Everyday struggles of a post surgical former transwoman Detransitioner LaRell Groin Anomaly

In this video I talk about some of the more intimate weird issues that a post surgical detransitioner faces in the world. Very similar to what a non-surgical "Trans Man" deals with, because I am man without a penis.

[Random]

Detransitioners are arguably the most marginalized members of the LGBT+ community. Thank you for spreading awareness.

[bluewolfwalking]

What a service you are doing to people who are considering genital surgery. My hat is off to you and I wish you well….

[viquiben]

I have a friend who lost all his male genitalia after getting infected by a flesh eating bacteria following a simple surgical procedure, so what you're going through can happen by other reasons than transitioning. Keep strong and be safe, your resilience is an inspiration to many ❤

[tammyvanderveen]

I'm sure some people watch out of a weird fascination, but these are issues that need to be talked about. Keep on doing what you're doing!

[WendySanchez-lcco]

You're so brave and I'm so glad you're doing this. The doctors aren't telling people the hard, bad or negative parts about transitioning. You're helping them make an educated decision the best someone can.

[turtlesister]

Your candid testimony might save a child or teen from following a dark agenda that they'll later find out could have been a big mistake. Thank you.

[ChurchyXo]

I hope you realise how important your voice is right now. We as a society need for the truth and honesty that you sharing your story brings to the table. Thank you ❤

[tradtwink-jhbfkjsdf]

Earlier this year, I had that same surgery scheduled, and I'm incredibly grateful that I got weirded out by the entire process (what kind of surgeon tries to upsell their patient and then talks about their sex life for half an hour!?) and noped out of there, because although I took estrogen for 2 years, I'll never have to deal with the same consequences you face

[JessHarris-dv]

I'm a detransitioned butch lesbian. I lived as a man for 30years, and have my own list of things to deal with. When I lived as a man, I didn't have those parts down there. The airport was a huge stressor. I get it, and I appreciate you taking the time to speak to these things.

[susiegreaves]

This is painful to listen to. But I applaud this man for talking about the subject. He seems like such a gentle soul. I wish him the best and send him all good wishes. Thank you for explaining all this. We all need to understand.

[kellybrown]

You're a good guy, LaRell! God bless you and your family.

[mrs.reluctant]

I personally find La Rell to having a much more masculine radiation than many men have where I live. So obviously masculinity doesn't have that much to do with genitals. Anyway, it takes a lot to talk about such issues in public. Thank you very much for your bravery, LaRell.

[weallmakechoices]

LaRell I do enjoy listening to your honest thoughts about matters that are so far outside of my own experiences. You are a gifted communicator. I despair at a medical profession that encourages people who are in great mental distress to self mutilate...Bending reality to fit an ideological narrative, rather than exploring the deep self loathing that is behind such unhappiness. In our secular society the trans ideology appears to have supplanted the religious need for a belief system that we have in our makeup. The 'true believers' approach this subject with the madness of zealots, and are prey to the manipulations of powerful instigators behind the scenes who can mould their acolytes to suit their political causes. I'm sorry you were on the receiving end of such egregious malpractice.

[Preid]

These truths need to be shared. Thank you for your strength & vulnerability!

[OnlyJalenPhd]

I think you’re incredibly strong. I’m just a stranger on the internet, (who didn’t struggle w/ my sexuality, ) but everything you’ve gone through to find yourself is a journey, few could walk.
Your voice is being heard, and now others can come to you and hopefully learn from your experience. I wish nothing but the best for you. ♥️

[telasims]

This is why I feel letting children transition should be researched more before operating on a minor.. I'm so sorry you're going threw this. I can see the pain in your face, and you are so brave to be sharing this. If you help ONE person, it's worth it. And I think by being so transparent, you are helping so much more than one person.. thank you so much for sharing..

[karlaanthony]

LaRell, soon I hope that you are comfortable calling yourself just a " man" and you don't need to add the " derransitioner" label to yourself. I do very much appreciate your willingness to teach others about all of the ups & downs of this situation. Thank you Sir.

[deborahlester]

You seem like such a kind person. I am so sorry for all if your suffering. Thank you for trying to educate people.

[Willow]

So very appreciate your honesty about such deep personal and intimate issues. As a heterosexual woman I never would think if these problems you face. So brave of you to share! God bless!

[MayimHastings]

I'm a masculine woman, and as a kid i remember hearing an old lady talking about when women first started wearing pants. She said that she was a woman, so whatever clothing she was wearing was "women's clothing". Your underwear are mens underwear. Anyway, that helped me along the way. I've always found it amusing when someone misgenders me because it really derails people. Having said all of that, you are such a gift to this world, and the best ambassador. Thank you for putting yourself out there 🤍🙏🕊