When Mom Doesn’t Approve of Your Man

What would you do if your mom didn’t like your man?

[lush]

'I have your heartbeat inside of me" damn i felt that.

[jesscook]

I understand why people say that moms know best. But in reality, they're still human. No one is right, all the time. Moms can still be prejudice, irrational, insecure, overprotective, unreasonable, etc. Generally speaking, it is good to consider their perspective. But people shouldn't take their opinions as fact.

[GriBlanco]

I hear this segment and I’m crying my eyes out. I miss my mom and talking to her. I miss hearing her advice and giving me words of affirmation and assuring me that things will get better. Even if your mom gets on your nerves, cherish her. You never know when’s the last time you’ll hear her voice.

[ImanIhsanIslam]

Jeannie's advice was excellent like yes

[cimalle_]

I really like this, especially what Adrienne said. But sometimes, Mom doesn't know best, because they are not there all the time. A mom's gift of discernment is not always fool proof because people are complex and can change for the better. My sister married a guy with a bad past, and my mom hated the situation so much that a wall came between them and they didn't talk for a long time. After my sister's 8th wedding anniversary and second child, my mother realized the guy is changed and said sorry.

[RoyalMasterpiece]

I wish Tamera's parents would just make one appearance. They sound so amazing!

[naomip]

Really interesting hearing more about Adrienne's relationship with Lenny.

[britbritnicole]

When you’re grown they can’t dictate your life anymore. Sometimes they know you’re not in a good situation but, you have to know that for yourself. Not just because your mom says so.

[nhaliii]

i understand mothers worry, i am a mother myself. However, my mother didnt approve of my husband at first when I introduced him because of cultural differences. So much that she didnt even show up at my wedding. But I knew my husband was the right one and now hes her favourite son in law...So I dont necessarily think mothers always know best, based on my experience.

[rorosung]

"When you get the kind of love that you need it brings you back to the person you truly are"

[lovemecom]

It makes me cry when Adrienne talked about her mom. I’m scared when my daughter gets older. This also made me think of my mom. When you with someone with a negative energy it changes you and you become that energy. I really believe that mother knows best.

[Xkrsx]

Usually mothers have legit reasons why they don’t like your partner. I mean my mum is really smart and can smell a rat a mile off, so if she could sense something she would say.

[savvyangel]

I understand what a lot of you guys are saying but from my experience, if my grandmother doesn't like someone, run for the hills. That woman is NEVER wrong about people.

[leaa]

If my Mom doesn’t like my man it’s a wrap

[kaykaylo]

What Adrienne says is so true!! The wrong person can def make you feel like you’re cold and distant when all you actually want is true love and affection! If Israel really brings out the best in her than all the more blessings to them

[ATrueLoveOfficial]

Yes moms could feel pain that you are going through. My mom until now, still hate my first ex bf. It was 12 years ago but still, she didn't forget the hell I've been through because of that person. Their opinions are very important but it is still your decision at the end. If they truly love you, they will respect your decision and will learn to accept it.

[YPM]

I just hate when parents try to control everything in their children’s life even when they are grown . Or maybe it’s just African parents

[stephie]

I thank God that my mom met and loved my (now) husband before she passed away. They were able to bond for 4 years. In hospice, she introduced him to everyone as her son years before we were even engaged. I’m at ease knowing that she approved and would’ve wanted us to marry. I know that she’s smiling down on the life that we’re building together.

[mariaray]

*_A: When a parent sees their child hurting, they hurt too._*
*-Not all parents care. 😔💔*

[Gogoma]

This is what I said to my 19 yrs old “if someone taking you away from GOD he is not for you” by all mean also a friends. I didn’t have growing these godly talk with my parents. Ever since I was born-again my life about God doesn’t mean I know everything. Yes——Doesn’t mean we don’t eat with sinners. Best things to do pray for everyone listen to THE HOLY SPIRIT. The end of the day we are not fighting against Flesh and blood. Bible said Ephesians 6:12

12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Even every since I become Christians my husband’s family don’t still
approve me. We been married for 20 yrs. One thing I told my daughter if God wants her to have someone perhaps lead them to God and marriage not just dating or sleeping around. We have trust and obey GOD. We need to pray for each other. Not all us Grew up in church even if we have we have backslide. That’s why this Scripture nail in my heart ❤️ we walk my faith not by sight.