WHY MEN DON'T APPROACH WOMEN TODAY

#rcblakes #Dating
In this video we are discussing WHY MEN DON'T APPROACH WOMEN. How does a woman get the right guys to approach. This was filmed in LONDON, ENGLAND 2021

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[frankcastle]

Man here. I can relate to this. I was severely underearning in a high cost of living area. Dating was the last thing on my mind. I found many women attractive and interesting, but I knew I could not afford dates, so I rarely approached. Not out of shyness, I just knew I couldn't afford these women. I had my own apartment and everything, but when you're in an HCOL area, half your salary can go to rent. I focused on my career and am doing much better now.

Ladies, there are good men out there, but many can be ashamed of their career and earning status. I know I was. I wasn't a player either. Just didn't date. Hung out with my guy friends, worked out at a budget gym chain, was active in my church, had cheap hobbies, took free internet courses to improve my job situation.

[feliciacarrington]

A lot of men are, feminine, they wanna out dress you, look better than you, and want morer compliments than you, they act like you should be glad, he choose you, and they seem to, find everything wrong, these men are so cute they want to be the prize.

[highvaluelife]

1.) A Man is not financially ready to take care of a woman
2.) A man who is balanced and mature is afraid to offend a woman
3.) Women are always surrounded by women or gay men; she can not be out alone
4.) Most women do not let a man know when it is safe to approach her ( women will know his interest by his eye contact)
5.) Balanced and Mature Men have been embarrassed (broken) by broken women, who have dealt with "clowns in crowns."
6.) A man's confidence is low because he knows that he is not the man women seek.
7.) Women everyday are changing the rules. Women are the aggressors these days.
8.) Lots of women these days present themselves as shallow and vain. Not leading her own life. They will attract men who are vain as they are. Lots of women are misrepresenting themselves.
9.) Fear of accusation, too men are getting caught up in accusations. They want to know that it is politically correct to approach a woman.
10.) Lots of men and women are gay.

A.) Love for individual purpose for being. Quit being thirsty.
B.) Heal to give off healthy energy.
C.) Be emotionally and socially available. Live your life! Give up the "gang gang" mentality.
D.) Work on your conversation skills.

You are welcome!😍🛐

[saquipamelanorris]

“Any man driven by his ego, lacks character.” RC Blakes, Jr

[jd]

I think sometimes we are hidden because God has a mandate on our lives and we can't handle the tests of temptation until we get stronger. Don't be too discouraged if men aren't approaching you. Had certain men approached you when you were unhealed, you could've fallen into temptation into a bad relationship.

[richricogranada]

I came from a country(Italy), where men chase women on the streets, give them flowers and even do serenade by their windows, and the women are very flattered. And many relationships start that way. In the US men never approach for fear of rejection, shyness, and other issues. It is very frustrating, and a different world.
Blake has lots of wisdom and mentions very important points of this subject that are so true.

[ladennayoung]

A lot of men will tend to notice you and even compliment you, when you have a positive outlook on yourself. And when you don't have such a negative mentality towards men, marriage, and relationships. When you start to heal from the inside/out, and focus on growing in Christ, and your relationship with Christ. I find that men start seeing you differently, and start interacting with you differently. They are not going to approach you any old kind of way. Because they can sense that you have leveled up so to speak. And once you take your mind off of a man so much things begin to shift for you. Either way it can simply be about your perspective. The way you view things.

[autumnleaves]

Let me tell you something. And I tell you my truth. I’ve had more guys approach me when I wasn’t wearing weave, or makeup. my nails weren’t done either. And to be honest the caliber of men who approached me when I was natural was what you might consider as husband material. Their conversation was natural; nothing forced. in fact I was asked to go on dates just too have conversation and to genuinely build with them..

Now On the other hand when I’m wearing my weave, long nails, and lashes, oh! the caliber of men who approach me is different! These men talk slick out the mouth and their approach is far less than desirable. So I took it back to scripture. God says that the outer beauty of a woman will eventually fade. So with that in mind I decided to present myself to the world natural and retire my representative😂😩😂😬

[cristinaroe]

My parents taught me nothing on this subject. They brought me up strictly and disapproved of any flirting, going out with or conversing with males without supervision. I was subsequently totally out of my depth when I left home and had a lot of social anxiety around romantic attachments, usually pushing the man away to be on the safe side. I'm still not married. Thanks for this teaching. It really opened my eyes.

[sherribaker]

I've been destroyed by men. I lost a lot financially, emotionally and spiritually by men. Been alone for 9 years. Afraid to date. Pray for my healing.

[fendismom]

"Loose the desperate energy." - Pastor R.C. Blakes

[sunshine]

I don’t understand this new world order either Bishop, I respect that you’re not afraid to speak the truth. I’m an old fashioned and traditional woman looking for a normal manly man like you who loves God and takes care of his wife and family

[stewartforeal]

Fall in love with your purpose...lose the desperate energy...yes!!! Heal so your energy can be healthy...be socially available...work on conversation skills...practice saying hello 👋. His job to pursue and yours to approve.

[itsamandaslife.]

"A lot of you are just not friendly" that was a little funny. Lol

[carolmcquay]

I was on my way to my morning Doctor"s appointment when a gentleman opened the door. He smiled. I smiled. We got on the elevator. He asked me " Where you're going?". I looked in his eyes and said, " I'm going to the Gynecologist. Wanna come?". We burst into laughter at the same said..."You really made my was rapping. But ... I'm

I met my husband being "socially and emotionally years going strong. THIS MAN IS AMAZING 💝. Thank you Brother ☺️

[toshikoroberts]

Boys don’t approach women, but real Men do. Kings recognize Queens, and have no problem stepping up !

[kevinjohnson]

As a man a women should look for integrity in a man

[zanastrange]

It is the WAY in which a man approaches and compliments. There is a creepy way, but there is DEFiNITELY a kind & polite way to compliment & say hi respectfully.

[dimplesA]

I agree that women need to be approachable (using kind mannerisms, smiling) BUT...he basically described men who are NOT qualified (#10) to be a husband in the majority of the examples, so therefore no need to be approached by them!

Based on his examples, it seems the woman would have to approach these men to get the ball rolling!

At the end of the day...A Man READY for marriage, should be bold enough to approach who he's interested in.

[JoannA-sweetly]

Yeah, a lot of men don’t want a wife and a whole other set do not want a woman….. never fear a masculine man is around the corner for you.