Reasons Why Men START Caring When you STOP Caring

[geremymason]

If he didn't care before, he probably still doesn't. Most of the time he is only pretending to care because he still wants to have access to the woman. A lot of men see women as property and he doesn't want the woman to leave him (although he will leave when he good and well pleases). This is especially true if he has shown signs of being controlling and manipulative in the past. These same men will come and go as they please and have a tendency to ghost. Many men do this with women that they have children with (actually, I believe that many of them have children with women for this reason) - they only want to have continued access to the woman; they don't truly care and will use whatever tactics that they need to in order to keep a woman on the hook.

[Ms.K_LaTrailera]

When a woman stops caring, it's finished. There's no looking back, nothing. It's called moving on. And ironically, they come back. It's a nuisance seeing them try and try and put in more effort when you're absolutely not interested anymore.

[maddart]

As soon as you want them or like them they become uninterested because it’s a game for them.

[GabreyaB]

This shows why it’s best to leave toxic relationships and never look back.

[peachesandpoets]

I'm not playing these hide and seek games. I choose to leave men behind and focus on me

[Rose-kjrz]

41 yr old woman here.
Yeah, maybe it's true for some guys (a SMALL group of guys), however, overall, I would take what this guy says with a grain of salt.
In my experience, most men just want to conquer you.
That's it. Once they think they have you and you won't go away, THEY lose interest.
I'm done with all these dating "rules".
You have to like me, but you can't like me too much, or let me know how much you like me, bc then it gets boring.
GTFOH with all that.
I care about my peace too much to be trying to chase after how much you think I should be/be doing this or that.
That's not authentic either.

[denisehiggins]

Tell me this doesn’t indicate a toxic man who’s too immature for you.

[manifest]

It’s so simple: they want to use you more. That first dude is talking BS.

[anjaxtv]

I think I've been ghosted for the first time in my life... It is soooo off putting. Makes me grossed out. 4 years I've protected my heart and this f*ckboy is trying to break it. No chance

[feliciajenkins]

They think you found someone who acts like a decent human being and the goal is to make you suffer. If you think I don't care it's already too late we done done.

[enken]

All this hard work and psychological gymnastics to keep a man? Absolutely not worth it. They're not that special.

[Mystic_Paths]

When someone who once showed interest pulls back, it can create a sense of loss or curiosity. Men might start to question why that change happened, sparking their renewed interest.

[TheWinglessHawk]

First clip literally called out the true issue at hand. He literally said that men wants to be gaslighted... which in of itself is a huge problem and shows how much men lack healthy decernment when it comes to interacting with women. I'll give an example from my life: I met someone and dating never really took off, but we stayed friends on socials. It was mainly dead. Then after years of us not communicating, I saw him posting something funny, I reacted to it not even bothered to entertain the thought of more than friendship because I'm still grieving about another past relationship, yet he took it personal, believed that I was "out to get more" and he blocked me.
Y'all... just thinking whatever up in your own little headspace and world is one thing. But truly speaking with me and really finding out what the hell is going on is another.
But hey, it's easier to just ghost and be a complete shit head instead of man-ing up to the fricking plate.
Unironically I've also seen the same interaction avoidance issue with women so... we all, men and women alike, make our lives a living hell, though WE could make our lives better IF we even wanted too. But that would mean to work on ourselves and to overcome our own hurdles and be less of shit faces towards others... and that's difficult... and nowadays we all want to have it easy... so we don't do better by lazy arse default.

[thembekadorcaskhumalo]

This is tiring just listening to it. Maybe I need counseling. 🚮🚮🚮

[CAMICAZE]

I hung out with ny older male neighbor. It was so draining. Like Men arent really that enjoyable to be around..lol. i said it they are quite needy and boring

[CAMICAZE]

That creates Stalkers..stop assuming Men are capable of being dependent on..basically 😊

[nickinicolesmith]

Im not dating anymore and havent for a while. Its a sin to fornicate anyway. Im not going to hell for a man that doesnt know what he wants. I went thru it and dont want to do it again. Imma let these passport bro and the ones too broke to leave live there life. And I'm going to save my money up stay abstinent and find me someone over seas. When my children get grown. Im gone. Almost seven years and i be home free with a none year old. 😂😂 Gonna feel good to just take care of one child again. My triplets preteens right now and my oldest will be 18 ten months.. when im gone im gone. After my engagement failure cuz of him making me loose @ least 7000.00 bye. Lol. My savings..i wanna cry so bad but i just count it as a lose. Im focused on raising my kids and my life overseas .

[bong_water]

4:33 i’m never going to marry. your too interested too not interested like my god shut up.

[sdma]

No. We don’t have time for this bullshit. Didn’t even watch the video. They ‘start caring’ when you stop because they don’t respect your time. Do not entertain them.

[jasminegrisson]

Don’t thumbnail Shera for your crappy video if she not gonna be in it