You Only Have 5 Chances to Get Married - Hurry Up! | Jordan Peterson

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Jordan Peterson is a renowned Canadian psychologist, author, and professor, widely acclaimed for his profound insights into the human psyche and his contributions to the field of psychology. With an illustrious career spanning several decades, Peterson has earned a remarkable reputation for his thought-provoking ideas and transformative teachings.

Peterson's academic achievements are truly exceptional. He holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology from the University of Alberta and has served as a professor at the University of Toronto. Throughout his career, he has published numerous influential papers and articles, making significant contributions to the field. Notably, his work on personality psychology and the psychology of religious and ideological belief systems has garnered widespread recognition.

One of the striking indicators of Peterson's impact is his exceptional citation count on Google Scholar of over 21,000 citations. His research has been cited by scholars and researchers worldwide, highlighting the significance and relevance of his ideas. This recognition reflects the profound influence he has had on the academic community and the intellectual discourse surrounding psychology.

[frommyownbackyard]

Moral of the story, don't waste time because time is not in your side.

[JFox]

I’ve loved 6 women, it’s hard as hell to do. Started when I was 16 and met the last one at 36. A lot of heart ache. It’s like emotional Chinese water torture after a while. You open, you love, your heart is ripped out, your heart hardens, you open back up, repeat.

Absolute torture. Finally married with kids, and I hope to never go through the process of heart break again.

[drdabdo]

This is why when I found a guy I really connected with and loved and someone told me I should "look around a little more" I was like no. Finding someone you can run your life side by side with as a united front, and you connect with/are comfortable with, is so rare. We're married now.

[addiemgerrits]

The mating game is awful. Online dating has given people false hope. But after 2 years you realize the same people are still online. The people who know they want marriage early have a head start.

[FlyingDutchman]

I wish I would have waited. But at 26 i was feeling the societal pressure. I've wasted 13 years married to an autistic gaming addict.

[parisaresident]

I’m single at 53. All I can say is that I tried. It just doesn’t happen for everyone. And no; my life is not terrible and I’m not sulking around. I get tired of hearing how distraught I should be.

[ironmaidenfitness]

I started at 17, married him at 18. Been married 34 years. Total roller coaster.

[Lola-tqnv]

I met the love of my life freshman yr of college; we dated 2 yrs, he proposed, and all I could do was cry. I regret every single day, not running away with him. I should have escaped and never looked back, but was far too scared & brainwashed. Unfortunately, I was still controlled by an abusive parent who continued to torment, beat, & abuse me, stalking me at work to make sure I didn't speak to anyone. Sabotaged any hope I had of marrying & having a family. Was told noone would ever love or want me, and bf was told I didn't want to see him anymore. This was before cell phones, and I wasn't allowed to use the house phone. I worked but couldn't afford a car. Bf sent me letters which were taken. I didn't realize as an adult - I had the right to leave and could have experienced some joy and peace in this life.

[DAttackRolls]

My husband and I met when I was in 6th grade. He's a couple years older than me and he was in 8th grade. He is the older brother to one of my friends so I ended up hanging out with him a lot more than I thought I would since I was at her house almost every weekend. We fought like cats and dogs and everyone said we were going to get together one day which just made us fight more but we became best friends very quickly even though we gave each other a hard time. After knowing him for two years I said to myself, "This is the guy I'm going to marry." I refused to date anyone else and as soon as I graduated high school he asked me out and I said, "As long as you know this is permanent because I don't date." and we've been together 14 years.

[samanthabarron]

I’m grateful that I’ve never been desperate to get married. I am 36 with no children and honestly I’m very grateful that I never had children with the people I dated in the past. I think it is a worse fate to have children with the wrong person than it is to never have children, and I will only wish I had learned my worth and dated more worthy people in my youth, but I’ll never wish I married someone who wasn’t a good partner. A partner can either accelerate your success or sabotage it, and if you find someone who enhances your life you should hold onto them, and if you have someone who makes your life harder, don’t waste any time getting rid of them. There may be someone out there who knows how to love you and let you be yourself. You’ll never fix the wrong person, you can only let them go before you get in too deep.

[DaisiesRoses]

He’s absolutely right! I’m now 41 and a single parent. Sadly it took me having a child with the wrong human, before I was able to see that I was the problem. I allowed others to treat me poorly. I was so used to being manipulated and controlled from childhood, that to me out was normal. It was love.
It’s been 2 years since I left my toxic relationship and I’m healing nicely. And I have met someone. Things are falling into place.

[pksmallan]

I had one. Or it's more like WE had one. My husband is my one and only. We didn't save sex for marriage, we just decided to do it and stick with it. And I did start off right before my 17th birthday. I question my decisions I made back then, but if we're still in the works, and making it work, we'll just keep going. We've been together for 24 years. It's been one hell of a ride. I'll say that. Marriage isn't for the weak.

[atl]

I’m almost 56. I’ve never been in a relationship at all. Not even close. No one has ever, “tugged a heartstring”, for me. The loneliness is brutal at times but I manage as best as I can.

[YaStarz]

I found the perfect woman for me. After 3 1/2 she decided that she doesn't want a relationship anymore. We were about to get married and have children. People think i can just find someone new because they dont realize how close we were.
I hope you all have better luck and i advice you to take dating seriously. Sleeping around has completely ruined relationships. Most people realize way too late how a relationship can improve your life and how lonely you will be in your 30s and 40s. I can only imagine how much worse it is after that.

[michaelford]

I have given away my heart many times only to have it returned to me in shreds. I’m done.

[robbhays]

My wife did it in one shot. I was her first and only boyfriend. Feels good, man.

[xkcd]

It takes longer than a year to learn who someone is. You can know someone your whole life and they can throw curve balls at you. I went on a date with someone who said she likes to be mean. For three years she dated a guy and pretended she was kind. Then, 3 years into it she started being her real self and he bailed. I dont think youll ever completely know who someone else is. Hell, I have time to think all day, Im 32 and Im still learning things about myself I didnt know. Not only that, but people change over time, which adds to the confusion.

[rapidblur]

I met my wife almost 2 years ago. We got married a month ago. First woman i ever loved. I feel very lucky to have never felt heartbreak. I feel things very deeply and I'm not sure if I would have recovered from a pain like that.

[fungunsun]

Women have biological clock but men have emotional clock. We cant face as many breakups as women really: those who can typically wouldn’t settle anyways.

[derek]

Same. So lucky to have someone who thinks so similarly to me about God, morality, and marriage. We are pregnant with our third child, and we hope to have at least two more, if God allows it.