How to Avoid a Kiss

Want to make your lips even more Kissable?

Let them know you’re just not that into them – without hurting their feelings.

Step 1: Read the signs
Read the signs that they’re gathering up the courage to kiss you, so you’ll be prepared to dodge their lips. Telltale clues include becoming touchy-feely, looking at your lips, and invading your personal space.

Step 2: Create distance
Create some distance. Literally and figuratively. Take a step back from them, and change the topic of conversation to something unsexy—like your earwax problem.

Step 3: Play the friend card
Emphasize that you see them as nothing more than a friend by saying so, as in, 'I'm so glad I have you as a friend.'

Step 4: Be slightly rude
Point out people that you find attractive, or start talking exclusively to someone else. This way, you demonstrate that you don’t see the other person in a romantic context.

Step 5: Stay in public
Don’t let them get you alone. Chances are they won’t make a pass at you with other people around.

Tip
If you’re coming home from a bad date and can’t bear the idea of a goodnight kiss, get your house keys out ahead of time and make a beeline for your front door.

Step 6: Give a hug
Give a preemptive hug. Pat them on the back for an added 'friendly' touch.

Step 7: Dodge
If all your hints have failed and their lips are looming, turn your head so that the kiss lands on your cheek or ear. It’ll make them feel stupid, but, hey, at least they'll know the truth.

Did You Know?
Four percent of American adults have never been kissed.