nothing last forever :/ #friendgroup #bestfriend

[Unknownturtle]

Dang this hits hard. Had a group of 5 of us in high school. Lost contact with one after he moved. One said she didn’t want to speak to us again because she didn’t actually like us. One defended a guy who assaulted a girl in our group and we cut him out. Now I only talk to her once in a while.

[kiki]

*Stares at my notification bar while my smile fades away* yea I miss them too

[mrs.dontmindme]

A reminder to everyone that friends come and go, family is forever, but sometimes YOU are the only one you can trust.

[sophiawright]

this hits hard when all you try to do is talk to them but they can’t even say hi to you in the hallways…💔

[lixnotfelix]

this hits hard after you realise how much you actually talked but now all you do is just stare and wait for nothing.

[een]

Looking at the comments and realizing that I’m not the only one who dealt with this and got extremely hurt makes me feel like I’m not alone. Hugs to you all🫂maybe someday we’ll meet and be besties

[Emily_reads]

Honestly I understand how you feel and it was so painful to go through for me. It happened like the first “post pandemic” year (2021 school year) and these girls I knew for like 3 years just completely started ignoring me and I had no friends :( but if it weren’t for them I probably would have never met my bff so every cloud has it’s silver lining ig?

[TheReal_Sunny]

Someone give her an award for being so relatable

[itxnano]

I just cry about this yesterday bc my 7 year friendship is about to fade away since we are moving in diff college and she doesn't talk to me as much as I do wanna talk to her and it's pathetic to be the only person who wants to keep the rls :/

[adelekatz]

why did i hv to see this i hate the feeling i get when i realise it will never be the same again

[emilyyy]

I had an online group of friends in like 2020-2021 and then our gc died in 2022, havent rlly talked to them since :( i miss them sm

[ronoicho]

Nothing ever lasts forever, except the eternal feeling of wanting to stay alone but feeling lonely and being sad about it.

[andrew]

bro i actually relate to this so much. when i was in seventh grade i had this friend group and we would basically talk every day and visit each other and do all the stuff that friend groups usually do. they were truly some of my best friends, but around March of last year we slowly fell apart and by the time that september started we didn’t even talk. i still see some of the members in my former friend group in orchestra sometimes, or when i pass them in the halls (i’m still friends with some of them, i’m just not as close with them anymore) but we don’t talk that much anymore.

[Original_Megan]

Oh my god this made me cry. I remember about 2 years ago we have a group chat with me, my best friend, her boyfriend, and his best friend. We talked every second of the day we would sneak our phones in class, her boyfriend lives only a block from me so we would meet up at a pond every time my bestie came over and take photos and have fun, they had been together for 4 years, then my best friends mom thought her boyfriend wasn’t good for her, then made them break up, I’m still friends with all of them but they don’t talk anymore, I guess I may have thought they would stay together forever, but they didn’t. I guess you never know how much you have til it’s gone. ❤

[hanac]

Slowly drifting apart is sometimes worse than cutting contact because of a conflict or other stuff.
You always wonder if you should contact them again, whether it would be OKAY to contact them, is the dynamic lost, is it going to be weird etc etc.

[aubrey.bachert]

I used to have a group of 4, 1 girl called us all ugly behind our back, 1 girl just stopped talking and she eventually cut ties with us out of nowhere. I’m only friends with the one girl now and we talk daily.

We all slowly left the group 7 months ago and I wish it was revived dearly.



UPDATE: I actually ended up getting back in contact with the girl who randomly cut ties. we aren’t a group anymore but I’m individually friends with her now and ofc the girl I’ve always been talking to.

[DisHome]

Hurts when there are too many friend groups like that

[llreachrichenterprise]

True..
When i find the group sometimes i will say something and no one answered and i realized that im the only one that remembered that group

[TZ.RBN.]

Girl just explained my entire life in one YouTube short 💀

[sumstoner]

We used to have a tight friend group of five. First the other girl in our group kind of drifted away. I later learned it was because she was going through a lot, I wish I realized that sooner. Then one of us moved away. We still spoke online but it wasn't everyday like before, so we were down to three. Then one of the three of us died which safe to say was and still is the worst grief I've ever felt. Now none of us talk on the regular, It's really because we all remind each other of the painful memories.