Think You're Ready to Meet 'The One'? Watch This First...

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There’s an ongoing debate when it comes to meeting “The One.” Which camp do you fall into?

1) Is it all about meeting the right person—someone amazing who will remove any lingering doubts and inspire you to get serious?

2) Or is it less about “The One” and more about “The Timing”—meeting a compatible person at the right time in your life?

This week, I get to the heart of the issue with 7 tips that may change your perspective on dating and relationships.

P.S. I’d love it if you left me a note letting me know which tip gave you the biggest “aha” moment. I really enjoy reading your comments each week.

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"elevates our best, soothes our worst." - amazing truth!

leannesmith
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For a looong time I THOUGHT i was ready but in fact, there was a lot of things I still had to work through and was not ready for a relationship. I was more obsessed with the idea of a relationship and was falling "in love" with people way too quickly. I was falling in love with the idea of the person. Now I can say I am truly at a point where I am truly ready for a relationship. I no longer fall in love with everyone person I meet and I understand what values I am looking for

SamElle
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It’s a beautiful thing when phrases in a relationship change from “I’m seeing someone” or “we are seeing each other” to “I see you”.

m.proxy.z
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A lot of people are going around broken. Not fixing. Not healing. Not ready, and expecting the other person to be perfect and fix them

gregolonious
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“Dating is like cooking a meal that turns into a relationship.” SO true. Be truly kind and loving and accepting all along the way. 💓

angelinpdx
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Bringing out the best in each other as equals with no pedestal and projection is the most amazing and beautiful experience : ))

premakarini
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High schools should have people like Matt Hussey visit and give advice to young minds to help them make better choices🧚‍♀️

RAE-homely-fairy-of-the-light
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I’ve heard this in a movie once and i feel it really opened my eyes on what love is a little bit. It went like this.. ”I like you because, but i love you despite”. Not everybody is perfect but when you truly love a person, you’re willing to overlook all the bad qualities and focus on the amazing ones

iiris
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My ex fell "in love" with just about everyone he dated for more than a month. This was a huge red flag for me. I was a year out of a divorce when we met. We got along great, had many of the same interests but I couldn't shake off the feeling that I really could be any 50 something, good looking female in good shape. I think he had abandonment issues and wanted anyone to commit to him.
I had my own issues of emotional and physical neglect during my 28 year marriage. This is what I received and stayed for during the new relationship. However, I couldn't gamble with my future and take on the other red flags which slowly emerged.
For the past two years I find that I am at peace with where I am in my life. I love my peaceful life and don't see me inviting chaos into it ever again.

debracrawford
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Matthew, your parents did a great job with both your brother and you. They taught you about real bonds. I think cinema has harmed us a lot, we are the first generation with a massive access to media and we are all confused and looking for new heroes and new gods as if we were a new species of human when we are as imperfect and love- seeking (or even more) as our ancestors. Wish you the best from southern Spain.

mariacordoba
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Matt, in answer to your question: I used to fall in love with people who gave me a bit of their attention way too quickly and get disappointed time after time, because they either rejected me or were unavailable. I guess I wanted a relationship too much, but wasnt actually ready for one. It was like a vicious cycle, but I made my way out of it in the end :)

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When compatibility sparks chemistry, we're emotionally ready for a relationship. We need to get beyond our insecurities, meet our own (subconscious) needs as much as possible, communicate openly and honestly with compassion, and accept each other as human beings. A lot of people struggle to take accountability and that's why it "feels" difficult, complicated, and frustrating.

deannadolan
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After my recent break up I actually realized exactly what you said here, I realized that in my past relationships I just didn't want to be lonely and I liked the idea of being in a relationship and that was the reason for me to get in those relationships in the first place. But now after I see that and I'm going through healing myself I know that I would never do that again, I want to get into a relationship only if it feels true for me, if the person really interests me and doesn't feel fake or too forced to be with.

tehila
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After being single for four years and rediscovering myself I felt hesitant, but ready. I met someone online who lives 3, 000 miles away. Subconsciously I probably chose him on purpose because he was "safe " As it turns out, he is a beautiful soul; kind, and emotionally healthy, and we're very compatible in the most important ways.

We're able to travel back and forth to see each other and are getting to know each other and developing a wonderful relationship by communicating every day in between visits.

I feel that he sees me, and brings out the best in me - and I want to do the same for him because he's such a good person. 😊 Thanks Matthew for your insight!!

Cheryl_Frazier
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That part when you say " recognize the best and elevate it whilst recognizing the worst and helping healing it.. as we also expect it towadrs ourselves".. IS BEAUTIFUL. Thank you Matt

sophiar.iturricha
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These are valid points but after a narcissistic/ abusive relationship you have to be very cautious about who you let in your life. It is about defining your values and boundaries. I do not think that all bad qualities should be tolerated.

Tiia
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Becoming more self-aware about who I’m inside out was my best lesson to learn in my journey of self-love. I’m dating myself again after coming out of a painful marriage of 15yrs.The day i feel that I have fully invested in becoming the better version of myself, I think then I will be close to being ready.

empresspa
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I think we meet the right person when we are happy within ourselves and have evolved from our experiences. And of course timing because you both have to be willing to invest in each other. You should invest in someone who invests in you.

jennifer
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After my divorce I turned my back to the world.... But I think am finally ready for a serious relationship... 🤗

michaelstone
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Wow. This video really opened my eyes, clearly showed that there is a difference in wanting to not be lonely vs wanting a relationship. Makes me realize I need to think more about myself. Truly an excellent message and perfectly explained. I will be watching this one a few more times. Thanks Matt.

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