10 Signs A Girl Is Testing You - How & Why She Does It

In today's video we're taking a look at some common examples of ways women test men.

You'll learn about the different ways and reasons for these tests and how best to handle them. What's the best way to handle these women's tests and what should you be on the look out for?

Do you know of any other ways how women test men or reasons why women test men? Comment below and let us know. We try our best to respond to as many comments as possible.

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[johnrogerson]

The more i learn about women the less i want anything to do with them. Can't be doing with the stress and drama.

[antoniopaulo]

My way is :

I don’t care, whatever happens is inevitable, and I follow my own purpose and calling and keep my focus on that always!

If she’s really into you?? She’ll stick around!

If she’s isn’t? She will just disappear!

So don’t go bowing down to her!! For she is no ‘God!’

You are in control of your own domain!!

[amosbarg]

Imagine if men tested women to this level. The testing works in society only one way and women would never put in as such effort if the situation was reversed and women were expected to bring anything else besides her beauty to the beginning stages of a dating relationship. Society doesn't care about men but I will just overcome it all and pursue my passions and purposes.

[mofo]

when I get "tested", I move on to the next contestant.

[larouedorllc]

As said in the end: will test you throughout the relationship. Thus, if you fail her tests time and time again, she will ditch you like a piece of garbage she never wanted...

[realtalk]

Nope. Guys, don't ever deal with a woman who thinks it's ok to give you random test. Just from the fact she feels comfortable enough to do that to you means she actually thinks she's better than you. Either that or she's really insecure and looking for a sucker who takes all kinds of crap and doesn't do anything about it. Women who really like you not only avoid testing but will put on their best behavior when meeting you because it's similar to how you show up for a job interview for a position you really want. You don't test your boss at your job or the person interviewing you for a position. You be on your best behavior. This is what women who truly like you do when dealing with you. They just cater to you and do whatever they can to please you more than anything. That's what you need to look for.

[jimjamjimjam]

"Women are warriors"
I think you meant
"Women are worriers"
And just because they can do many things these days, the majority either aren't good at them, or don't want to.

[SirGregg]

The door lock test. If you open the car door for her then walk round to your side and she doesnt lean over and unlock your door she fails the test.

[thereisnopandemic]

If you can’t talk negatively about your ex as a man, but it’s ok for her to talk about her ex as a test. It’s a huge red flag, cut her off.
My wife never had put me through any tests like these, that’s why she has been around for 8 years, she is clear and to the point and when she hasn’t been clear I bring it up and she listens. And speaking about exes is a big no, from the start I told her that, if they still linger that means she or he is still comparing both of you.

[kylekenan]

How to pass the test: Don't take it.

[austindavid]

I was tested once when a girl and I made plans to hang out but she flaked at the last minute and never showed up.

[greggyd]

So this girl says to me "I think at this point I'm looking for friendship" A week later she tells me: "Yeah I met this guy and we clicked immediately " I'm like: "Awesome, hope it works out for you" Exit stage left.

[eoinMB]

I think theres one big red flag with all of this and thats the underlying assumption that women are the Judges and men the ones on trial. Its so ingrained in culture that most men and women dont even question it. But you should question it because its a construct, its not a natural law. If you meet a girl and she assumes the position of judge and shes putting you on trial, get out of there asap. The trial will never end. Theres a certain amount of ego at work when someone is testing another person, they are putting themselves above you so to speak. A good way to bring this out into the open is to reverse the paradigm. I remember I was seeing a girl it was early days and i sensed she had the idea that she was the one in "Charge" so to speak and was judging whether i passed or not. So she said something dumb one day, so I said to her, "Thats ok, I'll give you another chance", all with a smile on my face making it obvious I was flipped out and said, "I'll be the one giving the chances around here understand!" And that was the end of it right there and then, I pulled the plug. She tried to keep it hidden what she really thought, i.e. that she was the one in charge and calling the shots(as opposed to an equal and fair relationship) and the mask slipped, she showed me what was really in her heart and what she believed. So fellas, do not conform to any tests, its a lose lose scenario, walk away.

[OogyLix]

Yes, women are warriors,
So are men!
I can be happy without a partner or friends.

[jamespisano]

Thanks. That one was helpful. I didn't even know girls tested us until very recently. Crazy.

[mohamadekrama]

The only reasons are insecurity and validation

[Coefficient]

OMFG, if you do any of this to prove yourself to her, you will never get the girl (S.I.M.P). The only test you should worry about is "Do she actually show true High Interest?" if NO! Move On! I guarantee she will not test Chad/Tyrone.

[Rome]

I don’t usually talk much Anna, however i started watching your videos to help ease my tortured soul lol. This amazing woman whom i work with has been playing these hot & cold tests and it’s just so different for me now compared to my previous experience with my late wife. This is really the first time in 7 years i have began investing my time and energy into anyone and she is someone truly amazing. I have dated in the past 7 years a few women but always pulled back for a reason or another. With this one lady i don’t give up and she seems to notice. We both have our moments of stress at the work place but when have that natural chemistry and communication around each other. Your advice has helped calm my nerves and because at first i couldn’t understand her, it has been a while but gradually i am seeing that what you speak of is unfolding with time. Thank you Anna and Your team for easing my thoughts and overthinking

[skullkid]

4:39-5:00 was really good for a laugh. Especially the bit about fixing your own cars.

[tsopmocful]

We never hear much about whether women can pass the tests when it comes to cooking, sewing, keeping a good house, being a good mother, a supportive partner and a loyal wife.

When looks inevitably fade, these are the tests that women need to pass if they want to keep a man over the long term, and women used to ensure that they excelled at these things.

Of course these days, women are shamed by other women if they do these things at all.

They have devalued themselves in the process, wonder where 'all the good men went' when they try to find a husband after their best years have gone, but still expect men to pass every 'test' for them....or else.