Can you Reconcile with a Narcissist? What does the Bible Say about it?

Can you reconcile with a Narcissist? What does the Bible Say about it?

Should I reconcile with my narcissistic husband, wife, friend, or family members?

Jesus engaged in radical forgiveness with his abusers, the ones who are responsible for his death on the cross. But does God ever call us to reconcile with our abusers, especially when narcissism seems to be so entrenched in their personality? Isn't God all about restoring relationships? In this video, we will be looking at the story of Jacob and Laban to get God's heart and mind on the matter of reconciliation.

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Hi! I’m Shaneen Megji. It seems my whole life has prepared me to do the work I am so passionate about today. Let’s just say I had to swim in narcissistic waters for many years, in workplace scenarios, in my previous faith as a Muslim, in friendships, and even in the church. God truly doesn’t waste anything. Each and every experience and all the studies I have done help me in my passion to set people free from the bondage and oppression of narcissistic relationships, to help survivors of such pain regain their authentic selves and their hope in God’s good plans for them, and to re-educate the church around toxic leadership.

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[Shut-up-Shelly]

Many Christians need to hear this...we are guilted into staying with these nasty demon filled people by the church...but with these kind of people we should run from them...not stay to continue to be abused. Thank you sister!

[danieldrake]

When a narcissist refuses to repent, acknowledge they made a mistake or that they have done anything wrong, they think they are totally honorable, nothing will ever be resolved. I know this from first hand experience.

[daniellepearls]

Lady your amazing how you explain Narcissim through bible stories✝️🙏🏻

[feda]

Matthew 7.6-16 of the Bible
Do not give what is holy to dogs; and do not throw your pearls before swine, or they will trample them under foot and turn and maul you …. Keep up the good work 😊

[haleycrowe]

This has actually been the most profound video I have seen on narcissism, because it explains exactly what is going on in my heart. I have prayed for God to let his will be known because I can no longer trust my own will. For years and years I was praying for him to show me the truth, when he did and I could see clearly I didn’t know what to do, I gave it to him. Thank you for this video. I know that no matter how many times I want to believe that Gods only will would be for him to be saved by Christ and our family to heal… he works in many different ways, and I am trusting him more every day.

[sandywichmann]

After 20 years living with someone who is diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder, I can only tell you to run, don’t walk away, run and leave no trace. He tried to fight his narcissistic traits, he’s even convinced he did it, but his narcissism got worse and worse. Yes, there were times when we went back to the honeymoon phase, but it didn’t last long. The man I had married either never existed or is completely gone. Divorcing him is a nightmare- every time I think he can’t be meaner or dumber, he proves me wrong.

[earthangelpeace]

Sitting at the lawyers office now. Your videos have given me the courage and knowledge to leave my marriage after 13 years of abuse! Thank you for your work! God Bless you! Thank you, thank you, thank you! 😊

[phaxad]

2 Timothy 3:1 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. 2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, 3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, 4 Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; 5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.

[Corinna_Schuett_GER]

Wow. 😳😳 Just came across this video, one of the best I've EVER watched. THANK YOU sister! Being estranged of my own narcissistic mother and also my own adult son (24) who was raised Christian but now lives with her turning his back on us, this is just confirmation to what was my experience also. JESUS CHRIST will heal all our personal wounds SOON, no more tears in heaven! MARANATHA 🙏👰💖

[JeannineStedman]

God bless you, Shaneen! I needed your explanation! I’m ending a 36 year marriage to a malignant narcissist who claims to be a Christian. This whole experience has been extremely confusing. Thank you for clarity.

[janicemurphy]

YOU HAVE BEEN A ANSWER TO MY PRAYERS, I AM SO IMPRESSED WITH YOUR KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM AND UNDERSTANDING OF NARCISSISM, GOD IS GOING TO REVEAL EVERY HIDDEN AND VILE THING OF THE EARTH BEFORE HIS

[HealthyLifestyled]

I love how you advising from a godly perspective. I've dealt with a narcissist ex-husband for 7 years. He goes to court lies all the time kept our children away from me before I used to get very stressed out, I've learned to pray for everything I live with peace .

[daniellepearls]

Oh this is so spot on. My husbands mother pounced on me as if I was amazing but she only cared about her own motives and son. It was so cold and cruel and calculating it is scary how these people behave. I have spent 3 years lured and surrounded by narcissists. Been horrible. My husband and his parents, abused, intimidated, mocked, abused and hated me for no reason except I entered into their den thinking they accepted me but they tried to kill me!!!! Broken ribs and left for dead while they still call themselves Christians. Its scary. God rescued me.✝️🙏🏻
I still pray for my husband and his family. But thats all I can do. To be with my husband. I will die. 😓🙏🏻✝️

[lauriesyme]

Thank you SO much for talking about this topic. I am 58 yrs old, was raised by a diagnosed Malignant Narcissist/Sociopathic Mother. I am her scapegoat firstborn child. The abuse from her was crippling! Christian people throw the scriptures at me, like a sword, Honor thy Father and Mother, so that you will live a prosperous long life. I have severed all ties with her, as she goes out of her way to destroy me, sing my adult son to join her in mocking me. I have been in such pain, and I pray that God helps me understand. You are spot on with your Bible reference to Jacob and Laban. I feel such freedom, and now you’ve given me scripture to back it up! God bless you!

[MJ-qbph]

In my experience you can’t reconcile. They are right and that is all they need to know. Excellent content. As someone who has no biblical relationship I really appreciate your down to earth honesty

[AnnaPoetry]

Thank you very much! I really needed to hear this. I've had a hard time letting it go and accept the fact that I have to leave the relationship with the narcissist behind me. I hoped he could change because he became a Christian and got baptized. But I understand that narcissists seldom change. I will look forward now. Zero contact. God bless you from Sweden. ❤️🇸🇪

[callonthemidwife]

This is all so true —the hard part is that you get so sucked into their web of lies—

[izawaniek]

Yes, as painful as it is some relationships have to end for good. And it is God who can turn those devastating losses into blessings. It is sometimes our walking away that opens a new door for somebody to start a relationship with God and which is the only thing that ultimately counts!

[michaelalten]

I have been tormented with despair for two years since I was discarded. My ex cut me off from our little boy. I don’t want reconciliation with her, except to the point that she’ll let me see him. It’s complicated as he isn’t my biological son. But I named him, cut his umbilical cord, lay him on my chest and was his daddy for 4 years. Then- nothing. Took him from me. I feel so much pain every day. Can’t function. Crying as I write this. Having hope that there would be a miracle in her is killing me. Feeling hopeless.