Parent Grounded her Daughter for the REST OF SUMMER? Am I the Bad Apple

EPISODE 16 OF "Am I the Bad Apple" Thank you guys for loving this series as much as I love you all!

00:40 - Grounded the Bully/Racist
07:07 - Gave her Room Away
12:43 - Making a Trans Kid Uncomfortable
16:29 - Wardrobe Malfunction

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[Rebecca.Rogers]

Hi my lovelies! I am continuing to figure out the ins and outs of long content and as you can see, have been making some minor changes like camera, having the icons throughout the series, etc. Please continue to send the feedback! You know I love it! I want to know what changes you like, what you don't like, and should be changed back, ect.! AND continue sharing this series with your friends, my hope is that my long form content becomes as popular as the shorts I have posted for the last year :D

[pixelatedmushroom]

As a mixed-race Asian, I have had people pull their eyes at me, yell CORONAVIRUS and various other things. It is never right to do those things, or to be racist to anyone at all. 100% deserved grounding for story one, that daughter needs help. As for the parent, crabapple. Questionable actions everywhere.

[ndfrgss]

For the 4th story, definite good apple.

My reasoning is mainly because of a thing that I went through in 7th grade and I still hold so much respect for this sub teacher who had JUST started subbing for schools.

I used to have really bad periods MULTIPLE TIMES A MONTH (and I mean like 2 or 3 times. Every single month. I made quite the friends with the front desk staff). Well, one time I didn't notice I had bled all the way through, to the point that my BLACK JEANS that I was wearing even made it obvious. As I said, I had no clue.

The male substitute for the class saw or heard some kids talking (I'm not really sure which it was and I don't really care either way because it didn't matter). He noticed and he walked over to my desk and played it off like circling around asking if kids needed help. He walked over and kinda leaned down and whispered "Hon, you've bled through entirely, do you have a jacket or anything to tie around your waist?" It was like 2nd or 3rd hour, 90 degrees out AND WE HAD 7 HOURS IN THE SCHOOL DAY. So I immediately panicked and almost burst into tears. This man, without Hesitation, goes "no no, don't worry. I've got a dark colored jacket by the desk, stay back a few moments after class and I can get it to you so you don't have to stand up. I'll write a note for your next hour too." And of course the kids sitting near me heard. It was a table group type thing. And of course, there had to be that ONE person who took it in a weird creepy way. Long story short, they reported him over it and when I got asked about it, I found out the person who reported made half of the stuff they said up!! In the end the school had to check the classroom cameras, and the sub got cleared that "yep. Nothing bad happened. Sorry about that!" And he didn't sub at the school after that. I know he really struggled for a week or so after the incident happened, but I'm still so grateful for how he handled that.

[iqramohamed.]

I love the new icons especially the crab apple. Thank you for putting in so much effort into making a full length video every single week. It keeps getting better and better. Adiós!

[JosieAreSee]

That first one… I agree with you. 100% telling him all those negative things was inappropriate. That girl probably needs to see a therapist

[b.bubblybi]

As a proud Asian who always suffered racism from others, I am fucking GLAD that the daughter from #1 was punished that way. No one ever takes AAPI hate seriously and often thinks of my people as nothing but a joke. I don’t care how severe the punishments may sound; bullies need to repent no matter what, and as a victim of racial bullying and bullying in general, I was happy to hear this. I’m just glad someone is finally teaching their kids the right things and making sure they straighten themselves out.

However, I do agree with what you said about the money. As much as it IS funny to hear that the girl’s money was taken away and given to her brother, I wished the parents would’ve taken a more practical approach to that. Plus, why would you wait for her to get home JUST to punish her? If my parents found out I did something wrong and was at a friends house, they would literally drive there and DRAG me all the way back. I’m glad it got resolved in the end, but I just think it’s ridiculous of them to let the punishments wait for such a serious issue.

