back to this video from time to time just to re-center myself and find some peace this has been such a valuable post to me.
thank you again for it

[HeliodromusScorpio]

A little update to my story so she reached out after 3 months naturaly i dont care anymore. Iam open for us to meet and talk but iam pretty much done, best of luck everyone work on yourself screw them they lost you.

[williamdietz]

AS ALWAYS NICK THANK YOU, YOU ARE SPOT ON, IT'S BEEN 8MONTHS AND THE PAIN IS HORRID. I LISTEN TO YOU AND SEE MYSELF, SO AGAIN THANK YOU.

[carthy]

Rejection is gods protection, if he or she is not your lover anymore, then they are not the one, stop wasting time on them and go find the one

[reesespieces]

Sage advice. Thankyou. I'm crying 😢 it's 2 years since breakup and a lot happened but still love and miss him. Its so hard

[duck]

I still think of her it has been exactly 1 year since she dumped me. And, I wish her the best and happiness with her life and career.

[felixthecat]

It's been 5 years and I'm genuinely over it. It's just that sometimes something will remind me of my ex and I realize that I still miss this person from time to time.

I think it's normal to miss someone. I don't know why we can't just accept this. Life is about heartbreak amidst happiness. We need to accept that life consists of suffering and sorrow and that people come and go throughout it. We need to accept that maybe you will always miss a person, but that doesn't mean you can't move on and find personal happiness.

I'm engaged to a wonderful man who I'm excited to spend the rest of my life with. I just watched a movie yesterday and there was something about the main character that reminded me of my ex. The shape of his face, his smile, his eyes and mannerisms. It just made me feel a little sad because I remembered that I miss that person.

You don't have to forget about someone to "get over them." If anything, it should be the opposite. You should really feel your emotions, process your heartbreak and sorrow. Think about it from every angle and (dare I say) obsess over it.

Once you've done all of this lamenting, you will be able to push forward knowing that you've considered everything. You've remembered every single aspect of this person and over analyzing everything about the relationship. Every society has mourning periods for the loss of a loved one because they understood how important it was to truly grieve. Sometimes grief happens in stages and it takes longer than a year. There's no magic timeline for when grief ends and happiness begins. The reality is that they are simultaneous. Grief and happiness coexist together.

Maybe you will never get over the loss of a person. It's ok and wonderfully human of you. Most people dream of having something that special with another person; whether they loved you, cared about you, or missed you in return.

[Zakktera]

Thank you for making this video... It's been almost exactly a month since she's left and videos like this, Are making it a little bit easier. I'm not even worried if she's coming back anymore. I just want me back...

[mitbhagvat]

Been a year for me now ..and it's still a struggle..tbh I'm doing fine then all of a sudden there is a missed call @ midnight on my birthday I know who it is...I know it's her hoovering but its put in a bad place..just listening to this video has perked me up and helped .Big up to Nick thanks Man !! Your videos get me through.

[joshuachristian]

There is nothing you can do about it. It is not a choice, just like Falling in love, these are not decisions you make. I have had my heart broken three times. The first two took about 6 months to get over but the third one is been going on for a year now. It's no where near how it was 8 months ago but it's still there.

[Moonstruck]

For me it’s been over a year since we saw each other. We spoke for years and long distanced it but weren’t official. I looked at his Instagram and he has a new girlfriend all smiles. Freaking kills me. I just don’t understand how I loved him so much and he said he loved me, and he’s so happy while I’m still here trying to kill his memory. I wish I never met him because I don’t know how to stop loving him I don’t think I ever will.