For those approaching adulthood...

what nobody tells you about being a grown up:
probably dont work at uniqlo (sorry uniqlo) (not rly)

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[ItsMeRuff]

EDITED BY OUR SEXY EDITOR: (IG: @king_ofthe_aces)

pls reply with what u like and dont like bout the editing and follow him too muah

[ABetterPlace]

I think the most important thing of "growing up" is to understand that everything is a choice. If you can take ownership of your choices you don't have to conform to anyone else's idea of what a grown up is. Because at the end of the day its you and this life.
love you ruff <3

[andrei]

I'm currently a 16 year old on self improvement and I found this video very relieving. It's nice to see likeminded people commenting about the same worries that you have. I really feel like you would achieve a ton in life, Ruff. Thank you for your content!

[chaitanyadarbar]

i am 23 and frm india and i got into IT industry at the age of 19 and stared earning good but after 4 years i dont feel that good so even at this i am into changing carriers and am goint to start collage again until i am satisfied, so just one advice do what u want until u r satisfied.

[cactus_ash]

This, helped a lot.
I was really, really considering just going into a medical field just because my mom wants me to.
“If you don’t know what you want to do, just go to medical! Then at least you have a stable job.”
I’ve always known that I never wanted to go into the medical field. But I don’t have my own passion, nothing that I can call my own.

This video felt like a wake up call, that I shouldn’t be doing something just because people tell me I should, even if it’s my own parents. I don’t know what I’ll do yet, but I hope it’ll be something I enjoy.

[roxycozy]

"Keeo the childhood dreams"
ok guys, imma become a fairy mermaid princess 😋

[eac]

I always love to hear you talk ruff. It's just so calming.

[Fwffyy]

This is incredibly well spoken, also helped a lot with my own train of thought.

[ulrixsilver]

Great video! I just wrote this to make a point about "trying many thing in life" and "phases" on 2:00. It was clear for me what you said, but! You say, what it is not a phase, but, I think, in grand scheme of life it's still a phase! It's just another choice, and you have an every right to make a mistake. But I can agree on - that really sucks when you making a really big choice and it comes up as a wrong one, and it make your life just a pain in ass, but it's still okay - some things just need to be get overcome, I guess...

Recently I just saw these videos, and surprisingly, through many others, yours are were the ones who hit close to me. Thx for this🤟

P.S. Just saw that someone literally said same thing in just like 4 words🤣, but, I still think it was better to say it, than just lose it in my mind

[rupenbolesmith]

A big thanks to my family for letting me chose the shit I chose to study, now I got no one to blame.

[hanapihlar]

Man i love you i’ve been watching your videos for a month now and it is freaking awsome you helped me change my mindset so much!
Keep going and growing

[Blebis]

I'm 16 and I am either graduating to college this year or next year and I got no idea what I want to do. What you said about finding a job that doesn't seem like work to me but is to others is some good advice I will most definitely use this to figure out what I want to do, thank you.

[Money-Easy-xtvx]

When I’m unsure of my next move bc I don’t want to fail again or face my feelings of being in pain or unsure, I feel like I don’t want to let go of u n keep u close haha 🥰❤

[zeroaspect]

Bros In my head. Man has just talked about my thoughts Fr.

[XiaNicoleJacob]

I loveyou ruff you're now my therapist

[azharbaloch]

I am a medical student and I feel like I am studying for someone else dream. My grandfather wanted my mom to be a doctor but after his death, my mom quit studying and started doing a job. now she wants me to be a doctor. you know what I study really hard i push myself to the extra mile but I am not happy. now I am seriously tired. Every time I start studying I only question myself am I on the right path? I know that this is not my passion this is not what I wanna be and now I am so afraid of my future. I even have a chance to change it now but i am afraid to again shatter all dreams of my mom in front of me. For 16 year old me growing up sure is painful

[ketiviv]

you made my day again, thanks a lot ruff.

[tatianamoonbeam]

he being a child at the start of the video, but at the end he damn he said the *** truth

[definitelyenisi]

What I find difficult is the fact that I know what kind of problems I want to solve in life, I know my talent and skills, I am very skilled in fixing computers and tech but I have no idea where to go. Everyone is choosing what university they want to go to, yet here I am, clueless and bad grades because I don't know where I'm gonna study.

[Mizuki_]

Hey Ruff, A request please make a video on "How to find your true passion? Or What you really want to do in your life?" Please 🥺 Ruff..❣️