It's been Interesting... #edit #aromantic #asexual #aroace #transgender #gay #bisexual #lesbian#ally

[ThEpLaStIcWaLmArTbAg]

Figuring out myself makes me want to bash my head against the wall

[lisaistryingtolive]

you've been an ally since first grade? that's so good, I had no idea who queer ppl were at that age

[guesagane]

if a label helps you feel secure and known in this world then that’s good! but you are still so young, in a period of change and growth! Try not to worry too much about getting it all right

[questmarker]

Word of advice for anyone whose going through this at SUCH a young age.
Just be yourself. just LIVE your life. never mind your head with all these different genders and labels and spectrums and whatever else!!

Be you and do what you love. Explore your hobbies, study, do well in school, figure out what kind of career you might want. The right person will show up one day and get you in a way that nobody else has before. Then you'll know and only then will it really matter.

Just be a kid. Be a teenager! the rest will fall into place.

You don't have to figure it all out right now.

[_Vggie_]

It's nice to see someone else whos also aroace but still likes people and dates them platonically! :D

[itzskye]

This is the most supportive comment section I’ve seen OMGS, anyways I’m in the same grade as you :D

[gariden]

it’s tricky, hey? i figured out i was a trans guy when i was 12-ish after a lot of questioning, and i told my parents when i was 13. i knew i was pan around that age too, though i didn’t feel comfortable calling myself asexual until i was 16 or so ‘just in case’. i’m an adult now, in university and all that and i’ve been on testosterone for a while, and never been happier with my identity. you’ve always got time to figure things out, and i hope you can feel secure in yours too. good luck!

[LittleFoxBooks]

LUCKY I DIDNT KNOW I WAS AROMANTIC UNTIL NINTH GRADE

[Funny_in_blue]

So happy for you! It’s huge finding out who you are.

My Journey!…

As a kid: She/Her. Supported lgbtq but didn’t think much of my identity. I was just vibeing

Middle School: First came out as lesbian. Found out I’m pansexual later on.

Late Middle School/Early Highschool: CRISIS TIME. Seriously questioned my identity.
Genderfluid?? Used any pronouns. Kinda got depressed.

Late Highschool/Early adulthood: Gave up on finding out gender identity for a while. I knew I was still Pan though.

Early last year: experimented with he/him pronouns. Finally found out that I’m trans/Demi boy and couldn’t be happier!!! Im still pan too, and poly

[DavisOfTheVoid]

I love how the entire time he keeps on flipping us off

[Torii.Spring.]

I could never do this trend I've basically been the same my whole life🤦🏻‍♀️

[CertifiedIsabellaSimp]

3rd grade: am I gay?
4th grade: wait am I bi?
5th grade: yeah I’m have to be bi

TOOK ME THREE YEARS TO KNOW THE WHAT I WAS WAS

[TWLGHT_SPRKLXD]

my whole life: ally
5th grade: pan, any pronouns
summer between 5 and 6: pan and gender-fluid
6th: lesbian and nonbinary
this summer: pan, boyflux, and aroace flux

[Devilcat-zjpb]

1st grade: straight (what's that?)
2nd grade: straight (what's that?)
3rd grade: straight (still dumb)
4rth grade: straight ally (got informed)
5th grade: am I bi?? (I had no clue)
6th grade: I'm definitely ace
7th grade: what is gray romantic? That's me🫢

Me: gray romantic and ace ♡♡♡

[vincentzio]

1st straight 2grade pansexual 3grade bisexual/aroace and Im still bi/aroace🤗

[Kikithekitten]

FINNALY NOT "kindergarten: bisexual" LIKE WHAT?

[That_Gorou_Guy]

Omg same (except for the trans part) I’m aro/ace but like if I HAD to marry someone it would be a boy lmao

[chronically.arl]

the fact that i wasn’t an ally up until 3rd grade

[Kaydog]

So I’ve went through all this growth while being 12 or 13 currently…

[Elitheenby]

I came out as a lesbian when I was in grade 1! I was an ally was I was five though, found out what the lgbtq community was through msa lmaoo