Ego Relationships vs. Love Relationships

Most people think that there is only one way to do romantic relationships. Most relationships, which are based on ego, end up being a source of frustration and agony as time goes on. By escaping the ego, however, your romantic relationships can be blissful forever.

[disloyal]

It's unfortunate that you don't have a much larger following, because the world could benefit from this; it's honestly some of the best advice I have ever come across.

[madeinhisimage]

Our ego has taken charge, I am ready to love authentically.

[mwloos]

This describes how I was before I woke up. Sabotaged a beautiful marriage while I was at it. Once I learned to transcend my ego I started to treat it like a friend that tries to over protect me and I had to learn to discipline the ego. Not kill it or dissolve it. It’s human nature to have an ego.

[goldn]

I’m glad you said that. That a relationship is not built on manipulation games. I’ve found that a lot of people play a game or manipulate their partner to keep them even more interested. So for instance as soon as the relationship begins, one person in the relationship decides to start manipulating the other person thru silent treatment amongst other things like waiting games to keep the other persons interest. Or for instance giving love and then pulling it away to keep that person interested or being emotionally available. I was thinking this isn’t the truth and it’s not what true love is, real love can not be manipulated and it is not a game where you can strategize how to win the heart or affection of the other. It’s coming into the relationship with a mask and not being you true self which is love. So many people are afraid to let go of pride to just be love in a relationship and just to simply show it. They try and control something that can not be controlled which is love itself!

[jennifermayola]

I got out of an awful marriage where it was focused on "ego love". This is really helpful! 🙏🏻

[ahrayanatoney]

This is deep. I realize have a lot of ego to let go of

[GenXMusicMan]

This video hit home for me. Thank you so much for calling out the ego, our worst enemy in relationships. I got into a 3-month “relationship” with a covert narcissist and I discovered that my ego kept me in it for validation and lust. Did we both say “I love you?” Yes we did. Did I truly mean it? No I certainly didn’t. It was my ego talking just to be with someone all because she was attractive. It was my ego that was loving her instead of my heart. You’re the man! Thank you again! New sub here 🕺🏻

[kenyaamina]

This is my go to video I give my couples during sessions. It's one of the best on Youtube regarding this topic. Great job Brother.

[fai]

Now I know why people tell me to be the calm one and I don't want to be which is because of ego. Its best to actually let the ego suffer

[MegaSaanch]

I think as an individual, it’s pretty hard to surrender (one sure could) but when with a partner, one finds the doorway to surrender themselves to life and the present moment; it could be something other than codependent, if they do so consciously.
This truth always remains, you don’t have to rope in or tie or dream about anything when the person you’re with is right and ready. You just let them go. Live life in a surrendered way. If they stay, they are right (and you aren’t marrying your hopes, dreams and potential)

Thanks for the talk. I listen to Eckhart Tolle and yes, truth remains simple. Well, unless one is into experimentation- means they’re not ready!

[brendakerley]

How beautiful to hear that you have a partner that is on the page / vibrations as you. Totally understand what you are talking about, I have recently found Eckhart Tolle, his talks about consciousness, awareness, being in the present moment, I have been reading his book the power of now, which has helped me alot, sadly I'm currently going through a divorce, all ego driven, he had an emotional affair which went on for two years, it totally destroyed my trust ... I have done alot of work on myself, meditation, reiki, therapy... I'm learning to understand that my thoughts are not me.. I'm still learning and I'm still healing 🧿☮️💜

[antennafabricationstudio]

Thank you for this
this is very helpful .
My relationship has slowed transformed into a ego dominated relationship .
I don’t want to judge either of us,
But I do want to try to understand it better

[morningwoodfarms]

Thank you so much for sharing this. I needed to hear each and every word. You are an incredible, admirable inspiration!🏆 Please, keep spreading your knowledge. Everyone should know ALL these things. Infinite blessings to you. 🙏💝

[Mollybad]

I agree with the earlier comments. This is wonderful.

[fernandovargasleal]

wow, that's video is amazing. Keep sharing, please!

[incognegro]

THIS IS WHY I AM AGAINST MARRIAGE! Or even a COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP! Because you aren’t ANYONES POSSESSION! We are meant to be FREE! When you deal with one person too long you become fixated and you all want to control one another.

[eliasa]

99.9 % of people have no idea what love truly is. And yet they talk about it, pretend they have it etc

[eliasa]

Ypu are so right. At least someone gets it.

[mentalhealthmatters]

This is what I need to hear am going through it right now, he kept telling me I don't understand i wouldn't understand... to me i don't have an answer and am not going to answer..

[eliasa]

Are you all married to tge same people?