Should You Give Money To Your Parents ? | Must Watch Video

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[ClarityForYouth]

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[bibhavdash]

I want to add a little point here by giving a real example. My friend got a decent job in central government in West Bengal ( native Odisha). His salary was nearly ₹55, 000/- per month. He never sent any money to his home because his family was rich enough. In course of time he accumulated a good sum of money. But the only mistake he did was he lent the money to his "local" friends in West Bengal with whom he used to play cricket in holidays. When he asked for his money, they delayed it for one year. After that when he asked money seriously, he went missing on that evening and his decomposed dead body was found hanging in neraby tower.

I just want to say that parents should atleast know when and where their child is spending the money until he gets married .

[simranseera]

I feel wise parents will never burden their children by asking for money unnecessarily and they will plan their retirement well. And wise children will always try to support and make their parents lives better (if they are in a better condition themselves). Because it's not about money, it's about the intentions. Giving happiness and comforts to parents bcoz they have been really understanding towards them and raised children with wisdom.

[raspberrypaper]

Parents ko flawless dikhaaya Gaya hai Hamaare culture mein. People forget that parents are humans with flaws. And every individual has been put on this earth to survive and in a good way. Dusrin ke liye karna hai to sant ban jao. Kisi ne nahin Roka.

[AmitSingh-qfth]

You are absolutely right Sir, 12 year back my parent's did the samething, my younger brother has given money to my father, he has purchased plot on sister's name, now he is no more and sister need equal right in father's property and deny to sign on NOC, now she has more property then my brother, relation is too bad among us. Mother is supporting Sister. Ye sab raita parents ka failaya hua hai. Pehle unequality ki ek ko diya dusre ko nahi phir ab jo bacha hai usme bhi chayiye. Better club all asset and divide equally.

[SwastikLIA]

Your best video ever. This thing has happened with me. When I got my first govt service, my father started taking 20% - 30% of my income as his spending, that too for unaccountable reasons. So after giving him around 2.5L in 2 years of time, i gathered courage and started asking for the reasons. Then he started shouting at me, and due to this our relation had touched the bottom. Then I took a step ahead and called him to live with me so that spends become less. Now everything has started going to be good. But Amitji, your words in this video are true and absolutely reasonable. Thanks.

[ms.poonam]

My mom took away even last penny from my salary while marrying me off.. though my parents are financially strong and as such there was no short of money .. her words were "i gave my salary for my wedding and thats how it is done... you also have to do the same"
I had no say on how my salary was spend on my wedding... 😢
I will never pass such a trauma n pain to my daughters...

Wish this video was made earlier

[priyag]

True social reformer and educationalist. Pranam Amit sirji, God bless you abundantly.

[anila]

Marvelous Content!!

My parents have ripped me for show-off. Till I realized the back story, it was too late. Lost all relationships and am struggling broke!!

[guruprasadravi]

In this world of nonsense, you stand out honest, genuine and clearly helping the society. I really like the way you address the issues. Thank you Sir.

[monikagaurchaitna]

Dark reality of Indian society nobody can reveal 🙏🙏 sir u have great guts to taught new generation are suffering a lots

[amritamallik]

My parents became the bank since the time i went to college. And till today. I have told this exact argument with my parents. In return i got the answer that forever you have to repay. They will not put any figure bcz their want of return is unlimited. They will never ever understand. The argument reduced only after i started emotionally becoming distant from them. One instance also my mother asked me to gift a 20 k shoes. I gifted it. A few days later in an argument my mom exclaims that why do u think i asked u to gift ur dad that shoes, i was like why? And the answer just made me crumble into my bed literally.... As she said that in return of the gift i am going to get my father's ashirwaad. I thought parents blesssed us irrespective of gender, intelligence, or looks. But now i know that intellectual ability pe toh bachoan se hi inke blessings biased he, saath hi looks se bhi baised he, gender se toh sabko patah hi he kitna bais he ab paiso se bhi ashirwaad kharidne ke riwaaz chaalu ho gaye hen. Jis tarah mandiron mein business chalte he bhagwaan aur bhakton k beech ussi tarah ab parents bhi investment bankers ban rahe bache paida karke.

[tarameersingh]

If you taught us this 15 years ago, today many of us don't live in a measurable life!

[vandanapahuja]

अरे सर हमने ऐसा देखा है कि माँ बाप बेटे के जीवन की सारी खुशियाँ खा गए। बेटे बहू को बसने ही नहीँ दिया ।इतना कंट्रोल किया। पर यह भी सच है कि सभी माता पिता ऐसे नहीं होते। बहुत से माता पिता अपनी ही संतानो पर सब लुटा कर भी अन्तिम समय में उनकी अवहेलना झेलते हैं।

[gauri]

mai 19 ki age se job karna start kar di thi now 21 year old mai call centres mai kaam karti hu meri almost pura paisa ghr pe le lete hai or naahi meri study ke liye kuch karte mai chid ke apne gayi jagah job chodh di or har waqt mujhse paise mangte mere rakhe hue paise bhi mangte hai ab toh mere pass 500 bhi rehta hai toh usmai se bhi mangte hai mai tang aa chuki hu ekdum

[Partibha.R]

Maine apni ankho k samne dekha ki ek maa ne apne bete ko ye tak ginwa diya ki maine tera jab accident ho gya tha to 8 lakh lgaye ye kiya wo kiya....i was surprised to listen this.... baki ye to normal hi h north india me तू इतना बड़ा ऐसे ही हो गया, हमने तुझे पैदा किया and frustration itni hoti h bachhe ko ki isse achha to mat hi krte paida... palne ka b ehsan gate h maa bap, har din sun sun k bcahha पक jata h.
It is highly logical n sensible❤
आप समाज के नाड़ी वैध हो। एकदम सटीक बताते हो सब।

[hellylook]

Excellent Sangwanji. I recently discovered your videos and I found them extremely honest. You are the one holding a mirror towards the society and showing them their true faces which obviously people don't want to see.

I can vouch for this video because I myself witnessed this in my own family as well as my relative's families. I have gone thru enough pain in my life due to parents expectations. My mistake was that I kept giving the money for initial few years when I started job and wasn't saving anything for myself. And then a couple of friends have imparted some sense into me and I started saving for myself, so I started asking for the purpose when parents asked for money and I only gave what I found genuine and reasonable. I also took the medical insurance for both my parents..but just because I started discussing and openly questioning them about the purpose of asking money, my equation with them was suddenly changed. I, who was the best child became the bad one. So this is the reality of life, thanks for showing this up. I am now living my life on my own terms but it's not a very happy one because I don't share a good relationship with them anymore. 😢
My younger brother who was a student that time and I contributed a big time so that he could finish his studies but he doesn't even know who gave that money for his course because it was between myself and parents. Eventually, parents now only love him and his kids, I am more of an outsider.

[arvinderbakshi]

I have suffered all my life because of this habit of my husband…he was a gazettd officer but I lived hand to mouth..in-laws gave that money to their Daughter..I wish this video was there 40 years ago

[dheerpandey]

आपको ये वीडियो 10 साल पहले बनाना था।
कुछ माता-पिता ऐसे भी होते हैं जो पेंशन पर अच्छी लाइफ जी होते हैं, फिर भी आवारा बच्चों के लिए जान देते हैं और जो बच्चा लाइफ में अच्छा कर रहा होता है उसके ही जीवन में कलेश करते हैं।

[Kuchcreativesa]

Soo logical. I am the Parent of two kids. And totally agree with you. In future I will not becoming the bank. I will give a safe and free environment to both. Thank you for the clarity.