The ONLY thing that WORKS with a Narcissist

This is the ONLY thing that works with a Narcissist. Remember, you aren't asking for too much, you're simply asking to be treated with kindness and respect right? You're simply asking for the same level of consideration that you're giving them, that's not being too needy, that's simply called reciprocation and it's necessary if we want ANY trust or intimacy or emotional connection with another human.

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[dnwitte]

"They're going to turn you into somebody you don't want to be." And THAT was the moment I realized no-contact was the only solution.

[Rebeker]

the moment you love yourself, they dissapear.

[felineserpent]

Narcissists are predators. They hunt and prey on the genuinely decent, good, and kind.

[bitcoinbelle]

If someone ignites you to the point where YOU react like a maniac, give yourself permission to walk away before you become a shell of yourself.

[worthywomanhealing]

Do not ever go to marriage counseling with a Narcissist or an abuser. This will only cause further trauma to you.

[beneciafowler]

Narcissists provoke their partners into yelling and calling names, and then smugly walk away as the victims who must hold to their boundaries.

[GodsChild]

Such a deep line... "You realize you're not asking for much, you're just asking the wrong person." 😢

[crismcdonough]

For a people pleaser, setting boundaries hurts. But not setting boundaries hurts worse

[Mermare]

My elderly relative just lost her grandiose narcissistic husband and moved in with me. The amount of unnecessary apologizing she does to me breaks my heart.

[Iris-xixn]

Loved the sentence “you are not asking to much, you are just asking the wrong person”. Thank you for that insight!

[sylviaking]

Don't waste one second of your time on a narcissist. They are the most insidious, vindictive, untrustworthy, cruel people. Go no contact and never look back. Don't let them destroy you.

[QueenAlexis]

Narcissists are stingy as hell with their money omg!!!!

[jonathanbarber]

NEVER engage with a narcissist. You might as well hug a land mine.

[peaceharmony]

"Nobody protected you during childhood." That cut DEEP. 😰
I now realised for the first time that nobody protected me or listened to me during childhood.😢 I kept everything bottled up.

To hear this from a stranger is strangely liberating and upsetting at the same time; it made me cry.😭 I could feel my pent-up emotions being released from my chest, a heavy burden being unloaded.

[Roses-lilac]

Never try to have any kind of a relationship with a narcissist. If you’re already in a relationship with a narcissist leave… now! RUN! That’s all.

[MegaRockstar]

The only thing that works with a narcissist is agreeing to fit into the box they have made for you. Give them constant attention and forget yourself and having your own opinions or wants

[kathleendinsmore]

“A boundary is something you set for yourself.” True. Don’t expect a narcissist to respect your boundaries.

[ThePeacefulsunshine]

Leave...the only thing to do is leave quietly...

[rubyredtootsies]

The ONLY thing that works with a narcissist is to DISENGAGE a d WALK AWAY without looking back.

[suanach]

Going to counseling with a narcissist is the WORST thing you can do! They will ALWAYS play the victim card, make YOU look like the villain, and manipulate the counselor into taking their side against you.