11 Reasons Why You Feel Lonely Even When Surrounded By People

We like each other’s witty tweets or Instagram pics of vacations, and we friend on Facebook people we haven’t seen—or thought about—since high school. And yet, we feel lonely. Hi viewers and welcome back to Bestie!

Feeling lonely while surrounded by people is normal, especially if you're dealing with mental issues. A person can have friends, partners, significant others and still feel lonely because loneliness comes from within. There are many reasons and in today’s video, we will tell you what they are.

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Timestamps:
Intro - 0:00
You pretend to be someone you are not - 00:50
You re overly self reliant - 01:36
You compare yourself to others - 02:06
You crave closeness - 02:45
You’re an introvert - 03:46
You Have Your Guard Up - 04:12
Poor parental attachment - 04:44
You aren’t close to your friends - 05:42
You’re spending too much time on social media - 06:21
You struggle with codependency - 06:59
You’re going through a lot of change - 07:29

Music:

Summary:
You pretend to be someone you’re not: When you pretend to be someone you’re not and people like you for it, it feels like you have to do this every time.

You are overly self reliant: While being self-reliant is generally a good trait, if you hesitate to reach out to people because you want to address issues on your own, it might be worth exploring why.

You compare yourself to others: At some point, every single one of us has compared ourselves to another in a way that shut us down.

You Crave Closeness: Loneliness is a complicated affair. It might actually mean you’re longing for connection.

You're An Introvert: Introverts can get a bad reputation for living in isolation.

You Have Your Guard Up: Ever feel like people don't really know you? It's possible that you're surrounded by people who are not emotionally available or who aren't looking for relationships.

Poor Parental Attachment: More than anything, we learn how to connect and form bonds based on our caregivers.

You aren’t close to your friends: It doesn’t matter how many acquaintances you have.

You’re spending too much time on social media: No matter what narrative you’re trying to put up on your Instagram, the desire to check your phone constantly often signals you want to check out of the present moment.

You struggle with codependency: Codependency is what happens when you base your sense of identity and self-worth on someone else.

For more information, please watch the video until the very end.
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[stevencrawtr]

I personally enjoy my privacy and time alone is absolutely essential for me.

[renaewellswithrwhomesllc]

I can definitely relate to this video as a 13 year old, I struggle to even make friends so I go with online friends. but unfortunately ever since then I’ve been isolating myself for no telling how long. ofc my mom wants me to be outgoing but I’m definitely introverted. I try to get my friends that I text to hang out with me, but they would rather choose sports than hang with me.

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[sonias]

For me the number 1 reason is, though, that I'm _not_ surrounded by people..

[bryanmccallum]

Makes perfect sense I see this all the time. January 7, 2022 just right!

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