The Hosts Get REAL About Their Childhood Insecurities

At some point in our lives, we all have insecurities about something. Watch the hosts open up about their greatest adolescent insecurities and heartbreaks, in this clip.

[Mfd]

I know EXACTLY where Loni is coming from, when you are a young girl who "develops/grows" fast, whether that be your height or your figure, some of your childhood goes along with it. I started to grow breasts in the 4th grade(age 9) and it impacted the way adults and other kids started to treat me. I was a child in my heart/mind, but since we are *visual* people nobody sees that. I started getting unwanted attention from men and adults would constantly make jokes about my body. There is a loss of childhood when you don't visually look like a child.

[DearKeith]

I remember when Tamera originally told that 'Twitches' story on Wendy William's show. She said that Tia decided to get a mole drawn on her face, so that Tamera didn't have to get hers covered. It was sweet of her to do that.

[DarkwaveDuck]

They're all lying about not picking at their bodies while looking in the mirror. Idk why Jeannie was the only one telling the truth. We've all done this.

[AshlyCT]

Seriously people, you know Tamera loves her sister,  and having a twin has done wonders for her life and career. The segment is about childhood insecurities, so of course Tamera will talk about her insecurities with being a twin, because if you're a twin, you know that's pretty much the center of your life until you grow up and make your own name.

[moonbrat]

I feel Adrienne on that one, I mean after three kids and my oldest being 15.. I go to his school for a conference and the security yells at me telling me to go back to class! Lol

[livelove]

Adrienne is so right about encouraging young people! It doesn't cost anything and they remember it right up until adulthood. They get so much flack from their peers

[chuckie]

Poor Jeannie can't ever catch a break! Smh

[miguelarucan]

Even without the mole, I can still distinguish between Tamera and Tia. They're my favorite twins :)

[VONiiE]

Honestly, it's not that hard to tell Tia and Tamera apart. Even on 'Sister, Sister' and on 'Twitches', I was able to tell them apart.

[esthergrace]

Anybody who's been following Tamera knows she loves her twin sister! Just because she wants individuality does not mean she hates being a twin. She just hates being lumped into one, that's all. People should practice listening!!!!

[writesingdance]

Yes x 100 Adrienne! Its so important to empower little girls and teach them to see the beauty in themselves. There are so many insecure people out there seeking to bring others down (in order to feel better). People carry those ugly words. Be the positive voice that a little girl or anyone hears. It can make their day and their life better (and you wouldn't even know it). Costs nothing.

[mysteriousmercy]

I'm I the only one who thinks that moles on the face makes a girl look even more beautiful?

[_CocoaDream]

I sympathize with Adrienne because to this day, im 20, 120lbs and 5'1, Without makeup, hair and certain clothes I still look 15. It's a blessing and a curse

[OMGiGi]

Am I weird because I could always Tia And Tamera part even during sister sister when they put a mole on Tia! They never looked alike to me!

[ellearnan]

My insecurity in my childhood was probably being blac tbh. All the schools I've been to are predominantly white. There was one school in particular where it was a private Christian school so my family, and about 2 other families were the only black families there lol I remember a time in third grade where this girl, who was supposedly me my friend, said I had black eyes because I'm black. I kept telling her I had dark brown eyes but she refused to listen. I also remember not liking my hair or the chicken pox mark on my forehead but honestly, now that I've learned what self-love is I am enjoying my God given 4c hair and pox mark. People will always try and diminish your worth when their unhappy with themselves but realize your value because God didn't put you and I here for nothing.

[ashleyllorens]

As a twin myself, I completely understand Tamera's insecurity. I wasn't an "individual" until I went to college because my sister stayed in our hometown and I went out of state. I love my twin and would do anything for her, but I also enjoy being myself without people always comparing me or asking me about my twin.   

[LuciaHassell]

I love how open they are with each other

[HerNameAJk]

Tamar's legs compared to Adrienne's 😂just look under the table😭💀

[brianar]

I feel you Adrienne. I'm 22 and I still feel the same way about being short and looking young.

[BabyC]

I know exactly where Adrienne is coming from. I had the same insecurity. I was always either the skinniest in class, the smallest or the shortest. But, I've learned to be happy and I even wear heels just to make myself feel taller. In addition to that, I do not age, I look like I am 18 (people range it from 14 to 18) yet I am 22. Ah, late blooming is not cool!