6 Things Your Crush Says When They're In Love

Curious about whether your crush might be harboring secret feelings for you? In this video, we're diving into the subtle yet telling signs that reveal when someone is truly in love. From the sweet nothings they share to the way they express themselves, we've compiled a list of the top six things your crush is likely to say when they're head over heels.

#crush #love #relationship

Writer: Dylan Swanepoel
Editor: Morgan Swift
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Animator: Sarimopi (IG: sarimopi)
Youtube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[sonictheyoutuber]

My crush did all of these, but i woke up 😊

[Eric-ktkv]

When you realise that you were unknowingly and obviously showing the signs in the video to your crush, yet they don't return any:

[Aan]

Timestamps
1). Something personal 0:25
2). Prosocial teasing 1:01
3). Genuine compliments 1:42
4). Genuine support 2:13
5). Can't stop talking 2:52
6). I love you 3:22

Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[hongshinnn]

My friend told me that I don't look like I love my boyfriend, but when I watch this, I realized that I really love my boyfriend so much because I did every behavior in this video to my boyfriend only

[khrisbreezy]

We will all experience this true love someday, stay strong! 🍀

[TheUnkindness]

The last girl I dated, she was the one who came to talk to me first and she displayed all of those signs, except for saying ''I love you''. And I've also never seen a girl show so many signs of attraction and interest towards a man, ever (besides for celebrity crushes).

She was pretty close to the ideal girl to me. Too bad I caught her with another guy. I don't trust ''signs'' anymore.

[prik]

Watching this while knowing nobody has a crush on me.

[Neo.]

Translation: things I will never, ever hear in my lifetime.

[charlottedb]

Sending this to my crush to make sure she knows I’m doing all of those things because I have a crush on her

[ziggapoopstainpixbee]

My crush told me, "I love you, " but then said, " Not actually but u know what I mean, " after I helped them. They were so shy it was really cute☺️

[notmatthewz]

I think this is a genuinely great video to tell the difference between friends & crushes. I might become an expert in these kind of things before applying even one of these quotes’ characteristics in real life tbh.

[JULYXXIV]

Well, since we’ve reconnected a couple months ago, my “crush” s has done everything except saying explicitly “I love you”. Her actions leave no doubt that she does.

[alyalawa]

I'm gonna be even more delulu after this😭

[justmoosethings]

The last one really got me. I was planning on telling him “I love spending time with you” next time I saw him.

[Librarian]

I remind everyone how amazing and sexy they are even if I don't want to be in a relationship with them. I'm not even being nice when I say it. I only say it to make people laugh, or feel better in the moment.

Being playful, uplifting really brightens people's mood yet it has on numerous occasions made people who have suffered from a lack of love fall into that impulsive-obsessive dynamic where they find themselves wanting more only to realize what they are actually looking for wasn't me.

Sometimes its better to just be super kind and caring without ever being in a relationship, at all. Learned this lesson the hard way once when I allowed myself to become too attached to a person who only wanted the "fun" side of a relationship but never cared to take any responsibility when relationship maintenance was required.

In other words... If you have a "Crush" be aware of your existing emotional wounds and impulses so you do not get your heart crushed, and/or crush someone else's in the process of trying to feel better.

[Silas_]

Never clicked so fast on a video in my life before

[Faazyduzzy]

Thank you for making this video!! Been looking for something like this

[aventurinediycraft]

My crush rejected me and i was so blind to see that my feelings weren't mutual. Now he is dating some other girl and I was truly blind to see all the signs that they were into each other.😢 Don't be blind like me!! Open up your eyes!! If they turly love you and its mutual, they will definitely make you feel that and be a step ahead.❤❤

[aarushiyadav]

I watch these videos for writing romance and they're wonderful! 💝 I may never be lucky in it irl, but fiction should never lose hope lol.

[average_oddity]

Man, the person I'm dating didn't do any of these they just hit me with nonstop pickup lines until they got tired of my obliviousness and blatantly asked me out.