[imthevevo]

For the third story: Definitely agree, not the bad apple. As a trans man, I too get a little uncomfortable when I hear someone with my dead name. But I don't go out and make a big fuss, it's their name too and if it's what they identify with that is their choice. I don't feel as if it should be that persons problem that I don't really like that name.
My deadname, given, is pretty uncommon but with a really popular name like Jessica there is no way you're gonna get everyone to change it just for you.

[missnewvillage]

I read the second story on AITA and was surprised that everyone thought that the mom wasn’t in the wrong. I think the mom owed the daughter a conversation to give her a heads up that her room would be switched with the sibling. I agree that a conversation would likely have avoided this situation.

[sakurakhadag]

For the second story, if my parents gave my room to anyone without letting me know, I'd definitely be super mad. I'm not even a teenager anymore lol

[Brian]

On the second story, I agree with you for the most part, but waiting for the daughter to get home may be a good thing. If the mother needed that time to calm down from a murderous rage to just mad as Hell, waiting is good

[sadboy.cven]

As a fellow trans man I would like to say that I absolutely agree with you. I don't understand why he asked someone else to go by a nickname because it makes him uncomfortable. Yes, when I am reading a book or someone is taking about a character from a TV show and they happened to have my deadname it makes me slightly twitch and sometimes uncomfortable but it's something I can handle. I have a novel I'm writing and one of the characters has my deadname. I thought it'd be funny! But it's no excuse to ask someone to go by a different name. That's just really odd to me I would never do that I would make jokes out of it from time to time but not ask that!

[packnetadaija]

Story 2: I mean you could’ve at least told your daughter, “hey Emma wants to switch rooms and I think we should especially considering that you are barely here anyway.” Or something like that, the logic makes sense. I would say…crab apple

[DRUMMING]

For the third story, she was in no way a bad apple. As a trans person, I completely understand being uncomfortable with your dead name, but that doesn't give your friends the right to shame people for not going by a different name if you have the same one.

[CharlieL]

I was with the parents in the first story until the giving her allowance to the brother, all you will do is breed even more resentment in the daughter. to be clear she should not get an allowance but it should not be given to the brother. She will only bully him more and it will give her a reason bad mouth him more to friends when school starts. I also remember people being kept from friends and the minute school stated it was worse because the teens could talk about how much the parents clearly favor sibling

[Amehtta]

As a transwoman whose deadname is james, the third story was a trip. I think you nailed it pretty much on the head though. Poor Baby trans just needs to get used to hearing other people using their dead name. Totally get how uncomfortable it is. Just takes time to adjust to

[placename]

I gotta say I love the icons and I love the small change of the apples in the corner. The way your using that to keep track of what you gave them, visually, as you go along is a small but lovely detail

[ChrispyWings]

4th story: Male teacher here, I currently teach high school seniors. This is my nightmare. If taken the wrong way, it could ruin a career and potentially someone’s life. The agonizing over it shows how much they cared about the matter as well. I would have contacted a female colleague tbh. Good Apple

[BrightSanctuary]

As a member of the LGBT community I want to say that it is not okay to tell someone else they have to change their name because it's your dead name.

That is like trying to tell someone that they can't have a donut because you're on a diet. Which is literally the argument that the LGBT use against religious arguments

[Monntanaaxx]

1- agree. They definitely should’ve handled the disciplines differently, especially with the allowance- like you said it will create so much resentment between them.
2. When I moved out my sister got my room because it was bigger, but I knew it was going to happen anyway. When I moved back for 4 months following a breakup I made do in her old room, which is significantly smaller. The mum should’ve called the daughter just to let her know! A 5 minute phone call is not that hard!
3. Your name is your name! No one has the right to tell or ask you to change how you’re called/referred to just because it makes them uncomfortable.

[katy]

I'm a queer cisgendered person and I LOVE seeing all these amazing trans people giving their perspective. This channel has built such a safe space to talk about some of these issues and I'm glad to be here 🌈💜