What Men REALLY Want in a Woman: 4 Traits NOBODY Talks About

In today’s podcast, we're going beyond the usual clichés and explore four key traits that men genuinely desire but are often overlooked. These traits aren't just about attracting men; they are qualities that anyone can cultivate for their own personal growth and happiness.

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1:27 Introduction
3:01 Authenticity, be yourself
11:19 Intellectual Humility
20:05 Emotional Safety
26:47 Authentically Vulnerable Emotionally - emotional availability

[MJFinn-dd]

My man of 50 years often sheds tears with me. I love him for that. His emotional side is endearing, and he's the strongest, most passionate, dedicated man I've ever found in life.

[marciamellow]

It is all basic..
Be who you are ..period
Married 40 years. We just wanted to be in a real place with each other..I was there for him, and he for me..comfort.
Until death do us part.
Love ❤

[TheAttractionTriggers]

*You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you.*

[adilewis]

I went on two dates with this guy, I was vulnerable and he did not open up whatsoever.. I really liked him and was trying to get to know him but trying to pull things out of somebody is exhausting. Good luck out there ladies .

[Lovejoypeace]

I follow you and I’m married. I love your videos. I still implement many of the things that you talk about to keep things fresh because we do forget! I’m 34 years in and keeping it fresh is so important.

[chime-girl]

It was interesting to listen to this whole conversation from a males perspective. Something that is not covered for Men & Women are our hormonal changes for both genders after 50. Speaking as a 56 year old woman, I'm not as emotional as I use to be with less estrogen, I don't always have the patience for emotions and just want to get to the solution. Men are softer emotionally as they mature, it's scientifically written about especially as their sex drive changes. It's a reminder for something to be aware of knowing that there has been a biological shift within me and to make an effort in supporting my potential love mate emotionally as well.

[Lovejoypeace]

Give what you want to get. That’s a powerful statement. Love it.

[Em-qcdm]

Ooo. This ends on a dangerous note around the 27:00 mark. Women tend to say things like that because they grew up being goaded by men for feminine behavior/reactions/emotions. They're told, "What are you going to do now, cry?" or "Oh, she must be on her period, " or "Be careful now, we wouldn't want you to break a nail". Their fathers and brothers teach them to work on cars and how to beat up an attacker. Their male friends during their teen years give them praise when they get tough and tell a young man off or show strength against him during competition. So yeah, if fathers and brothers treat their girls this way, then those ladies will have the reaction towards men for not behaving like strong men when they themselves were encouraged to take on those qualities by men during their life. It really is a pointless circular argument because then men can strike back on how they were taught to be more gentle and nurturing. Then they become "lazy/inactive" as a reaction, which adds more fuel to the fire for women to spark off about. A lot of women feel they do more than men, but most men get to enjoy the financial advantages and play time. Then the men turn it on the women again when they don't physically put out because they're too tired or don't have that kind of connection with the man any longer... seeing him as a child to be taken care of rather than a partner who loves them, protector, or provider. A man who truly cares for a woman would be a protector and provider as well, not just a lump on the couch waiting to be served and cleaned up after/entertained. If that's how they are seen, then it is also difficult to respect them because then she'd be respecting someone who seemingly does little of anything while she does 5 things at once and on 4 hours or less of sleep (while he complains how tired he is after drinking with his buddies the night before and now has to go to work). Also, women get tired of men pushing them aside saying, "I got it" or "I'm fine" when they're not fine. There comes a time where the feminine energy has enough and says herself, "ok you're fine. I'm going to ignore you now and go about life as if you need nothing" because really why would she take on another unnecessary task on top of all the other ones she has to do already? The feminine energy will shut down and treat the masculine just as any ol' joe on the street might just because he is not open to nurturing when it is offered. The cycle continues. They both spiral into opposite corners in anger and rejection, filled with dissatisfaction and gradually develop contempt for one another. This is probably why the bible instructs women to submit unto their husbands, because that's what it's going to take to stop the cycle. And my opinion is that takes greater strength. However, I don't recall the bible saying you have to submit to a boyfriend or dating prospect, so until she becomes married to that man, it is what it is. The whole thing is dumb. If you want to be independent, then be independent. There will be emotional wounds single or together anyway. Maybe it's a matter of how much you can stomach.

[dianethompson]

I think a man wants peace! A place where he can come home to and know he won't be judged, he doesn't have to compete, and whatever happens, you've got his back!

[elizabethf]

What I can't jive with is someone who 1) demonizes people on the other side of the political fence..asserting that the other side is populated by idiots, insane people, yada yada yada.. or 2) a guy who is triggered by his ex and calls her a psycho, blaming the relationship on her. He picked her for a reason, so he needs to look at himself and why he chose her and address that --take responsibility. 3) Cringy sexuality. A guy who has obviously been with hundreds of women, and is constantly in seduction mode.
Any of those is a HUGE, full stop red flag. I don't want people like that taking my time.

[McCoysOakHillFarm]

This all goes both ways not just women, but men also. I have experienced this with men. I spend time working on myself also due to wounds from childhood and in adulthood.

[aishahwilliamsmobley]

When I was a baby I was a cry baby and was constantly told to shut up or be quiet 🤫 now as an adult I stay quiet and shutdown during conflict.

[analia]

I think this channel should have millions of likes. I'm from Argentina and I search information in other languages because there's always something else that other YouTubers don't have. I appreciate you guys for sharing these valuable knowledge.

[MandyB-jxzm]

I had 2 experiences recently where I opened to a man then I felt rejected. I have huge emotional capacity to hold space for another. When I share my emotion openly it feels very vulnerable and exposing, especially if they don't respond with compassion or deep listening.

[Hss-qh]

Been following you guys and would absolutely love to hear a conversation between your two wives 😊

[melissameza]

They want 1. Pretty face. 2. Skinny body. 3. Do the same activities they like.

[CdnEnjoyLife]

Question for you guys:
I genuinely have these qualities.
Why do guys jump at the 'red flag' women instead of me then?
Where do I find guys with these qualities as well? Help a Canadian girl out please ;)

[lindac]

Very interesting And i love how you explained the points for better understanding
Who is your lovely guest?

[blunttalkingoffspring]

I liked this podcast or video ..I have the shell at first ..Men really like compliments..I think that I need to work on some things in relationships ..thank you for pointing things out to us in an emotionally tactful way..I appreciate your video.