If They Talk About Their Ex LIKE THIS, It's A Red Flag!

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If they talk about their ex like this, it's a red flag...In this dating advice video, I will give you the one of the big dating red flags that should not be overlooked. You may see these on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips, and be sure to watch the entire video.

I don't want you to automatically run when you see these red flags in men and/or in women. I want you to properly address the issue. If the red flag is not corrected, then proceed with letting them go.

Again these red flags go both ways. You may find these red flags in dating a man, or in dating a woman. Also make sure they don't apply to you. If they do, then be willing to do you part to correct them.

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Talking *constantly* about your ex is an issue.

johnmcgehee
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I had to search from a male perspective to make sure I wasn’t tripping! Went on a casual date, and this guy constantly kept talking about his ex-wife more in a negative limelight. I immediately knew he wasn’t healed, like instead of asking me questions to get to know me better, he just vented about his ex and their kids. I am not a fan of negativity and drama so i let him vent, refrained from giving my input (not my business!) and tried to enjoy the rest of my evening. He wants a second date and I’m thinking of the nicest way to just let him know he needs to heal first and I’m no longer interested. But I’ll be his friend! Heavy on platonic 😩I’m his 6th date and none of the other ladies lasted after the first date and now I see why 😂 he needs a therapist immediately!

letichevonne
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I'll never talk about my ex unless someone asks me and then I'll only speak the truth.

abigalestoll
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Why would you talk about an ex in the first place? Who cares...that's the past, leave it there.

mediterraneanchick
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I just stared a relationship with this special guy and I always told myself that I would not bring up my ex, I simply don’t understand the gain he would get from know what happened in that previous relationship. Especially when I want to move forward. When he starts a story off with “I was with this girl, or when I was with such and such, ” it makes me uncomfortable and I pretend stop listening. It’s a huge turn off….🙅🏽‍♀️

alysciatravis
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Yes because if they speak positive about an ex it shows they’ve moved on. But you shouldn’t be discussing the past. The present always matters.

ashleygoodrich
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Like I always say if you just broke up with ur ex don’t vent to me ijs

mikes_voice
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My ex was my first everything and let me say, the first cut was the deepest!!! He scarred me and I thought I’d healed but I realized I didn’t because he would say things to me that triggered me still. So I stopped talking to him about ANYTHING that doesn’t pertain to our kids and it’s been better now.

cryscris
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A lot of the time talking about your ex means you have unresolved issues with them. ....

curtistinemiller
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If what they are saying about their ex is true I don’t see the problem. Some relationships it literally is one person who fucked up. Talking bad about your ex isn’t the problem if there’s nothing good to say about them but talking about them all the time is the real red flag.

Laoriginal
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Agreed!! Life is too short to go around, picking up other people’s baggage!
I’ve found that it’s good to take things slowly, ask questions, listen attentively & keep your boundaries strong. If the divorce isn’t final, if the custody battle isn’t over, walk away. Period. It’s worth waiting for a mature, responsible adult.

tammyo
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My last relationship my ex would message her ex still during times we would hang out and talk poorly about him. She told me it was just for organizing time with her kids but the ex came back and she broke up with me. I saw all the signs and ignored them and got hurt.

SuperBrentwilson
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It's a smokescreen. She wants to be with him. You're just a place holder.

uniquemuzik
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Facts and I’ve been here im woman enough to admit it .. I thought I had let go and forgave that person but God truly Had to show me I hadn’t truly forgave him or myself for my part to play in the whole situation.the last three years has been truly painful . But what I didn’t expect was the pain was the Gift . It allowed me to clean out the clutter from the past . It’s real easy for someone to tell you to forgive Someone who has truly hurt you and it’s even harder to forgive someone for your own sake but the worst part for me was to forgive some truly when I don’t know HOW . A lot of people say they forgive others but they still hold on to the resentment and memories of the pain. Then when you come in contact with that person you have a Cold or calus disposition towards them. I felt like a baby these last couple of years unlearning all the unhealthy traits I had . God is good . Thanks for sharing.

samiamblessed
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I don’t necessarily agree. But you have made some great points. Gotta take it with a grain of salt and have discernment.

themoongoddesspodcast
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This just happened to me.... we were just ating and i have said very wisely that the way he start talking very badly about his ex witjout me asking him, made me feel that it seems he hasnt heal completly yet ... and he changed a litlle bit for a while, but it continues to happen again and again, so i put my boundaries again and he start to make look himself as a victim so i got bored of that rapidly. ... the funny thing is that he was the one who left me because he said i didnt let him beeing himself by letting him talk whatever he wanted that felt so manipulating.... i dont ever talk about exes when trying to meet somebody new, i found that very unffair and disrespectful .

vivianamieres
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FACTS! Major major red flag 🚩
I had to learn the hard way. It was a great lesson and I'm now more aware of what to look for.

lmarie
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I wished I had of heard this 3years ago. Yes my ex use to talk very badly about his ex gf. I am no longer with him anymore it was very toxic and healthy. It got abusive. I am still trying to heal from all of it. So I won’t bring all this baggage in my next relationship.

livylowden
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This is so true!!!! One must heal prior to moving forward successfully. Huge red flag. Stephan you are so brilliant!

deborahdinson
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Well when if I’m going to mention my ex to anyone it’s going to be all truth. Whatever you take from that is up to you. thought honesty was what people wanted? So why would I try to pain someone in a positive light? It’s clear that our relationship didn’t work out and that falls on both people… but if someone is going to ask me about my ex I’m going to be honest… me talking about my ex doesn’t mean I think that I’m perfect or that I’m not at fault but I’m just giving an honest feedback about a certain person.

originalgoldengoddess