Single moms: WHERE IS THE DADDY? | Every single parent has VALUE | #timross #shorts

[shantefleming]

This touched my heart because I was married to my children’s father for 15 years and he left and started a new relationship while pregnant with our third child and I’ve struggled with who would want me now. But this does reassure me that my value didn’t diminish . God will send whoever is supposed to be in our lives. Just stay focused on God.

[sali]

This is true, I never understood why people tear down the parent that's stayed. That is working twice as hard to take care of her kids.

[djjanz]

This hit home for me. My mom had 4 kids with my father who could care less. She fought and struggled to care for us while working and going back to school, took out loans to keep their house, went bankrupt trying to make it work. That man deuced out of there when we were all young kids and never made an effort, and my entire life I fought tooth and nail with anyone who told me my working class single mom was less than anyone else. My mother is the strongest person I know, and made me the strong person I am today, yet she still feels guilt for being a single mom. That is guilt I can never alleviate from her heart bc it was society that put it there. Men sometimes get an easy pass making children and leaving them behind, and we need to stop that way of thinking.

Single moms should be VALUED because they see the VALUE of keeping their kids together in as tight knit a family as possible.

[JustCristi]

As a single mother that has gone through domestic violence. I want to say Thank you. I raised my kids on my own. Because leaving was the best decision I ever made. And also because I was left with no other choice. I have wonderful kids who are respectful and have never known violence. So that when they have their families, they know how to honor and love them not beat them and belittle them.

[georgianabodoiu]

Thsnk you for speaking for us, the ones who didn't choose to break a home, and who were left with all the burdens. But doesn't matter, cause I have the most amazing gift in the world. My child. ❤

[DystoDreamer]

In my 10 years of single motherhood this is the first time I hear someone say this from a social platform. I had to make a choice because her father had a criminal double life that he hid so well until he couldn't anymore and even though I begged him, he was unwilling to let his lifestyle go for his family. I'm proud of my decision and believe that makes me a valuable person to my child, I chose the uphill battle to give her normalcy in life. I don't think I've failed but according to society I'm low value. Walk a mile in our shoes, some of us had no choice but to walk away out of selfless love for our children.

[renaldamarkos]

One person once said to a single mom refering to her child, you have baggage. She said ur right, but the right person will realize I'm carrying a bag full of diamonds and will be happy to help me carry it
She worked on herself alot to become a very appealing woman to men and she ended up marrying a great guy and building a beautiful life with him. They didn't have it easy but their family has a lot of love and warmth

[JaneQPublic]

I was a single mom and I met an amazing man who saw my value and loved me and my kid. He took her in as his own and now we have two more kids. Value isn’t measured by who you were.

[sandrafoster]

It's refreshing to hear someone speak so positive towards single mothers. I came across many videos that diminishes single women but never held the men accountable too.
I am a single mother of 1, I didn't asked for it but it happened. I was at my lowest point in my life but you know what I still keep the faith. I pulled myself together fixed my crown and kept my head up... Fast forward to 14 years later my son is well taken care of, I'm a home owner in a affluent area in London, a very good job and at peace within myself... No man can tell me I lack value when they themselves are not even at the standard. Single mothers you have strengths like no other, you may not realise now but in time you will.

[tiffanywooten]

This really hit home for me as a single mom of 4. I sometimes look at myself as a failure when I can’t give my kids things or I’m too exhausted to give them my undivided attention. I have to remember to give myself grace and know that what matters is that I stayed instead of walking away like their fathers. That means I am enough

[jennifermcculloch]

This helps. I have been seeing so many videos of people saying that we as single moms have nothing to bring to the table except our baggage. I didn't ask to be abandoned, but my kids are deserving of someone to love them

[Vibes.]

I don’t have any children but the way some of these men speak about single mothers is really Sad, this is refreshing to hear. Thank you.

[mustajida]

I've never met a single mother who's dream was to be one. Be kind people nothing hurts a woman more than losing her nest.

[melisavasquez]

As a single mom now Married I’m on a journey on recognizing my value. It’s tough but we are getting there God bless ally you mamas❤

[incorruptibleword]

Proverbs 4.23. Guard your heart with all diligence for out of it flows all of lifes issues. Word of abba almighty forever undefeated.

[bellacanto]

Thank you! This is beautiful. I constantly feel rejected by the church and world because I am a single mother and the message told to me has been my love story is over because of it.

Then God told me His banner over me is Love. I have to believe that it is not over. It is not over for any of us.

It hurts...but faith must pursue. There is hope in all of this.

[ttbeautygirl]

Amen!! I did the right thing and waited got married to the wrong man. But the world put me in the Single mom box because I chose not to raise my son in a toxic relationship. Thank You for speaking the truth❤🙏🏾🙏🏾

[lynnstanley]

I loved this. Single moms always have a stigma attached to them, especially in the church. I was a single mom.
Thank you for respecting the hardships and efforts we go through to provide for our precious children.

[Shavier]

I’m a single saved mother. Surrendered my life to Jesus when my child was 3. Raised him with the fear of the Lord. He’s 27, 6’4, God fearing man and just married last month as a virgin to a virgin- All thru Christ Jesus.
It took a long time for me to stop having an identity crisis . My value is in Christ who died for my sins and made my crooked paths straight- not man. I’m saved by Gods grace and it’s sufficient for me. 🙏🏾💕

[charmillehare]

Thank you… I’m divorced and single mom with 3 amazing kids. Thank you for helping us remember how God sees us and not how the world looks at us…